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Holiday party planning can be one of the most fun things to do, at the most hectic time of the year. Everyone loves to get together with friends and family around the holidays, spending time with those you care most about and letting the worries of the world slip to the back burner for a while. But, with all the earnest desire to put together the perfect event, holiday party planning can end in disaster if not executed well.<br>
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No one will remember that the candles didn't match or that the tablecloth was wrinkled. The holidays are about making memories and creating happy moments that people remember with joy. 3. Shoot for success, not perfection, as my friend Alan Weiss says. Don't worry about perfection. Think about what constitutes success for your holidays. Does it mean hosting one great cocktail party? Getting Christmas cards out before Valentine's Day? Baking Grandma's cookies for the neighbors and the office? If you know ahead of time what success means, you are more likely to be happy with the results. 4. Outsource what you can. Now may be the time to get help hanging Christmas lights, cleaning the house, and preparing food. Use your resources, and consider hiring some help to decrease your stress level. 5. Use technology to streamline tasks and improve your own quality of life. Last year, for the first time, I sent out an electronic Christmas letter. I realize that some folks think that misses the personal touch, but it allowed me to craft a pretty fun newsletter with pictures, updates, and all of my contact information. For my friends who don't have email, I simply printed the newsletter and mailed it to them. It saves on postage, saves on addressing envelopes, and is environmentally friendly. 6. Coop your friends. For those fun but sometimes time-consuming tasks such as tree-trimming, cookie baking, and log chopping, get together with friends and make doing whatever you need to accomplish a party. I always love cookie swaps, and I was delighted to be invited to one in early December. I love trying other people's recipes and having a chance to talk with friends. The assortment of cookies, then becomes my go-to dessert when I attend other holiday parties. 7. Over communicate. During November and December, most people are overcommitted, short of time, and even shorter on attention. Help each other by reminding people of appointments, gatherings, meetings, and parties. Just because the event made it to that person's calendar does not mean that it is at the forefront of their mind. So back each other up. Drop your friends an email note or give them a call, "I'm looking forward to seeing you on Friday at 12:15 at the Marriott. Do you need a ride?" or "I just wanted to see what time you are going to arrive at the party on Saturday night." It helps brings those events into focus, and your friends will get a little serotonin rush when they are reminded that they are going to see you. For the introverted people, sometimes holiday parties are a source of stress. Your reaching out to them makes them feel as though their attendance matters, and it increases their chances of coming. 8. Offer specific support. The holidays are a sad time for some people, especially for introverted people, people in a new area, those away from family or friends, and military families with deployed service members. Watch for signs of depression or isolation among friends, families, colleagues, students, and employees. Businesses and managers need to be especially mindful of how their people are doing. Depression rates soar during the holidays because people often expect the holidays to be a magical time of happiness. When those expectations are disappointed, people can become depressed. Inclusion is the key to solving problems of isolation. Reach out to others and invite them to events. Follow up to make sure they know that you sincerely want them to be part of the gathering. 9. Give yourself a present of presence. Try to enjoy each less moment, rather than worrying about what is going to happen in six hours (I know, and I am a planning person, but too much of that can get in the way of enjoying the moment). The focus is at the moment and enjoying whatever is happening right now. Tim Saunders recommends substituting the words "have to " with "get to." I get to pick up the kids at school. I get to set the holiday table. I get to see my friends and family at a party tonight. Just substituting those verbs on your to-do list creates a sense of gratitude. Many people postpone enjoyment because they mentally feel as though they need to gear up for enjoyment. Take the time to be happy now. 10. Make giving a part of the season. Try to practice anonymous and random acts of kindness. Many of us know people who really do not need another single thing in their homes or their lives. So please consider supporting a charity or giving a goat, or a chicken or a cow or a rabbit in the name of your gift recipient. Organizations provide livestock and resources to people and villages who desperately need sustainable food resources. It can save lives, and it makes for a unique and worthwhile gift. Please enjoy a stress-free holiday!
Unexpected Ways FerienwohnungGrächen Can Make Your Life Better Although the holiday season is a joyous time of year that is full of celebration, it also can be stressful for some people. Preparation for various holiday celebrations require a good amount of time and work and can often be overwhelming if not properly handled. The following list provides ten organizational tips that can help us all breathe a little easier over the holiday season. Make more than a Gift List: Your gift list should not be the only list you make during the holiday season. Jotting down a quick organizational list of the things you need to get done can make things a lot easier. Although it seems like a simple solution, it will help clear the clutter in your head and realize what the important tasks are. Don't Rule Out the Secret Santa: With certain circles of family, FerienwohnungGrächen and friends it makes perfect sense to not have to buy a gift for every person. This can be very expensive and time consuming. A Yankee Swap or Secret Santa game makes gift-giving cheaper, faster, and fun. Distribute the work: If you are hosting a holiday party or dinner, you might try to take on the full brunt of the preparation yourself, which can be quite overwhelming. Don't be hesitant to distribute some of the preparation and cleanup work to other family members, friends or party goers - after all they are having fun on your watch. Pace Yourself: Try to not leave most of your holiday preparation to the last minute before your celebration. Do some of the work ahead of time by cleaning up, buying long term frozen food items and perhaps a few logs in the fireplace. Enjoy Yourself: Although you are running the show, try to make some time to enjoy yourself. After all, what's the point of celebrating the holidays if you spend the whole time slaving over a stove and cleaning up the house? Get your helpers to take over for an hour or two while you help yourself to a glass of wine and chat with friends. Realize You Can't Please Everyone: If you are throwing a large party for family and friends there are sure to be a few conflicting personalities around. Don't try to be the person who makes everyone happy - that's simply impossible. This goes for gift giving as well - you can buy some great gifts for friends and family but not everyone is going to be happy. Prepare with some Junk Hauling: Preparation is king: it can certainly prevent an untimely holiday disaster. One way to better prepare is to haul off all the extra clutter in your home and make room for people to walk around the house and breathe a little. Every home has an array of furniture, toys, equipment, and junk that is simply collecting dust and getting in the way all the time. Get a junk hauling service to come by before your holiday party to efficiently remove those items and make room for your celebration. Breathe, seriously: It may sound stupidly simple, but making sure you take time amidst all the holiday chaos to take a second for a deep breath can be a game changer. Concentrating on your breathing will drastically decrease your stress level and allow you to continue with the task at hand. Get Your Holiday Exercise On: Whether it is a post dinner walk around the block, a jog on the treadmill or a flag football game, try to get out and make your body active during the holidays. Because of the cold weather, many of us are inclined to 'hibernate,' but that can lead to a low energy day. Exercise will provide you with the fuel to keep going through your holiday preparation cycle. Practice Moderation: Many people take the holiday season as a time for excess eating, drinking and buying. Although it's great to have a little fun, if you over-do it during the holidays it can lead to post-holiday depression and regret. Have fun doing the little things that you love, but doesn't do them in excess.
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