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Stephen Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Powerful Lessons in Personal Change. Presentation by: Dr. Scott Kunkel Associate Professor University of San Diego. Personality and Character Ethics. Personality Ethic (post WWI)
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Stephen Covey’sThe 7 Habits ofHighly Effective PeoplePowerful Lessons in Personal Change Presentation by: Dr. Scott Kunkel Associate Professor University of San Diego Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Personality and Character Ethics • Personality Ethic (post WWI) • Personality, public image, attitudes & behaviors, skills and techniques, quick fixes • Character Ethic (pre WWI) • Integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, the Golden Rule • Not just “What do I want?” but “Why do I want it?” Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
The Power of a Paradigm Shift • What is a paradigm? • What is a paradigm shift? • My paradigm shift -- caring vs. enabling • Near-death experiences frequently cause people to experience a paradigm shift. • Not all paradigm shifts are instantaneous -- some happen gradually over time. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Will the left side of the room please stand and face the back of the room I will show the right side of the room a picture for ten seconds and ask you to remember what you saw Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Will the right side of the room please stand and face the back of the room I will show the left side of the room a picture for ten seconds and ask you to remember what you saw Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Will both sides of the room please sit back down I will show you a picture for ten seconds and ask you to describe what you saw Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
What did you see? Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
The Seven Habits Knowledge (what to, why to) Habits Skills (how to) Desire (want to) Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Private VictoriesThe First Three Habits Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 1 Be Proactive Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Freedom to Choose Stimulus Response Self- Awarness Independent Will Imagination Conscience Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Circle of Concern Circle of Influence Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Circle of Concern Circle of Influence Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 2 Begin with the End in Mind Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Spouse centered Family centered Money centered Possession centered Pleasure centered Friend/Enemy centered Church centered Self centered Alternative “Centers” • Principle Centered Write a Personal Mission Statement Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 3 Put First Things First Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Time Management Matrix Urgent Not Urgent I II Activities: Prevention, PC activities Relationship building Recognizing new opportunities Planning, recreation Activities: Crises Pressing Problems Deadline Driven Projects Important IV III Activities: Interruptions, some calls Some mail, some reports Some meetings Proximate, pressing matters Popular activities Activities: Trivia, busy work Some mail Some phone calls Time wasters Pleasant activities Not Important Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Public VictoriesThe Second Three Habits Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 4 Think Win/Win Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Six Paradigms of Human Interaction • Win • Win/lose • Lose/Win • Lose/Lose • Win/Win • Win/Win or No Deal Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 5 Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 6 Synergize Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
RenewalThe Seventh Habit Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 7 Sharpen the Saw Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Physical Exercise, Nutrition Stress Management Mental Reading, Visualizing Planning, Writing Social/Emotional Service, Empathy Synergy, Intrinsic Security Spiritual Value Clarification & Commitment, Study & Meditation Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Stephen Covey’sThe 7 Habits ofHighly Effective PeoplePowerful Lessons in Personal Change Presentation by: Dr. Scott Kunkel Associate Professor University of San Diego Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego