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Special Occasion Speaking. Special occasions are very important to the people who take part in them, and they are also nearly always occasion for speechmaking.
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Special occasions are very important to the people who take part in them, and they are also nearly always occasion for speechmaking. Speeches for special occasions are ritualized-structured in patterns standardized by a group; the emphasis is on ritualized tradition rather than revolutionary change. Special Occasion Speaking
Special Occasion Speaking • Very memorable; tie us to specific occasion • Speeches are closely focused on a person, event, or object.
Common features • Association with a particular context of people, location, and ideas • The occasion gives rise to the message • Words themselves perform function (help deal with grief) • Logical Content of words usually counts for less than their emotional force. • Therapeutic aspect of words- help people understand and cope with change
Speech to Present Gift or Award • Be brief but memorable • Overall goal is to give fair tribute (to a person, event) • Informative, explain the nature of award, describe why the person deserves it • If interesting, mention history of award • Criteria for award • Give merit to the donor • When giving the award, call the recipient in short sentence, be friendly and dignified • Talk about how you know the recipient • Praise any sacrifice by the recipient • Cite qualities that make the recipient uniquely valued
Speech to Accept Gift or Award • Most people find it easier to give praise than to accept it. • Accept award and give thanks to donors • Give appropriate thanks and recognition to those who have contributed to your success • Be brief • Mention what the award means to you • Express affection for organization • Recognize competitors • Let your personality shine through • Possibly a touch of humor
Eulogy/Speech of Tribute • Pay special honor to significant people, living or dead • Structure speech around the character of the person • Talk about how this person affected others • Admit pain of loss • Emphasize person’s value • Remember person’s kindness • Possible speak directly to deceased person
Eulogy/Speech of Tribute • Reminisce about early years • Share an anecdote (choose a story) • Quote the deceased • Give audience a chance to smile • Humanize the person receiving tribute • Avoid excessive praise- may be taken as sarcasm • Express personal feelings, but don’t center speech around them
Toasts • You never know when you’ll be asked to give one…no easy way out of it. • Define marriage • Wish bride and groom health, happiness and prosperity • With them a smooth life • Wish everyone joy • Toast both sets of parents • Pay attention to previous toasts • Use quotes • Don’t apologize or give disclaimers