Play School in Gurgaon - Beansprouts Pre School

1. ThingsWeShouldNeverSaytoChildren-Beansprouts PreSchool Parenthoodisthemostcomplicatedandtoughtaskforparents.Parentsarethe ultimaterolemodel forchildren.Whatyousay anddoisobservedvery keenlyby your children.Eachwordyouspeakhasaverystrongimpactonyourlittleones. Therefore,itisimperativetothinktwicebeforeyou say anythingtoyour children. Therearemanyphrasesthatlookinnocentbutcanhavepejorativeeffectsona child. Beansprouts,Gurgaon,keenly followstheprinciplesofrespectingeveryone’s individuality,beityoung orold.Humanpsychologyisveryintricate.

2. Asimplewordor phrasespokencasuallycanhave alastingimpact.Abusive languageandharshwordsareastrictnoinconversationwiththechild.Letus analyzea fewandtake some correctivemeasures. Resistancewords/instructions TheparentsusewordslikeDon’t,can’t,should’vetomakechildrenfeelinclined tofollowinstructions.They failtoseethenegativeconnotationwherethechild feelsheisnotallowedanyfreedomasifhe isdoingeverythingwrong.These phrases/wordssoundthreatening.Thesewords canbeconvertedtopositive wordstoteachthe childreninabetterway. Greatjobdone Whenweusephraseslike goodjob,way togo,proud ofyou,practicewillmake youperfect,weconditionthechildtolookfor suchreinforcementafter every work.Itwillalsoputa lotofpressure onthe childashefeelsresponsible for his parent’s reputation. Bodyshaming EventhoughthechildrenareveryyounginBeansproutsMontessoriSchoolyet weensurenevertouseanywordthatcommentsontheirphysicalappearance. It’samatter oftheirself-esteem;thoughtheyare stillkids.Objectifyingyourchild byshowing their embarrassingphotographstoothersisthemostbizarrethingto do.Whenitcomestogettingkidstoeatahealthydiet,thescience isclear:Focus onthebenefitsanddelicioustasteofhealthy food,not onnegativeperceptionsof theirweight.Commentingonweightonlyworrieskidsandhurtstheir self- esteem.Thesekindsofstatementswillnotjusthurtyour child,buttheywill even leadtoemotional stress, eatingdisorders,self-consciousness,andmore.Thekid mustlovehimselfandfeelconfidentandproudofhimself.

3. Letme show you It’stemptingtowanttohelpyour child throughsomethingdifficult,buttheyneed timetolearnontheirown.Instinctivelytakingthereinsisn’tgoingtohelpthem learn.Wemust letthemgainconfidenceandtheir“hands-on“learningwould teachtheminabetterway. Stopcrying It’s important to allow children to cry and show their emotions and frustrations. They need to know it is okay to feel happy, sad, angry, or whatever. Besides, we wouldnever tell anadulttostopcrying,sowhy shouldwesayittochildren?” Don’t crylikegirls Weakpeoplecry

4. The abovewordsandphrasesreflectthe parents‘genderbias’.Itinfluences genderrolesandpromotesstereotyping. Itmaymakeaboyfeelthatsuppressing emotionsisa signofstrengthanditmaymakeagirlfeelrestricted.Such comments mayalsomake childrenputeachotherdown, It’snotthatbig adeal Evenifsomething isn’tabigdealtoyou,itcan beabigdealtoyour child.Telling themthatitisn’tinvalidatedandshamingthemfortheiremotions.Not onlyare theythenupsetabouttheoriginalissue,butthey’re ashamedor embarrassed abouthowupsettheyare ontopofthat.Thesecommentsnever everhelp anyone– childrenoradults. IfyoudothisIwillgiveyou….

5. We use such wordstoencouragethechildrentodobetter.Whatwefailtoseeis thebribeweoffer fordoingwork.Weconditionour childrentoalwayslook for some rewardtoaccomplishanytask. Thisisalsousedbyparentsasathreat.Using feartodisciplinechildrenis unhealthy andusuallybackfires.Simplyexplainswhy you’d likesomethingdone andthey’llbemorelikelytocomply. Therearemanysuchlines as– Idon’tlike you Youdidwellbutyoucandobetter I amdisappointedinyou Lookat yourbrother/friend

6. Don’ttalk to strangers Youarealiar Many suchsimple-looking words/ phrasescanactastoxic.We’veallsaidthe wrongthing attimes,leaving our kidsfeeling angry,hurt,or confused.Wordscan be eternallydamaging, especially comingfromparentswhoaresupposed tobe safeandsupportivefiguresintheir child’slives.“Parents’supportandapproval are essentialforkids’well-being,” saysJillWhitney At Beansprouts, we strive to ensure that your little one grows up in a positive & constructive environment. While parenting, words hold a lot of weight for your childrenastheyactasaguideinshaping achild’sbehavior&personality.