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How to raise a kid

How to raise a kid. English Class 13 Group A4 刘祖立 Joe 朱建伟 Week 吴君莹 Cherry 元 野 Luke. Cherry Wu 吴君莹. Luke Yuan 元野. Week Zhu 朱建伟. Joe Liu 刘祖立. Class 13 A4. 1. 2. 3. 4. Current conditions. Reasons. Solutions. Conclusions. Outlines. Minnie’s Special. A Zu’s talk. 1.

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How to raise a kid

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  1. How to raise a kid English Class 13 Group A4 刘祖立 Joe 朱建伟 Week 吴君莹 Cherry 元 野 Luke

  2. Cherry Wu 吴君莹

  3. Luke Yuan 元野

  4. Week Zhu 朱建伟

  5. Joe Liu 刘祖立

  6. Class 13A4

  7. 1 2 3 4 Current conditions Reasons Solutions Conclusions Outlines

  8. Minnie’s Special A Zu’s talk

  9. 1 2 3 4 Current conditions Outlines

  10. Some kids

  11. Some kids

  12. Some kids ?

  13. 1 2 3 4 Introduction Reasons Outlines

  14. Prof. Week Week Zhu Professor of Raising Childing Department Son Yat-sen University Worldwide well-known expert of raising children

  15. Hi everyone! I am Professor Week. Professor Week ’s Time

  16. Parents’ 50 improperbehaviors • Indulging the children. • Improper praises. • Setting a bad model. • Hurting child’s self-esteem. • Frightening the children. • Invading children’s privacy. • Too many commands. • …… [1] http://baby.sina.com.cn/50eduerror/ (Sina新浪亲子中心) [2] 张灵犀,<<50个父母常犯的教子错误>>

  17. 2.1 Indulging the children(1/3) • Feeling that there is someone who always helps him/her.

  18. 2.1 Indulging the children(2/3) • Lack of the ability of independence in future. • Unable to handle it when a real difficulty comes.

  19. 2.1 Indulging the children(3/3) “My son’s Horse can jump like Elephant!” “My son’s Elephant can jump like Horse!” …… • Become self-indulgent, self-willed, not aware of obeying rules. • Hard to become a disciplined person in the society.

  20. 2.2 Improper praises • Praising children as the god. • Children may become arrogant and egocentric (自我为中心). • Children will not know how to respect others. • Children will be apt to get frustrated by future setbacks.

  21. 2.3 Setting a bad model • Parents’ rude behaviors set bad examples to the children. • “You can do that, why can’t I?” • Children will follow what their parents do.

  22. 2.3 Setting a bad model

  23. 2.4 Hurting children’s self-esteem • Reproaching in wrong ways will hurt the children. • Children may lose their confidence, becoming self-contemptuous. • Children may hate their parents.

  24. 1 2 3 4 Current conditions Reasons Solutions Outlines

  25. Father Luke • Age: ?? • Number of kids: 10 • Experience of raising kids: 20 years Mother Cherry • Age: ?? • Number of kids: >10 • Experience of raising kids: >20 years

  26. What should parents do? ?

  27. 1.Fostering children's sense of responsibility Who want to draw a picture for our blackboard paper It is me, sir. Who is on duty today? Me. Me. Me.

  28. 1. Fostering children's sense of responsibility Hey, it’s time for football, boy. I’m not a normal boy. I’m a boy with a sense of responsibility So, let me finish my homework first, girl.

  29. 2.Be A Good Model • Parents are the first teachers of their kids. • Parents need to be especially vigilant not to say something casually that they may be alarmed to hear later in the mouths of their children.

  30. 2.Be A Good Model • Be a punctual and faithful person. • Be polite to everybody else. • Admit your mistake to your children.

  31. 3.Fostering children's Thanksgiving Heart

  32. 3.Fostering children's Thanksgiving Heart

  33. 4.Help kids to foster their self-esteem • Parents should always encourage the kids to think and make decision by themselves.

  34. 4.Help kids to foster their self-esteem • A lot of criticism can be changed into the asking questions, the effect will be more effective than criticism.

  35. 5.Family Love

  36. 5.Family Love

  37. 6.Let the kids learn to be independent • Respect their needs and respect their interests and hobbies; • Encourage them to do everything they can do by themselves;

  38. 6.Let the kids learn to be independent • Tolerate the different views between parents and children • Allow children to contact the society, so that they will be more independent.

  39. What will you do when your little kid falls down? Help or not help? That’s a question Do help Help him/her to stand up, and ask him/her if he/she is hurt Don’t help Just let him/her stand up by his/her own effort.

  40. A survey on xiaonei.com

  41. A survey on xiaonei.com • Total votes: 60 • Do help: 25 • Don’t help: 35

  42. 1 2 3 4 Current conditions Reasons Solutions Conclusions Outlines

  43. DOs and DONTs DOs DONTs Be a bad model Be a good modal Rasing Children Family love Indulge Help him learn to be independent Improper praises A good kid

  44. Expectation A good kid in the future Should be… polite independent responsbile nice

  45. THE END • STAFF • Sponsored by • Minnie Lee • Directed by • Joe Liu • Written by • Joe, Week, Justice, Chao • CAST • A Zu Joe Liu • Bad kid A Cherry Wu • Bad Kid B Luke Yuan • Prof Week Week Zhu • Father Luke Luke Yuan • Mother Cherry Cherry Wu • A mother Joe Liu • A son Week Zhu Thank You ! English Class 13 Group A4 刘祖立 Joe 朱建伟 Week 吴君莹 Cherry 元 野 Luke

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