실패를 통한 성장

1. 실패를 통한 성장 리빙프리제자학교 틴 챌린지 코리아 서울, 한국

2. 토론: 나의 실패의 요인

3. 1.다른 종류의 실패 • 죄가 아닌 실패 • 실수 • 경기에서 지는 것 • 시험에서 떨어지는 것 • 목적을 이루지 못함

4. 1.다른 종류의 실패 • 죄가 되는 실패 • 하나님의 법과 사람의 법을 불순종할때 • 올바른 일을 하지 않을때 • 매번 죄의 유혹에 빠질 때

5. 1.또 다른 종류의 실패 • 죄로 빠지게 만드는 실패

6. 2. 나의 실패에 대한 하나님의 반응 • 하나님을 실패케 할때 슬퍼하심 • 우리안에 죄책감을 느끼게 하심 • 용서해주실것을 약속하셨음

7. 2. 나의 실패에 대한 하나님의 반응 • 그의 자녀들을 훈계하심 • 미래에 대한 소망의 이유를 주심

8. 3.나의 문제에 대한 이해 Surface Problems Surface Causes Root Problems Root Cause

9. 3. 나의 문제에 대한 이해 Hebrews 12:15-17 Isaiah 53:6 Isaiah 55:7

10. 4. 실패의 결과들 • 사망으로 이끄는 죄 • 죄책감 • 공허감 • 훈계 • 나쁜 습관들 • 중독증 • 과거의 상처의 실패의 기억들

11. 5.실패의 대응하는 일반적인 방법 • 겉에 보이는 문제들만 해결 • 그냥 방치한다 • 문제로부터 도피

12. 5.실패의 대응하는 일반적인 방법 • 문제를 속에서 억누름 • 문제를 무시함 • 문제에 대한 변명과 정당화 • 하나님의 방법에 대한 실패의 반응

13. 6. 실패했을때 나는 어떻게 해야하는가? • 나 자신이 틀렸다고 인정 • 하나님께 용서를 구함 • 죄를 그만 저지를 것을 결정하고 행함

14. 6. 실패했을때 나는 어떻게 해야하는가? • 실패의 요인을 알아본다 • 실패에서 다시 일어나기 위한 하나님의 방법을 찾아본다 • 계속적으로 실패할때 실망치 말라 • 열린마음으로 훈계를 받되 분을 품지 말라

15. 7.용서를 구하기 전에… • 하나님과 당신자신에게 자신의 잘못을 인정하라 • 당신이 정확하게 무엇을 잘못했는지 알아야 한다

16. 8.용서를 구하는 잘못된 방법 • “내가 잘못했다면 나를 용서하세요…” • “나도 잘못했지만 당신도 잘못했어요…”

17. 9.용서를 구하는 올바른 방법 • “내가 잘못했어요(무엇을 잘못했는지 설명하라) . 용서해 줄래요?”

18. 10.보상에 대한 성경적 형태 보상: 헬라어 “apokatastis” ApokatastiV Apo: “Back, again” Kathistemi: “To set in order”

19. 10.보상에 대한 성경적 형태 • 공공도로의 복구 • 법적실소유자에게 소유권회복 • 회계의 균형 ApokatastiV

20. 10.보상에 대한 성경적 형태 마태복음5:23-24 누가복음19:1-10 갈라디아서6:1-2

21. 11. 보상과 회복의 단계 • 하나님께 약속함 • 상대방과의 관계회복 • 물질적인 보상과 회복

22. 12. 보상과 회복의 결과들 • 내적인 평안 • 고통이 따라 올수도 있음 • 삶을 통해 단순히 말로만으로가 아닌 행동으로 본을 보이며 살아야 한다는 진리를 깨닫게 됨 • 죄로부터 용서를 받음

23. 13.지루함의 정의 지루함:계속적으로 반복되는 일에 대해 피곤함이나 둔함을 느끼는 것 솔로몬왕은 BORED!

24. 13.왜 지루하게 느끼는가? • 아무것도 할일이 없을때 • 내가 하는일에 흥미를 느끼지 못할때 • 내가 하는 일이 탐탁치 않게 여겨질때 • 피곤하거나 우울할때 • 삶에 희망이 없을 때

25. 13.왜 지루하게 느끼는가? • 내가 하는 일이 나에게 어떻게 도움이 될지 알지 못할때 • 일의 다양성이 부족할 때 • 일을 할때 • 내 삶의 영역에서 최선을 다하지 못할 때 – 신체적,정신적,영적

26. 14. 지루함의 결과들은 무엇인가? • 피곤함,졸림,게으름 • 더이상 일하기 싫다 • 우울하다 • 문제에 빠진다 • 다른사람들과 자꾸 마찰이 생긴다

27. 14. 지루함의 결과들은 무엇인가 ? • 다시 시도하는 것을 그만두고 이제 다 포기한다 • 나쁜습관들이 하나 둘씩 생긴다 • 짜증이 늘어난다 • 내가 하는일에 흥미를 잃는다 • 약물이나 술 음식에 빠진다

28. 15. 지루함을 어떻게 방지할수 있는가? 삶의 모든 영역에서 균형있는 성장을 계발하라 GROWTH

29. 실패를 통한 성장 틴 챌린지 코리아 서울, 한국

30. 로마서 Romans 13:1-2 Obey the government, for God is the one who put it there. All governments have been placed in power by God. 2 So those who refuse to obey the laws of the land are refusing to obey God, and punishment will follow.

31. 야고보서 James 4:17 Remember, it is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.

32. 고린도전서 1 Corinthians 10:13 But remember that the temptations that come into your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can’t stand up against it. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you will not give in to it.

33. 요한복음 John 16:8 And when he (the Holy Spirit) comes, he will convince the world of its sin, and of God’s righteousness, and of the coming judgment.

34. 요한 일서 1 John 1:9 If we say we have no sin, we are only fooling ourselves and refusing to accept the truth. 9 But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from every wrong.

35. 히브리서 Hebrews 12:5-11 And have you entirely forgotten the encouraging words God spoke to you, his children? He said, “My child, don’t ignore it when the Lord disciplines you, and don’t be discouraged when he corrects you. 6 For the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes those he accepts as his children.”

36. 히브리서 Hebrews 12:5-11 7 As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Whoever heard of a child who was never disciplined? 8 If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children after all.

37. 히브리서 Hebrews 12:5-11 9 Since we respect our earthly fathers who disciplined us, should we not all the more cheerfully submit to the discipline of our heavenly Father and live forever? 10 For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always right and good for us because it means we will share in his holiness.

38. 히브리서 Hebrews 12:5-11 11 No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening—it is painful! But afterward there will be a quiet harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way.

39. 골로새서 Colossians 1:20-22 … and by him <Jesus> God reconciled everything to himself. He made peace with everything in heaven and on earth by means of his blood on the cross. 21 This includes you who were once so far away from God. You were his enemies, separated from him by your evil thoughts and actions,

40. 골로새서 Colossians 1:20-22 22 yet now he has brought you back as his friends. He has done this through his death on the cross in his own human body. As a result, he has brought you into the very presence of God, and you are holy and blameless as you stand before him without a single fault.

41. 히브리서 Hebrews 12:15-17 Look after each other so that none of you will miss out on the special favor of God. Watch out that no bitter root of unbelief rises up among you, for whenever it springs up, many are corrupted by its poison. 16 Make sure that no one is immoral or godless like Esau. He traded his birthright as the oldest son for a single meal. 17 And afterward, when he wanted his father’s blessing, he was rejected. It was too late for repentance, even though he wept bitter tears.

42. 이사야 Isaiah 53:6 All of us have strayed away like sheep. We have left God’s paths to follow our own. Yet the Lord laid on him the guilt and sins of us all.

43. 이사야 Isaiah 55:7 Let the people turn from their wicked deeds. Let them banish from their minds the very thought of doing wrong! Let them turn to the Lord that he may have mercy on them. Yes, turn to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

44. 마태복음 Matthew 5:23, 24 “So if you are standing before the altar in the Temple, offering a sacrifice to God, and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you,24leave your sacrifice there beside the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God.

45. 누가복음 Luke 19:1-10 Jesus entered Jericho and made his way through the town. 2 There was a man there named Zacchaeus. He was one of the most influential Jews in the Roman tax-collecting business, and he had become very rich. 3 He tried to get a look at Jesus, but he was too short to see over the crowds.

46. 누가복음 Luke 19:1-10 4 So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore tree beside the road, so he could watch from there. 5 When Jesus came by, he looked up at Zacchaeus and called him by name. “Zacchaeus!” he said. “Quick, come down! For I must be a guest in your home today.”

47. 누가복음 Luke 19:1-10 6 Zacchaeus quickly climbed down and took Jesus to his house in great excitement and joy. 7 But the crowds were displeased. “He has gone to be the guest of a notorious sinner,” they grumbled.

48. 누가복음 Luke 19:1-10 8 Meanwhile, Zacchaeus stood there and said to the Lord, “I will give half my wealth to the poor, Lord, and if I have overcharged people on their taxes, I will give them back four times as much!”

49. 누가복음 Luke 19:1-10 9 Jesus responded, “Salvation has come to this home today, for this man has shown himself to be a son of Abraham.10And I, the Son of Man, have come to seek and save those like him who are lost.”

50. 갈라디아서 Galatians 6:1-2 Dear brothers and sisters, if another Christian is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. And be careful not to fall into the same temptation yourself. 2 Share each other’s troubles and problems, and in this way obey the law of Christ.