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Yousry Armanios, M.D. YARMANIOS@HOTMAIL.COM

+ The Challenges to Marriage التحديات الخطيرة في الزواج والأسرة St George & St Joseph Coptic Orthodox Church, Montreal, QC Couples Meeting – September 24, 2015. Yousry Armanios, M.D. YARMANIOS@HOTMAIL.COM. + البيت المسيحي. اختاروا لأنفسكم اليوم من تعبدون أما أنا وبيتي فنعبد الرب

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  1. +The Challenges to Marriageالتحديات الخطيرة في الزواج والأسرة St George & St Joseph Coptic Orthodox Church, Montreal, QCCouples Meeting – September 24, 2015 Yousry Armanios, M.D. YARMANIOS@HOTMAIL.COM

  2. +البيت المسيحي اختاروا لأنفسكم اليوم من تعبدون أما أنا وبيتي فنعبد الرب يشوع 24:15

  3. JUST MARRIED! What God Has Joined Together, Let Not Man Separate” (Matthew 19:6)

  4. The Ultimate: Marriage! And, Family Life

  5. Love Overcomes the Challenges All Challenges! المحبة لا تسقط أبداً! Love Never Fails! الحب يتغلب على التحديات

  6. The Ten Challenges Our Ego! Resolving the Differences Leaving Intimacy Mammon Boredom Communication Keeping the Boundaries Mutual Trust The New Visitors! العشرة تحديات • الذات • حل الإختلافات • الترك • الالتصاق • الماديات • الملل • التواصل • إبقاء الحدود • الثقة المتبادلة • الزوار الجدد!

  7. العشرة تحديات • الذات • حل الإختلافات • الترك • الالتصاق • الماديات • الملل • التواصل • إبقاء الحدود • الثقة المتبادلة • الزوار الجدد!

  8. Proper Communication: Both spouses may love each other dearly, but without proper communication, that love goes unnoticed and the result is often terrible and tragic!

  9. Our Feelings When, We Don’t Communicate Or Miscommunicate

  10. How Does It Feel When …?

  11. The Image of God!Communication is about Love! “So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. “Therefore, what God has joinedtogether, let not man separate” Matthew 19:6

  12. 1. The Radio:One-Way Communication! 2. “Skype” Two-Ways Communication!

  13. So, How Should We Communicate? 1. Verbal Communication 2. Non-Verbal Communication

  14. Verbal CommunicationPlease Consider … • Changing Your Old Stereotypes • Improving Your Skills:LISTEN • Each Other’s Right for Self-Expression • Using Always the “I” Statements!

  15. Verbal Communication Takes Time to Help Us Understand our Differences • For women, it’s an end in itself • For men, it’s more of a meanstowards a goal • For both, it builds mutual interest and trust

  16. Communication & Listening “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” (James 1:19)

  17. The Assertive “I” StatementsExercise: • “I” Feel …! • “I” Think …! • “I” Believe …! • “I” Need …!

  18. 2. Non-Verbal Communication • Facial Features & Body Language • “Other” Four Languages of Love: • Time Together! • Unexpected (Surprise) Gifts! • SilentHelp! • Messaging: (Dress; Cook; Initiatives …)

  19. Negative Communication Patterns (1) • Interrupting • Stonewalling • Avoiding • Ignoring • Threatening

  20. Negative Communication Patterns (2) • Mind Reading • Criticizing • Monopolizing/Polarizing • Cynicism • Passive Aggressiveness

  21. Validation of Feelings:Your Prescription for Success! + Spot the Feeling + Address the Feeling: Examples: • “Yes, I understand how you feel”! • “You sound like you’re …”! • “You look like you’re …”! • “There’s something bothering you”!

  22. The Outcome:Problem Solving Many Problems Can Be Avoided If: • We Communicate Our Feelings! Many Problems can Be Resolved If: • We Can Communicate Them Right!

  23. +البيت المسيحي اختاروا لأنفسكم اليوم من تعبدون أما أنا وبيتي فنعبد الرب يشوع 24:15

  24. Finally, Always Remember that: “Love Never Fails”! (1 Corinthians 13)

  25. Thank YouQ & AYARMANIOS@HOTMAIL.COM Dr. Yousry Armanios 614-327-8289

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