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Sins of the Tongue. Ephesians 4:29. Meddling. 1 Timothy 6:5 (verb). 1 Peter 4:15 (noun). Meddling. Where’s the line?. There is a difference between offering advice and meddling. 1 Timothy 6:5 literally refers to “continual rubbing”.
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Sins of the Tongue Ephesians 4:29
Meddling 1 Timothy 6:5 (verb) 1 Peter 4:15 (noun)
Meddling Where’s the line? • There is a difference between offering advice and meddling. • 1 Timothy 6:5 literally refers to “continual rubbing”. • Continued bickering, arguing, intruding where unwelcome. • Also implies “useless” ideas—constant bickering over things that don’t really matter.
Meddling Where’s the line? • This is not an excuse to keep quiet when we should speak! • Galatians 6:1-2 • But let’s not jump to conclusions, ask questions and find out information. • Don’t meddle in things you do not know about.
Meddling Why Do People Do It? • They think it makes them look better. • It makes them feel better about themselves. • They like to control others.
Gossip Leviticus 19:16 Proverbs 11:13 Proverbs 16:28 Proverbs 18:8 Proverbs 20:19 Proverbs 26:20 Romans 1:29
Gossip Webster’s Definitions • Gossip—noun, one who chatters idly about others • Idle—adjective, 1. useless, futile; 2. unfounded [idle rumors] • Rumor—noun, 1. general talk not based on definite knowledge; 2. an unconfirmed report, story, etc. in general circulation
Gossip • A rumor is passed by gossip. • Gossip can also be spreading confirmed information. • Three important questions to ask • Does this person need to know this information? • Will spreading this information help or hurt the person it is about? • Did I agree to keep the information quiet?
Slander Proverbs 10:18 2 Timothy 3:2-3 Slander—noun, the utterance of falsehood that damages another’s reputation