g~lW iv`c AwieAw, Awpxw Awp guAwieAw

1. g~lW iv`c AwieAw, Awpxw Awp guAwieAw klws 6vIN ivSw: pMjwbI pwT: 8vW ividAwrQI: kuljIq rmn bic`qr rmnIk sRImqI kmlyS kumwrI srkwrI hweI skUl qwmkot izlw mwnsw

2. kI qusIN ieh khwxI pihlW kdy suxI hY? qusIN ikho ijhIAW khwxIAW suxdy ho? ikhVIAW g`lW qoN swnUM swvDwn rihxw cwhIdw hY? swnUM hmySw cMgIAW g`lW ikauN isKxIAW cwhIdIAW hn? mu~FlI jwxkwrI sMbMDI pRSn A`gy c`lo

3. ie`k ikswn kol ie`k Koqw sI[ ikswn nUM pYsy cwhIdy sn, ausny soicAw ik Sihr iv`c jw ky Koqy nUM vyc idMdy hW, kuJ pYsy iml jwxgy[ ie`k idn svyry svyry Awpxy 10-12 swl dy pu`qr nUM nwl lY ky Sihr v`l nUM c`l ipAw[ A`gy A`gy Koqw qy ip~Cy ip`Cy ipau pu`qr qurdy jw rhy sn[

4. Ajy kuJ dUr hI gey sn ik auhnW nUM kuJ kuVIAW iml geIAW[ auh auhnW nUM dyK ky h`s peIAW Aqy ie`k dUjI nUM kihx l`gIAW, dyKo Blw iehnW mUrKW kol cMgw Blw Koqw hY svwrI krn leI, ieh ipau pu`qr nwl nwl pYdl qury jWdy ny[ ikswn auhnW dI g`l sux ky kuJ SrimMdw ijhw ho igAw[

5. soc ivcwr ky auhny Awpxy pu`qr nUM Koqy au`qy ibTw id`qw Aqy Awp pYdl c`lx l`g ipAw[ Ajy QoVI dUr hI gey sn ik auhnW nUM do AwdmI iml gey[ auh auhnW nUM jWidAW dyK dy kihx l`gy, dyKo ies muMfy nUM, h`tw k`tw Awp Koqy au`qy ciVAw bYTw hY, qy bu~Fw ipau l`qW GsItdw jWdw hY[ A`j dy muMifAW nUM mW ipau dw rqw vI iDAwn nhIN[

6. auhnW dI g`l sux ky ikswn muV pRySwn ho igAw[ auhny muMfy nUM Koqy qoN auqwr id`qw Aqy ausdI QW Awp bYT igAw[ hux muMfw B`j-B`j ky Koqy nwl AwpxI cwl imlw irhw sI Aqy nwly swho swh ho irhw sI[

7. do AwjVI rwh iv`c ByfW cwr rhy sn[ jdoN auhnW ny ieh nzwrw dyiKAw qW ie`k dUjy nUM kihx l`gy, dyKo bu~Fy dI Akl nUM[ mlUk ijhw b`cw B`j B~j swho swh hoieAw ipAw hY Aqy Awp nvwb bixAw Koqy qy svwr hoieAw bYTw hY[ • ieh sux ky ikswn ny Awpxy pu`qr nUM Awvwz mwrI, Awjw pu`qrw qUM vI myry nwl Koqy au~qy bYT jwh[

8. ienHy nUM SihroN vwps Aw rhy kuJ bMdy ayuhnW nUM t`kr pey[ auh ipau pu`qr nUM Koqy qy svwr vyK ky bVy hYrwn pRySwn hoey Aqy bolxo nw rih sky, “Koqw iksy dw corI krky ilAwey ho, ijhVw l`gy ho lwhw lYx[” ivcwrw quhwfy dohW dy Bwr nwl d`ibAw ipAw hY[ quhwfy iv`c QoVI bhuqI ienswnIAq hY ik nhIN[ jwnvr ivcwrw bol nhIN skdw, kuJ qW qrs kro[

9. auhnW dI g`l sux ky dovyN ipau pu`qr Koqy qoN hyTW au~qr gey[ auhnW nUM smJ nhIN sI Aw rhI ik auh kI krn? rwh jWdw hr koeI kuJ nw kuJ khI jw irhw sI[ auhnW ny Koqy nUM cu`k ky ljwx dI qrkIb socI[

10. auhnW dohW ny Koqy dIAW l`qW do-do krky bMn id`qIAW Aqy auhnW iv`c ie`k fMfw lMGw ilAw[ ie`k pwisEN ipE ny Aqy dUjy pwisEN pu`qr ny fWg moFy au~qy r`KI[ • hux ipE pu`qr Sihr v`l nUM c`l pey[ rsqy iv`c ie`k pul AwauNdw sI[ auh pul pwr kr rhy sn[ dohW dy moiFAW qy r`KI fWg ivcwly ltkdy Koqy dw nzwrw dyK ky AWauNdy jWdy lok dyK-dyK h`sI jw rhy sn[ auhnW ny Aijhw idRS pihlW kdy nhIN sI dyiKAw[

11. lokW dw Sor sux ky Koqw Gbrw igAw[ ausny ihl jul kIqI qW fWg iPsl ky Koqy smyq ndI iv`c jw if`gI[ dohW dy dyKidAW-dyKidAW Koqw pwxI dy qyz vihx iv`c ruV igAw[ dovyN h`ky-b`ky dyKdy rih gey[

12. ikswn Awpxw isr PVH ky bih igAw Aqy socx l`gw ik mYN hr rwh jWdy nUM KuS krn dw Xqn krdw irhw Aqy iksy nUM KuS nhIN kr sikAw, aultw Awpxw nukswn hI kr bYTw[ • cMgw huMdw jy mYN lokW dIAw g`lW iv`c nw AwaNdw[ Awpxy idmwg dI vrqoN krdw Aqy AwpxI mrzI krdw[ lokW dy bihkwvy iv`c nw AwaNdw qW G`to G`t myrw nukswn qW nw huMdw[

13. mlUk: sohxw, nwzuk idRS: nzwrw qrkIb: FMg, qrIkw pRySwn: GbrwieAw hoieAw, hYrwn hoieAw ienswnIAq: mnu`Kqw, SrwPq AOKy SbdW dy ArQ

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15. kuVIAW ikswn Aqy ausdy pu~qr nUM dyK ky ikauN h`sIAW sn? ipqw Aqy pu`qr ny Koqy nUM moFy qy ikauN cu`ikAw sI? dirAw dy pul qy Aw ky kI vwpirAw? ipau pu`qr dw nukswn ikauN hoieAw? ies khwxI qoN kI is`iKAw imldI hY? pRSn A`gy c`lo

16. 1. kuVIAW ikswn Aqy ausdy pu~qr nUM dyK ky ikauN h`sIAW sn? au~: ikauNiok ikswn Aqy ausdy dy pu`qr kol Koqw hox dy bwvjUd auh dovyN pYdl qury jw rhy sn[ 2. ipqw Aqy pu`qr ny Koqy nUM moFy qy ikauN cu`ikAw sI? au~: ikauNik rwhgIrW ny auhnW nUM ieh kih ky mKOl kIqw sI ik ikauN dovyN ipau pu``qr ies au~pr bYT ky jwn k`F rhy ho[ au~qr A`gy c`lo

17. 3. dirAw dy pul qy Aw ky kI vwpirAw? au~: dohW dy moiFAW qy r`KI fWg ivcwly ltkdy Koqy dw nzwrw dyK ky AWauNdy jWdy lok dyK-dyK h`sI jw rhy sn[lokW dw Sor sux ky Koqw Gbrw igAw[ ausny ihl jul kIqI qW fWg iPsl ky Koqy smyq ndI iv`c jw if`gI[ dohW dy dyKidAW-dyKidAW Koqw pwxI dy qyz vihx iv`c ruV igAw[ dovyN h`ky-b`ky dyKdy rih gey[ A`gy c`lo

18. 4. ipau pu`qr dw nukswn ikauN hoieAw? au~: ikauNik auhnW ny hr rwh jWdy nUM KuS krn dw Xqn kIqw iksy nUM vI KuS nhIN kr sky, aultw Awpxw nukswn hI kr bYTy[ cMgw huMdw jy auh lokW dIAw g`lW iv`c nw AwaNdy[ Awpxy idmwg dI vrqoN krdy[ lokW dy bihkwvy iv`c nw AwaNdy qW G`to G`t myrw nukswn qW nw huMdw[ 5. ies khwxI qoN kI is`iKAw imldI hY? au~: swnUM lokW dy bihkwvy iv`c nhIN Awauxw cwhIdw[ hmySw koeI vI PYslw lYx qoN pihlW Awpxy idmwg dI vrqoN krnI cwhIdI hY[ A`gy c`lo

19. svwrI qrs AwjVI SrimMdw h`tw-k`tw hyT ilKy SbdW nUM vwkW iv`c vrqo A`gy c`lo

20. svwrI: svwrI Awpxy smwn dI Awp izMmyvwr hY[ qrs: ru~KW au`qy qrs kro[ AwjVI: AwjVI nyipr rOlw pwieAw ik Syr Aw igAw[ SrimMdw: auDwr mMg ky SrimMdw nw kro[ h`tw-k`tw: ieh h`tw-k`tw muMfw Awp Koqy qy bYTw hY Aqy ipE l`qW GsItdw jWdw hY[ vwkW dy au~qr A`gy c`lo

21. dyKo bu~Fy dI Akl nUM, mlUk ijhw b`cw B`j B~j swho swh hoieAw ipAw hY Aqy Awp nvwb bixAw Koqy qy svwr hoieAw bYTw hY[ dyKo ies muMfy nUM, h`tw k`tw Awp Koqy au`qy ciVAw bYTw hY, qy bu~Fw ipau l`qW GsItdw jWdw hY[ A`j dy muMifAW nUM mW ipau dw rqw vI iDAwn nhIN[ hyT ilKy Sbd iks ny iks nUM khy A`gy c`lo

22. ijhVy Sbd nWv dI QW vrqy jwx auhnW nUM pVnWv kihMdy hn[ ijvyN mYN, AsIN, qUM qusIN, auh[ pVnWv Cy pRkwr dy huMdy hn: purKvwck pVnWv injvwck pVnWv inscyvwck pVnWv Ainscyvwck pVnWv sMbMDvwck pVnWv pRSnvwck pVnWv ivAwkrn A`gy c`lo

23. ausny soicAw ik Sihr iv`c jw ky Koqy nUM vyc idMdy hW, kuJ pYsy iml jwxgy[ auh auhnw nUM dyK ky h`s peIAW jdoN auhnW ny ieh nzwrw dyiKAw qW ie`k dUjy nUM kihx l`gy, dyKo bu~Fy dI Akl nUM[ ausny ihl jul kIqI qW fWg iPsl ky Koqy smyq ndI iv`c jw if`gI[ hyT ilKy lkIry Sbd pVnWv hn A`gy c`lo

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