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Thinking Wrong Doing Right

Thinking Wrong Doing Right. MA Counselling (Rhodes) MSc Sport Psych (Loughborough) PS 0114340 Pr. 0860080434582. WYSIATI “Tuning” Thinking Wrong Acceptable Tuning The Lazy Brain Doing right Motivational climate – setting the tone “What do you mean by that?”

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Thinking Wrong Doing Right

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  1. Thinking Wrong Doing Right MA Counselling (Rhodes) MSc Sport Psych (Loughborough) PS 0114340 Pr. 0860080434582

  2. WYSIATI • “Tuning” • Thinking Wrong • Acceptable Tuning • The Lazy Brain • Doing right • Motivational climate – setting the tone • “What do you mean by that?” • Permission and Position

  3. GABRIEL Enjoys music Gives attention to detail Has a need for order and structure Shy and soft spoken Helpful to neighbours Strong work ethic Passion for detail Is he more likely to be a librarian or a farmer? There are more farmers than male librarians in South Africa

  4. “He is a quiet leader...” “There is Justin Bieber on his iPod • What You See Is All There Is • Jumping conclusions: • Limited information  intuitive reaction • Overconfident  uncritical of status quo • What is the effect of accepting all there is?

  5. “Tuning” “Tuning is acceptable because everyone does it. What did we do wrong if everyone does it?”

  6. What are YOUR experiences and observations of “tuning”? • Tuning is... • The effects of tuning are... “Dude, that’s so gay”

  7. Thinking Wrong

  8. How does acceptable become acceptable?

  9. Thinking hard and staying focussed is HARD WORK! • What is 17 x 24? • How do I react when I see unhealthy tuning? • Voluntary effort drains mental energy • Ego depletion  lazy!! • Intuitive and incorrect

  10. Doing Right

  11. WHAT we say and HOW we say something affects performance

  12. “What do you mean…?” • Statements: • “Actually, that isn’t true...” • Positive Reinforcement: • “Yes, John is right about...” • Questions: • “What do mean by...” • Gay / Fat / Ugly / Chicks are so...

  13. PERMISSION Your OWN ACTS AND ACTIONS make other’s behaviours acceptable or not!

  14. POSITION Your POSITION (opinion) make other’s behaviours acceptable or not As a leader, what positions / actions can you take? HOW?

  15. SUMMARY • WYSIATI • Jumping to conclusions without information • Defining Tuning • Acceptable vs Unacceptable • Thinking Wrong • Lazy Brain • Doing Right • Climate • Permission & Position

  16. QUESTIONS

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