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Wake Up World! There’s a Better Way To do Relationships. Ephesians 5:11-14. “Where there is no revelation, the people cast off restraint; but blessed is he who keeps the law”. Proverbs 29:18 (NIV). I Will Always Remember…. Why is Sex Such Serious Business to God?.
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Wake Up World!There’s a Better Way To do Relationships Ephesians 5:11-14
“Where there is no revelation, the people cast off restraint; but blessed is he who keeps the law” Proverbs 29:18 (NIV)
Why is Sex Such Serious Business to God? Ephesians 5:11-14
The Command • And do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them; • Ephesians 5:11 (NASB)
The Reason • …for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret. • Ephesians 5:12 (NASB)
The Explanation • But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light. • Ephesians 5:13 (NASB)
The Invitation • For this reason it says, “Awake, sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” • Ephesians 5:12 (NASB)
Just as light silently reveals all things for what they really are; so it is when God’s people “model” purity and love in relationships – they expose sexual immorality for what it really is . . . lustful, destructive, self-worship.
Answering God’s Call to “The Second Sexual Revolution”
THINK • 1. A revolutionary way to about human sexuality.
THINK • 1. A revolutionary way toabout human sexuality. • Sex is sacred. Hebrews 13:4
Hebrews 13:4 (NASB) • Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
1. A revolutionary way to THINK about human sexuality. • Sex is sacred. Hebrews 13:4 • Sex is serious. 1 Corinthians 6:15-20
1 Corinthians 6:15-20 (NASB) • 15Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be!
1 Corinthians 6:15-20 (NASB) • 16Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, “The two shall become one flesh.” • 17But the one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with Him.
1 Corinthians 6:15-20 (NASB) • 18Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:15-20 (NASB) • 19Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?
1 Corinthians 6:15-20 (NASB) • 20For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.
ATTRACT • 2. A revolutionary way tothe opposite sex.
ATTRACT • 2. A revolutionary way tothe opposite sex. • Inward character. 1 Peter 3:3-4
ATTRACT • 2. A revolutionary way tothe opposite sex. • Inward character. 1 Peter 3:3-4 • Outward modesty. 1 Peter 3:3-4
ATTRACT • 2. A revolutionary way tothe opposite sex. • Inward character. 1 Peter 3:3-4 • Outward modesty. 1 Peter 3:3-4 • Upward devotion. 1 Peter 3:3-4
1 Peter 3:3-4 (NASB) • 3Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;
1 Peter 3:3-4 (NASB) • 4but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.
RELATE • A revolutionary way toto the oppositesex. • As :Courtship vs. Dating • As :Brother/Sister Boundaries FRIENDS
Age of Dating12 years 13 years 14 years 15 years 16 years % Who Have Sex Before Graduation91% 56% 53% 40% 20% Dating vs. Courtship Utah State University Study Among 2,400 Teens
RELATE • A revolutionary way toto the oppositesex. • As :Courtship vs. Dating • As :Brother/Sister Boundaries FRIENDS FAMILY
RELATE • 3. A revolutionary way toto the oppositesex. • As ofChrist:How can I help him/herbecome more likeChrist? FOLLOWERS