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1. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? 岱山县东沙中学 陈 清 清

2. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Smile confident

3. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? nervous

4. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? yawn

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6. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? avoid

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10. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? The main idea of the passage How to do small Talk !! Develop your listening skills!! how to improve Our Social Skills Learn the rules !!

11. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Scanning • The main idea of each paragraph: • part1 Introduction to the body of the passage by asking questions • Part 2 How to do small talk • Part 3 Dos and don’ts while listening • Part 4 The social rules

12. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Careful reading • 1 According to the article, should people plan what they’re going to say at parties? • 2.What do people think about those who talk too much? • 3 Describe two things you shouldn’t do in a conversation. • 4 Why is it a good idea to nod and smile when the other person is talking? • 5 Can you guess you have to arrive on time at a party in America?

13. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Careful reading • 1 According to the article, should people plan what they’re going to say at parties? • Yes, they should prepare some topics to talk about • 2.What do people think about those who talk too much? • They are not impressive. • 3 Describe two things you shouldn’t do in a conversation. • Look at your watch; yawn (sigh, look away, change the subject, finish other people’s sentences).

14. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Careful reading • 4 Why is it a good idea to nod and smile when the other person is talking? • To show that you are listening. • 5 Can you guess you have to arrive on time at a party in America ? • No, you don’t need to arrive on time.

15. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Fill in the blanks Do … Don’t … have some low-risk topics look at your watch show that you are listening yawn keep good eye contact sigh use positive body language look away from the person … ask for more information toshow your interest change the subject remember some social rules finish others’ sentences …

16. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Pair work which of the social skills do you need to improve ? ( what you must do/mustn’t do at school)

17. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Could you offer your ideas? • lucy just graduated from a university, she is looking for a job in a computer firm and she will have an interview tomorrow. But she has no experience before, it is likely that she won’t be successful. She is really worried now ,What should she do?

18. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? • ________ for possible • questions • c. Be dressed __________ • g. Collect ____________ Prepare Before the interview smartly information

19. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? b. be confident d. be ____________ e. show your ______ in the job f. make eye _______ h. ______ carefully i. be ___ time enthusiastic During the interview interest contact listen on

20. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? • 2.Zhouyang is a Chinese worker, he’s now taking further education in America for a week . his American friend invites him to a party this evening, he wants to have a good time with his family members. However,he doesn’t know the rules, he sends you an e-mail: can you give him some good suggestions??

21. Don’t need to arrive on time, you can be late for 5-10 minutes. • You should greet hostess first. • Think of topics that they are all interested in. • You can take small gifts • Knowing table manners is very important.

22. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? • 3.Dear friends: I have two new friends who I just knew yesterday. Tomorrow we’ll see a movie, I want to invite them to a café after seeing the movie. I do hope I can impress them but I don’t know how to do small talk , I feel very nervous. Now I’m wondering whether to invite them or not.

23. Ask their questions that are: • Work-related: what they do; how they like it; how long they have been working there, etc. • Family-related: what their family's like; what they do; whether they're close, etc. • Hobby-related: what they like to do in their spare time; what they do on weekends, etc. • Pop culture-related: what kind of music they like; what their favorite movie is; whether they liked the movie you just saw, etc.

24. keep the small talk light, interesting and avoid anything philosophical, sexual and personal.

25. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? 7 key social skills • 1) The ability to remain relaxed while in social situations • 2) Listening skills, including letting others know you are listening • 3) Knowing how, when and how much to talk about yourself • 4) Keeping eye contact • 5) keeping always smiling

26. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Improve our social skills, and try to be a success !!

27. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Homework • Write a short passage about how to improve your good social skills .You can choose one aspect.

28. How Good Are Your Social Skills ? Thank You !!