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Conflict Resolution Skills for Effective Leadership:

Conflict Resolution Skills for Effective Leadership:. National Civil Engineering Department Heads Conference Madison, WI May 22, 2011 Harry Webne-Behrman Collaborative Initiative, Inc. cimediate@sbcglobal.net 608-231-5884.

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Conflict Resolution Skills for Effective Leadership:

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  1. Conflict Resolution Skills for Effective Leadership: National Civil Engineering Department Heads Conference Madison, WI May 22, 2011 Harry Webne-Behrman Collaborative Initiative, Inc. cimediate@sbcglobal.net 608-231-5884

  2. What is Conflict? What are some important conflicts you are called upon to address as leaders? (Reflection/Discussion) • Conflict Management Process (Special Considerations for Leadership) Agenda

  3. Exercising Leadership – Special Opportunities (and Challenges): • Managing Impasse • Dealing with Power Disparities • Dispute Settlement Systems Analysis: Understanding Opportunities for Leverage • Synthesis/ Evaluation/ Closing Agenda (continued)

  4. Please consider a time when you worked through a conflictive, challenging issue well…or witnessed others doing so: • What happened? • How did people feel as a result? • What did you learn from that experience that you have brought forward with you? Building from our experience…

  5. In conflict, the parties perceive a threat to their needs, interests, or concerns • They perceive finite resources, limited options, and limited solutions • People respond to the perceived threats, rather than to an “objective” reality What is Conflict?

  6. Substantive needs = the “stuff” of the conflict… typical definition of problem • Procedural needs = how we foster a fair and well understood process… “Ground Rules” • Psychological needs = concerning trust, honesty, safety, security, integrity Needs in Negotiation

  7. What are some important conflicts that you face in your work environment? • In what ways are they addressed? • How is leadership provided to effectively address these situations? • Barriers/ challenges: What gets in the way of an effective response? • Personal • Interpersonal • Structural/ systemic challenges Discussion: Key Sources of Conflict

  8. Active Listening • Assertive Communication • Flexibility in Problem Solving • Collaborative Negotiation • Managing Impasse ***For leaders... Modeling, encouraging, and facilitating the best expression of these skills... Key Skills of Conflict Resolution

  9. Focus on each stage as an opportunity to exercise leadership: • What are my personal strengths as I look at the elements of this process? • How might I model such approaches? Where do I need assistance in order to improve? • Where are there ‘teachable moments’ from which all of us may learn together? • How might we support one another in improving our capacity to manage conflicts effectively? Overview (Inside the Process)

  10. Properly exercise and diet… manage stress • Know your “hot buttons” so you can mediate your response Leadership Questions: How well do we take care of ourselves in our work environment? What resources exist to support a healthy organization and affirming work space? Step #1: Take Care and Take Stock!

  11. Clarify substantive, procedural, and psychological needs • Identify desired outcomes from negotiation • Look at BATNA, WATNA, and MLATNA Leadership Questions: How well do we truly understand the needs of people who are engaged in conflicts? What spaces exist to improve that understanding? Step #2: Understand Your Needs Threatened by the Conflict

  12. Consider privacy, neutral location • Utilize third parties (mediators, facilitators, advocates), as appropriate • Establish “ground rules” to support a collaborative negotiation process Leadership Questions: How might we create spaces that support this type of dialogue? Who might be good candidates to serve as 3rd parties to assist the process? Step #3: Identify a Safe Space for Negotiation

  13. Non-verbal messages • Body Language • Tone of voice • Eye contact • Removing distractions Step #4: Active Listening

  14. Verbal responses: • Encouraging • Clarifying • Restating • Reflecting • Summarizing • Validating Leadership Question: In what ways do I model ‘active listening’ in order to encourage it in others? Active Listening

  15. Express your needs to the other party • Identify specific desired outcomes together • Understand your BATNA, WATNA, and MLATNA (as alternatives) • Start with an “I-message” • Continue to listen with respect Leadership Questions: Am I clear in conveying what I expect from others? Do I express myself with respect and openness? Step #5: Assertive Communication

  16. Focus on underlying interests and needs • Take one issue at a time • Generate several possible solutions • Clarify criteria for evaluating options • Stay flexible! There are solutions out there! Leadership Questions: How flexibly do we approach challenging issues… are we open to new approaches and innovative solutions? Step #6: Problem Solving

  17. Set aside the issue and “name the impasse” • Review definition of the problem • Shift from substantive to procedural needs • Reiterate “ground rules” • Look at BATNA… • Consider a structured break • Treat the impasse with respect Leadership Question: Do we treat impasse with respect or do we try to minimize it or abandon the process when confronting it? This is one of the core challenges of leadership… Step #7: Managing Impasse

  18. Patiently address all key issues • Review the agreement for clarity • Look for “Hallmarks” of a good agreement Leadership Question: Can we make the time available to our faculty and staff to really work through the meaningful issues that get us bogged down? Step #8: Build an Agreement that Works!

  19. Fair • Balanced • Realistic • Responds to Needs of the Conflict • Specific Enough • As self-enforcing as possible • Future-oriented Hallmarks of a Good Agreement

  20. Do all you can to implement the Agreement • Arrange a time to meet together and review the Agreement: • Did we follow through with the agreement? • Is it working? How can it be improved? • Are there any additional areas of concern? Implement and Evaluate

  21. Recognize multiple sources of power: * Position power * Coercive power * Power of Expertise * Normative Power * Referent Power Dealing With Power Disparities

  22. Clarify conditions required to promote an affirming negotiation climate • Consider alternative modes of communication • Build an “empowering agenda,” rather than an “enabling agenda” • Stay aware of BATNA… Power Disparities (continued)

  23. Formal Systems • Grievance procedures • Official policies • Informal Systems • People who are effective role models and good listeners with strong relational skills • Non-formal Systems • Intentional, peer-driven, draw upon representative cross-sections and cultures Build upon what works!!! Understand Dispute Settlement Systems That Are in Place

  24. Conflict resolution is a process • Conflicts occur as a normal part of organization life • We need to establish infrastructures that manage conflicts effectively • We need to model effective approaches and support staff efforts to acquire skills In Conclusion…

  25. Contact Harry at Collaborative Initiative, cimediate@sbcglobal.net • Visit the UW “Conflict Resolution Skills site” at: http://www.ohrd.wisc.edu/home/HideATab/FullyPreparedtoManage/ConflictResolution/tabid/297/Default.aspx For additional information…

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