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1. InnerSkil Guiding Talent to Success
The Art of Negotiating
September 10, 2008
Rick O’Malley
2. The Art of Negotiating
3. Death, Taxes, and Negotiating Most of us hate negotiating, and we despise its evil cousin, confrontation
Exposes our perceived weaknesses
Performs plastic surgery on our poker faces
Rattles our nerves
We’re afraid to fail
We assume the other guy is out
to get us
And, it might actually make us sick to our stomach just thinking about it.
4. You have Nothing to Fear but Fear Itself Facts:
You know your products.
You know your processes.
You know their value.
So, what is there to fear about negotiating?
5. Exercise: What Makes A Good Negotiator? Competitiveness
Persistence
Personal Integrity
Open-Mindedness
Listening Ability
Non-Verbal Communication Skills
6. What Makes a Good Negotiation? TIP #1 – Plan, Plan, Plan
The Discovery Process
What are the important
things to know going into
the negotiation?
Think like a Reporter…
Who, What, Where,
When, Why, and How?
Use a checklist:
Opportunity Planner
7. Negotiating Tactics (ad nauseam…) Auction: Set sellers or buyers against one another.
Better offer: Indicate a better offer from the competition.
Better than that: Just say “You'll have to do better than that...”
Deadlines: Push them up against the wall of time.
Funny money: Financial games, percentages, increments, etc.
New issue: Introduce a new key issue during the negotiation.
Nibbling: Constant adding of small requirements.
Slicing: Break one deal down into multiple smaller deals.
8. Defusing the Bomb Respond to Tactics by Thinking “PIOC”:
People
Interests
Options
Criteria
Principled Negotiation
‘Getting to Yes’
by Fisher and Ury
9. Defusing the Bomb Take an extra moment to focus on Interests
Search for the basic concerns that motivate all people:
Security
Economic well-being
‘Belonging’
Recognition
Control
Address those needs…
…and you’ll increase your opportunity for reaching agreement
10. Defusing the Bomb And, don’t forget about Substantive issues:
Terms
Conditions
Pricing
Dates
Numbers
Liability
11. What to do at a Stalemate? Always Know Your BATNA:
Best
Alternative
To a
Negotiated
Agreement
What’s your
micro-BATNA?
12. Closing If there’s one, or two, messages I want you to take away…
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