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Family Cultures and Communities

Family Cultures and Communities. Extended families. Interdependent family structure in the Bible has more in common with stable rural families in developing countries than in fragmenting nuclear families in more developed countries. Nuclear families.

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Family Cultures and Communities

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  1. Family Cultures and Communities Celebrating Children

  2. Extended families • Interdependent family structure in the Bible has more in common with stable rural families in developing countries than in fragmenting nuclear families in more developed countries Celebrating Children

  3. Nuclear families • Average family is made up of three or four people • Relatives may be miles away • Families are separated from their extended families as they migrate to the cities • Husbands look for work in the cities apart from their families which leads to further fragmentation of the family Celebrating Children

  4. Patriarchal families • Found in developing countries • Characterized by dominion and control over women and children • This model stands in contrast to the Christian understanding of marriage as a covenantal relationship • Christian parents are called to listen to and respect their children, just as children are called to listen and respect their parents Celebrating Children

  5. Disintegration of Family Life • Worsening economic conditions • Individualism expressed in divorce, out-of-wedlock births, single parenting and careerism • Emphasis on the needs of the individual rather than the group • Marriage no longer offers security for the couple or for the children Celebrating Children

  6. Disintegration of Family Life • Shift to the city means that many families cannot move as clans but only as nuclear families • Competition rather than interdependence can then become the familial and cultural norm • Conflict/war situations can cause families to be separated for extended and indefinite periods Celebrating Children

  7. Disintegration of Family Life • In many cultures in developing countries it is considered an obligation for a child to earn an income for ageing parents • Obligation is judged to be more important than the ‘morality’ or safety of the employment • Sometimes it may be acceptable for the children to go into prostitution Celebrating Children

  8. The Family According to Scripture • An institution in which God’s grace is experienced and where people find nurture and healing, thereby growing as persons in their individuality, in their social relations and in their relations with God • In a society made up of extended interdependent family units, Jesus emphasized his relationship with his heavenly Father (Luke 2:41-52) Celebrating Children

  9. The Family According to Scripture • Jesus describes his disciples as his ‘mother and brothers’ over his own family (Mark 3:34-35) • He says that those who love father or mother more than Jesus are not worthy of him (Matt. 10:37) • These passages point to the idea that the new family of God takes precedence over the biological family Celebrating Children

  10. The Family According to Scripture • Where children have an absent father because of divorce, war or excessive work demands, the discovery of God as a heavenly Father, perfect and reliable unlike any human parent, can be healing and liberating Celebrating Children

  11. The Family According to Scripture • Thomas Aquinas described how children are made in part in the image of their parents and naturally belong to and are valued by them • They are also made in the image of God and belong to and are valued by Him Celebrating Children

  12. The Family According to Scripture • The Christian family is not a safe haven apart from the world, but a powerful witness into the world • Vulnerable families need to learn the responsibility and joy of reaching out in hospitality rather than focusing on the fears associated with self-preservation Celebrating Children

  13. Importance of Parenting • Children growing up outside of biological two-parent families were twice as likely to do poorly in school, twice as likely to be single parents themselves and one-and-a half times more likely to be single parents themselves • These results did not depend on race, education or age Celebrating Children

  14. Importance of Parenting • Stepfamilies and single parents were less successful in raising children than intact, biologically-related families • Parenting is the single largest variable implicated in childhood illness and accidents, teenage pregnancy and substance misuse, truancy, school disruption and under-achievement, child abuse, unemployment, juvenile crime and mental illness Celebrating Children

  15. Who are the widows and orphans? • Different cultures and societies have different family structures • While children can most benefit from a two-parent family, this is not always possible • God is the defender of the fatherless (Deut. 10:18) • Covenant community is encouraged to be similarly compassionate (Exod. 22:25-27) Celebrating Children

  16. Who are the widows and orphans? • James 1:27 describes a ‘pure and faultless’ religion as characterized by those who ‘look after orphans and widows’ • Difficulty for the church today is there are so many children who do not fit neatly into the two-parent structure • Find out the needs of one-parent families by asking them and taking responsibility as a church to support them Celebrating Children

  17. Who are the widows and orphans? • Some countries have culturally appropriate ways of absorbing orphans – thru an extended family or a monastery • In other situations the loss of life may be so great (due to war, disaster or HIV/AIDS) that the community has limited capacity to absorb children who do not have both parents Celebrating Children

  18. Who are the widows and orphans? • Orphans living as ‘child-headed households’ need love and support of adults, but may not need adults to take over all responsibilities • They should be asked what they need and the assumption should not be that they are incapable and incompetent Celebrating Children

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