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Should Wellbeing and Positive Psychology be in our Curriculum?. Dr Tony Fernando Psychiatrist, Senior Lecturer Faculty of Medical and Health Sciences University of Auckland a.fernando@auckland.ac.nz. Sleep Study of NZ senior High School Students (n=1388) Fernando et al 2013.
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Should Wellbeing and Positive Psychology be in our Curriculum? Dr Tony Fernando Psychiatrist, Senior Lecturer Faculty of Medical and Health Sciences University of Auckland a.fernando@auckland.ac.nz
Sleep Study of NZ senior High School Students (n=1388) Fernando et al 2013
Medical and Nursing students (n= 745) samaranayake Fernando arroll et al 2013
Positive Psychology • Key people • Martin Seligman, Barbara Frederickson, Sonja Lyubomirksy, Ed Diener • Richard Davidson
What motivates us? • Why are you in your profession? • Why did you marry? Or not marry? • Why are you in this conference? • Why Langham? • We do things because we just want to be happy (avoid pain/ suffering)
What do you most want for your children? (Seligman) • Happiness • Confidence • Contentment • Fulfilment • Love • Health • WELLBEING
What do schools teach? • Success • Discipline • Literacy • Science • Math • Analytical skills • Preparation for Workplace
Looking back, what skills did I miss out in my own education? • Emotion skills- managing disappointments, frustrations, losses • Accepting our individuality (strengths, weaknesses) • Practical skills- dating, cooking, DYI, managing money • Flipside: • Compassion and service to others
Traps in our search for happiness • Focus on fragile external conditions (appearance, status, possessions) • Expectations*** • Habituation and Pleasure Treadmill • Money- how much do we need to be happy? • Emotions***
Emotions/ Feelings States • Positive Emotions • Fleeting • Not sticky; easily forgotten • Negative Emotions • Very powerful • stick like tar; “negativity bias” • Being negative, a bit%# is not fun for us AND makes everyone else feel bad
Positive psychology Interventions • Gratitude • Mindfulness, living in the moment • Kindness and Compassion • Self compassion • Religion and Spirituality • Dealing with negative thinking
Better coping strategies • Flow experiences • Committing to goals • Physical exercise • Optimism • Identifying and applying strengths
Gratitude • Turbo charger of happiness scores • Easiest, most do-able • Most popular
Gratitude exercises • Gratitude diary at night for 6-8 weeks; 3-5 things; once a week versus nightly • Three good things exercise (Strath Haven High School Positive Psychology Curriculum) • Write 3 good things that happened daily for a week • Why did this happen? What does it mean to you? How can you have more of this good thing in the future?
Mindfulness Mindfulness • Continuous awareness of the present moment, accepting and without judgment • Development of “mind’s eye” • Not HIJACKED by negative thoughts/ emotions/ judgments • Emotional fitness • Awareness of the process and not going inside the story • Enhanced through practice of Mindfulness Meditation- formal and informal • 2 components of the practice: • Attention • Emotional Regulation
Mindfulness meditation • Can be applied in most activities- eating, walking from carpark to office, washing the dishes, folding clothes… • Practice, practice, practice • Not different from trying to be physically fit • Antidote: Expectations, negative emotions, habituation • Foundation for Kindness, Compassion and Connection
Mindfulness Meditation Iphone App: Mindfulness Mentalworkout Free online meditation guide: calm.auckland.ac.nz Auckland U: Auckland Hospital Support Building, Thursday evenings 5:30 PM, room 80, Level 12 facebook page: Auckland University Meditation Group Many groups around Auckland
Kindness, compassion, connection • Evolved capacity
Kindness, Compassion and connection • Desire to connect • Desire to be accepted • Desire to alleviate other’s suffering
Kindness, Compassion and connection • From most religious traditions: • Golden rule • “if you want to be happy, practice compassion” • “true happiness consists in making others happy”
Kindness, Compassion and connection • How can you develop genuine kindness? • See everyone else ( even other creatures) as similar to you • Truly understand the other person from other perspectives • Mental Exercises to increase compassion: • calm.auckland.ac.nz (guided meditations)
Self compassion (lack of) Tendency to beat ourselves up Perfectionism Unforgiving stance
Should or Can we teach positive psychology/ wellbeing in schools?
Penn resiliency Programme (seligman)teachers, coaches, staff, students
Educational Focus? • Apart from cognitive development and job preparation, • How much are we teaching/ modelling • gratitude? • calm? • connection? kindness and compassion? • self compassion? • Or perfectionism? Ruthless competitiveness? Achievement at all costs?
Self development readings/ resources • www.calm.auckland.ac.nz • Compassionate Mind- Paul Gilbert • How of Happiness- Sonja Lyubomirsky • Positivity- Barbara Frederickson • Happiness- MatthieuRicard • Peace is Every Step- ThichNhatHanh • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work- John Gottman • http://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.eduwebsite on Positive Psychology • self-compassion.org