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Reclaiming Your Parental Authority

Reclaiming Your Parental Authority. Who is in Charge – Your Kids or You?. A strong warning from Scripture: The problem: (1 Samuel 2:12-17 )

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Reclaiming Your Parental Authority

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  1. Reclaiming Your Parental Authority

  2. Who is in Charge – Your Kids or You?

  3. A strong warning from Scripture: The problem: (1 Samuel 2:12-17) “Eli’s sons were scoundrels; they had no regard for the LORD.Now it was the practice of the priests that, whenever any of the people offered a sacrifice, the priest’s servant would come with a three-pronged fork in his hand while the meat was being boiledand would plunge the fork into the pan or kettle or caldron or pot. Whatever the fork brought up the priest would take for himself. This is how they treated all the Israelites who came to Shiloh.But even before the fat was burned, the priest’s servant would come and say to the person who was sacrificing, “Give the priest some meat to roast; he won’t accept boiled meat from you, but only raw.”If the person said to him, “Let the fat be burned first, and then take whatever you want,” the servant would answer, “No, hand it over now; if you don’t, I’ll take it by force.”This sin of the young men was very great in the LORD’s sight, for they were treating the LORD’s offering with contempt.”

  4. A strong warning from Scripture: The problem: (1 Samuel 2:12-17) What was missing? Eli’s correction!

  5. A strong warning from Scripture: God’s rebuke: (1 Samuel 3:11-18) And the LORD said to Samuel: “See, I am about to do something in Israel that will make the ears of everyone who hears about it tingle. At that time I will carry out against Eli everything I spoke against his family—from beginning to end.For I told him that I would judge his family forever because of the sin he knew about; his sons blasphemed God, and he failed to restrain them.Therefore I swore to the house of Eli, ‘The guilt of Eli’s house will never be atoned for by sacrifice or offering.’”Samuel lay down until morning and then opened the doors of the house of the LORD. He was afraid to tell Eli the vision,but Eli called him and said, “Samuel, my son.”   Samuel answered, “Here I am.”“What was it he said to you?” Eli asked. “Do not hide it from me. May God deal with you, be it ever so severely, if you hide from me anything he told you.”So Samuel told him everything, hiding nothing from him. Then Eli said, “He is the LORD; let him do what is good in his eyes.”

  6. A strong warning from Scripture: God’s judgment: (1 Samuel 4:14-18) Eli heard the outcry and asked, “What is the meaning of this uproar?”   The man hurried over to Eli,who was ninety-eight years old and whose eyes had failed so that he could not see.He told Eli, “I have just come from the battle line; I fled from it this very day.”   Eli asked, “What happened, my son?”The man who brought the news replied, “Israel fled before the Philistines, and the army has suffered heavy losses. Also your two sons, Hophni and Phinehas, are dead, and the ark of God has been captured.”When he mentioned the ark of God, Eli fell backward off his chair by the side of the gate. His neck was broken and he died, for he was an old man, and he was heavy. He had ledIsrael forty years.

  7. Godly parenting isn’t for cowards but you CAN do it! • Expect resistance: if your kids are used to sitting on the throne and dictating to you, they will not give up the throne without a fight.

  8. Godly parenting isn’t for cowards but you CAN do it! 2. Elevate your own view of your role as parent: you have been given your role and authority by God Himself and you will ultimately answer to Him (not your kids) for the way that you exercised it.

  9. Godly parenting isn’t for cowards but you CAN do it! Earn respect through consistency: Treat your kids with equal love and firmness of discipline whenever possible. Parents must get on the same page before talking with their kids about behavioral expectations and corrective measures.

  10. For more study: Parenting Isn’t for Cowards by Dr. James Dobson

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