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Discover how to strengthen family identity and values to positively influence your children. Learn about family dynamics, traditions, and impactful influences, including media and relationships. Explore ways to connect with your children through quality time, conversations, and faith.
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Who is influencing my children? • The people our children become is a product of two things… • Their life experience • How they interact with that experience
Our Family Make-up • Family structure • Family roles • Family conflict • Family failure • Family history • Family Values
Family Identity • “Family identity is strong, if our children feel involved in and proud to belong to our family” • How can we build a strong family identity?
1 Have a set Family Time • A time to discuss • A time to share • A time to teach • A time to prepare • A time to laugh together • A time to pray together • Meal times • Hi-low
2 Family Quote Book • 3 Family Photos • 4 Family Traditions • Exercise • Write down three things that are a tradition in your family
Other Influences • The television • The average father spends three minutes a day in 'quality' conversation with his children. • The average mother, five and a half minutes in ‘quality’ conversation. • One in three children under the age of six watches television for between two and six hours a day • A third of children under three have a television set in their bedroom.
Computers • The school • Friends • Other adults • Extended Family and Significant Others
Our children’s relationship with God • 1 Pray for them • 2 Pray with them • 3 Be open with your children about your own faith • 4 Come together as a family to church • 5 Encourage them to enjoy the Bible themselves.