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Whose Life Are You Leading Anyway?. Jeffrey B. McMullen, CSP Speaker, Author, Entertainer The McMullen Group, Inc Appleton, Wisconsin. Phases of Creativity. Paving the way Incubation “AHA” Implementation. Negative Self-Talk. I can’t do that… I am safe if I don’t say anything…
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Whose Life Are You Leading Anyway? Jeffrey B. McMullen, CSP Speaker, Author, Entertainer The McMullen Group, Inc Appleton, Wisconsin
Phases of Creativity • Paving the way • Incubation • “AHA” • Implementation
Negative Self-Talk • I can’t do that… • I am safe if I don’t say anything… • I wish I could… • As soon as… • Oh sure, I could have if…
Social Pressures • Follow the rules • Stay within the lines • Grass in green / sky is blue • 1+1=2 / Absolutes • If you do not conform, you will not fit in…
Corporate Pressures • We tried it last year • That is not how we do it here • Not in my job description • If it is not broke, don’t fix it • Oh, you must be new here • It will never happen
Creativity Builders • Absolute faith in your ability • Absent of judgment • Be Naïve… ask questions • We learn from listening with our eyes as well as our ears
Three Big Questions… • Are you humorously impaired? • Have you noticed people are much less tolerant of others? • Do you take time to laugh and celebrate each day?
The World Is A Funny Place If you can learn to laugh with it and not at it…
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Benefits of Humor • Lowers your blood pressure • Increases your energy level • Reduces your stress level • Allows you to handle crisis situations • Makes you a nicer person to be around
Create Positive Self-talk • Be accepting of the word “No” • Be accepting of compliments • Install a negative vocabulary filter • Have a no complaint day
Social Pressures • Rules are meant for our protection - not our restriction. Without rules we would have no rights, yet is those rights which allow us to challenge the rules.
Corporate Pressures • Create positive conversations • Have no complaint day • Think before you respond • Place positive visual reminders around your workspace • Remember… You are the work environment
Rut Breakers • Try a new food • Try a new perfume or cologne • Take a new route to work • Learn something new every day • Meet someone new every day
Golden Rules to Motivating Others • Stop gossip • Stop complaining to others • Write weekly “thank you” notes • Do something for someone with no intent of anything in return • If you want to be treated nicer... Raise the bar on how you treat others.