Bullying/Harassment Prevention

1. Bullying/Harassment Prevention Seymour Middle School

2. Officer Hilgenberg– Police Liaison Officer Ms. Landreman– Dean of Students Mrs. Vogel – Counselor

3. What We Need to Remember…. • When we talk about bullying we need to respect each other’s feelings and privacy. • It is NOT okay to criticize what other people say or do as we talk about bullying. • Let’s handle this discussion maturely.

4. Truancy • Wisconsin State Statute 118: • “Truant” means a pupil who is absent from school without an acceptable excuse for part or all of any day on which school is held. • You are considered truant when: • You are tardy for class or are not in your assigned location • You do not come to school and do not have an acceptable reason. • If you are truant: • You could receive a citation from law enforcement • You could be referred to Juvenile Intake and be assigned a social worker. GET TO CLASS!!

5. VIDEO • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1J5IXV6P54 The Effects of Bullying

6. Why do we talk about Bullying? • Bullying is a very serious social and legal problem. All schools must take steps to stop it from happening. • By learning about bullying, we are creating a healthier school environment for everyone.

7. Set you on the right path… • Studies show that bullies are more likely to be incarcerated as adults, more likely to have drug/alcohol abuse, and more abusive relationships • Colleges/Employers – think about your future – once it’s out there it’s for LIFE

8. Bullying is NOT just teasing. A person is being bullied or victimized when he or she is exposed repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more persons. (Olweus, 1991)

9. Bullying Examples • De-panting (consequences-Disorderly Conduct) • Excessively texting someone after they tell you to stop • Sexting: Displaying sexual graphics (sending pictures) • Touching someone inappropriately • That’s “Gay” • Racial comments

10. Cyberbullying • Texting-during school hours (harassment charges) (all information from both parties can be accessed) • Facebook-during school hours (your account can be pulled up…never deleted) • Do you really know who you are talking to on the other end? • Sexting-law enforcement involved Reminder -no electronics in the bathrooms or locker rooms

11. EFFECTS of BULLYING ACADEMIC • School avoidance • Truancy • Lower grades • Lower self-esteem

12. EFFECTS of BULLYING Health Problems • Loss of appetite • Nervousness • Depression • Headaches / Stomachaches • Loss of sleep

13. EFFECTS of BULLYING Adjustment Problems • Emotional Distress • Anxiety • Loneliness • Suicidal ideations and attempts • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NScGl6qWfM

14. Reporting Bullying • 1.) Tell a Teacher Who, What, When, Where, and How • 2.) If problem continues, fill out a white slip (by office window) • 3.) Ms. Vogel or Ms. Landreman depending on issue, will meet with you after you have done step 1 and 2 • 4.) Fill out an anonymous form; by office window

15. Office Contact • If you need to speak to someone in the office: • Fill out a blue slip • Fill out a white slip • If someone is in immediate danger, tell us immediately!! • If you have a problem and do not let us know, we cannot help you.

16. Advocate for Yourself!! • Take responsibility for your own actions; behavior, academics, personal issues. • School is your job, no one else is responsible for your actions or should need to defend you for minor issues. • You have a voice... Use it!

17. CRIMESTOPPERS • Help keep our school safe and remain anonymous! • If you’re aware of: • Drugs, alcohol, weapons, theft, vandalism or harrassment… let someone know! • You could be eligible for a cash reward! • www.432stop.com • (920) 432-STOP

19. Be Kind and Compassionate to everyone you meet, they may be fighting a battle you know nothing about.