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Treating the Non-Offending Parent

Treating the Non-Offending Parent. By: Angelé Morgan, M.S.W., L.C.S.W. Definition of a Non-Offending Parent (NOP). Any caregiver who ignores (directly or indirectly) the signs and symptoms of child abuse and neglect and fails to protect a child. Purpose of Treating the Non-Offending Parent.

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Treating the Non-Offending Parent

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  1. Treating the Non-Offending Parent By: Angelé Morgan, M.S.W., L.C.S.W.

  2. Definition of a Non-Offending Parent (NOP) • Any caregiver who ignores (directly or indirectly) the signs and symptoms of child abuse and neglect and fails to protect a child

  3. Purpose of Treating the Non-Offending Parent Family Safety This is accomplished through: - Education - Guidance - Support

  4. What to Expect as a Facilitator

  5. In The Beginning Expect Resistance and Anger from the clients - Non-Offending Parents feel judged by “the system” and “forced” to make quick decisions.

  6. During The ProcessSome of the clients will not see the purpose of the treatment or engage in the learning process

  7. The OthersWill engage in treatment and actively learn

  8. Facilitator Challenges Counter-Transference: Our ability to listen and help a parent who fails to protect their child.

  9. Client’s Right to Choose: This class is particularly difficult for facilitators because, as hard as most of us try, we cannot understand how a parent would choose to be with an offender over their own child. So in order for the NOP’s to listen and learn from the facilitator there must be a non-judgmental and caring attitude going into each session. Hearing this choice repeatedly can make it very difficult to stay motivated to help non-offending parents and to maintain the goals of treatment.

  10. Goals of Treatment • Encourage parents to learn safety factors to protect their children • Provide a better understanding and level of support for the parent’s current situation • Help parents move out of denial

  11. Different Roles of the Non-Offending Parent • Parent • Spouse/Partner • Victim • Offender (Neglect and Failure to Protect)

  12. What are some reasons a non-offending parent might be in denial?

  13. FEAR - Fear of having to choose between abuser and child - Financial Fears - Fear of facing their own past abuse - Fear of being blamed or called a bad parent

  14. Dynamics Associated with Non-Offending Parent • NOP is grieving the loss of a relationship • NOP may be a victim of past abuse themselves • NOP may be feeling like a “bad” parent for not protecting his/her own child • NOP may be in denial • NOP may be jealous

  15. Outcomes for the Treatment of the Non-Offending Parent

  16. Measure the Concepts Learned - Use a written test to measure what the non- offending parent has learned - The facilitator offers recommendations to the referral source based on the non-offending parent’s participation, application of what they have learned (scenarios), and test scores

  17. Moving Forward

  18. Two Types of Reunification • Reunification between the victim and the Non-Offending Parent

  19. Reunification steps when the victim is removed from the home Step1 Individual therapy session for the victim to discuss concerns related to returning home with the non-offending parent. The victim may want to make a list of questions for the non-offending parent to answer

  20. Step 2 Individual therapy session with the non-offending parent to address concerns and questions the victim has listed from step 1. This session is to ensure the non-offending parent is not blaming the victim and is addressing the victim’s concerns appropriately

  21. Step 3 Family therapy session between the non-offending parent and victim to discuss the concerns and provide solutions which will ensure safety

  22. Reunification between the victim and the abuser

  23. Reunification Process Between the Victim and Abuser No- Process stops Does the victim want reunification? Yes No- Process stops Has the victim completed counseling? Yes No- Process stops Does the victims counselor agree that victim is ready? Yes No- Process stops Does the abuser’s counselor agree that abuser is ready? Yes

  24. Reunification Process with Abuser • Apology Session • Clarification Session • Family Safety Session • Ongoing Family Sessions

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