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1. Understanding Interpersonal Relationships
2. Relationships Sets of expectations two people have for their behavior based on the pattern of interaction between them
3. Types of Relationships Acquaintances
Friends
Close friends or intimates
Platonic relationship
Romantic relationship
4. Acquaintanceship Guidelines Initiate conversations
Develop an other-centered focus
Engage in appropriate turn-taking
Make your comments relevant to what has previously been said before you change subjects
Be polite
5. Friendship Guidelines Initiation
Responsiveness
Self-disclosure
Emotional support
Conflict management
6. Intimacy Guidelines Be dependable
Be responsive
Be collaborative
Be faithful
Be transparent
Be willing to put your relationship first
7. Self-Disclosure & Feedback Self-disclosure – sharing biographical data, personal ideas, and feelings that are unknown to the other person
Feedback – verbal and physical responses to people (and/or their messages) within the relationship
Johari Window – a tool for examining the relationship between self-disclosure and feedback in the relationship
8. The Johari Window
9. Open pane
Secret pane
Blind pane
Unknown pane The Johari Window Cont.
10. Communication in the Stages of Relationships Beginning relationships
Developing relationships
Maintaining relationships
Deteriorating and dissolving relationships
11. Autonomy – Connection
Openness – Closedness
Novelty – Predictability
Relational Dialectics
12. Managing Dialectical Tensions Temporal selection
Topical segmentation
Neutralization
Reframing
13. Web Resources Keeping & Revealing Secrets
Communicating with In-Laws
Podcast: Dr. Sias - Workplace Relationships
Podcast: Dr. Rawlins - Communication & Friendship