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[ Intro: Film clip from “The Bucket List” ]. Building an “affair-proof” marriage. A presentation by Rolan & Weng Monje Roy & Gina Soriano. Outline. Four scriptures Two principles Three practical directions. Main passages.

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  1. [ Intro: Film clip from • “The Bucket List” ]

  2. Building an “affair-proof” marriage A presentation by Rolan & Weng Monje Roy & Gina Soriano

  3. Outline • Four scriptures • Two principles • Three practical directions Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  4. Main passages • 1Co 7:1-3 Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. • The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  5. Main passages • Heb 13:4 Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery. Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  6. Principles • 1 “Exclusive ownership” • 2 “Divine order” Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  7. Principles • 1 “Exclusive ownership” You belong exclusively to each other and no one else Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  8. WHAT IS AN AFFAIR? Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  9. Principles • 2 “Divine order” Your love and loyalty are expected in the order: God, spouse, children/family, others Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  10. How do affairs start? • Seldom planned or foreseen • Mutual needs not met • Unguarded talks/texts/chats • Little or no accountability Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  11. Top 3 attitudes that lead to affairs • 1 Anger • 2 Pride • 3 Dishonesty Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  12. The effects of adultery • The marriage will never be the same • The kids go through incredible pain • In-laws are gravely affected • Friends are distraught and/or divided • The couple’s testimony is weakened • The church suffers in its witness • Christianity is dealt a shameful blow Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  13. Col 4:5 NIV Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. • Eph 5:15 NLT So be careful how you live, not as fools but as those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity for doing good in these evil days. Don’t act thoughtlessly, but try to understand what the Lord wants you to do. Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  14. Practicals: Loving • Pray for your spouse • Express their love language/s • Wag magtipid ng “I ♥ U” • Avoid comparisons • Lift up privately & publicly Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  15. Practicals: Guarding • Wear your ring • Better to be boring than a ‘player’ • Talk about your spouse • Keep tokens/pictures • Let him/her know where you are • No ‘private matters’ • Dress modestly Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  16. Pasig men’s survey (2008)

  17. Practicals: Creating • Weekly dates • Double dates • Physical time • Special time away Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  18. Building up to ‘ideal love’ (motivation for staying together) • Walang ibang mapupuntahan • Nothing better • “Nakakahiya” • “Kawawa kasi mga bata” • Maybe it will get better • We like each other • We truly love each other Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  19. Principles • 1 “Exclusive ownership” • 2 “Divine order” Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  20. Practicals • Loving • Guarding • Creating Free powerpoint template: www.favorideas.com

  21. Let us BUILD affair-proof marriages that will glorify God and inspire romance in the Pasig ministry!

  22. Building an “affair-proof” marriage A presentation by Rolan & Weng Monje Roy & Gina Soriano

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