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I am not sure completely sure what palliative care is.. Dame Cicely Saunders. you matter because you are you. You matter to the last moment of your life and we will do all we can, not only to help you die peacefully, but also to help you live until you die.". The Hospice Movement. Physical . Social.
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1. The SPAR Project Palliative Care for Residential Care Home Residents
Lorna Reid
2. I am not sure completely sure what palliative care is. When you hear the term “Palliative Care” I wonder what springs to mind.
There is significant confusion over terminology in the health and social care world –
Palliative care
End of life care
Supportive care
Terminal care
Specialist palliative care/General palliative care
Palliative approach to care
In speaking to local care home staff I have discovered
that often what is understood by palliative care
is care of the dying person.
And more specifically, care of the person who is dying of cancer.
However, it is much bigger than that.
Palliative care is a new speciality and an evolving concept
historically associated with cancer care,
but the principles are now recognised as being applicable to any person with a life-limiting illness
cancer
end stage heart failure
end stage renal failure
dementia
multiple sclerosis
motor neurone disease
When you hear the term “Palliative Care” I wonder what springs to mind.
There is significant confusion over terminology in the health and social care world –
Palliative care
End of life care
Supportive care
Terminal care
Specialist palliative care/General palliative care
Palliative approach to care
In speaking to local care home staff I have discovered
that often what is understood by palliative care
is care of the dying person.
And more specifically, care of the person who is dying of cancer.
However, it is much bigger than that.
Palliative care is a new speciality and an evolving concept
historically associated with cancer care,
but the principles are now recognised as being applicable to any person with a life-limiting illness
cancer
end stage heart failure
end stage renal failure
dementia
multiple sclerosis
motor neurone disease
3. Dame Cicely Saunders
“you matter because you are you. You matter to the last moment of your life and we will do all we can, not only to help you die peacefully, but also to help you live until you die.” Modern palliative care began with a nurse.
Cicely Saunders trained as a nurse
re-trained as a medical social worker
1940’s met “David Tasma” who was dying from cancer
Focus of care was very much on “cure”
Did not quite know what to do with him...end of a nightingale ward
Many frank discussions about his needs
how people might be cared for when dying
need for comfort
need to be heard
need to be free from pain and other distressing symptoms
need to know that someone to care for their loved one’s after they were gone
Out of those conversations the idea of a “home” for the dying was born
David died – left Ł500
At the age of 33 retrained yet again as a medical doctor and became the first medic in modern times to dedicate her career to caring for those at the end of life.
Philosophy of palliative care enshrined in her statement...”you matter...”
Does not end there – Dame C.S opened her “home”.
She came out of mainstream care to develop a new model of care
the knowledge and the skills and the attitudes
which would become palliative care
with every intention that the knowledge, skills and attitudes which were developed
Would make their way back into mainstream care.
Modern palliative care began with a nurse.
Cicely Saunders trained as a nurse
re-trained as a medical social worker
1940’s met “David Tasma” who was dying from cancer
Focus of care was very much on “cure”
Did not quite know what to do with him...end of a nightingale ward
Many frank discussions about his needs
how people might be cared for when dying
need for comfort
need to be heard
need to be free from pain and other distressing symptoms
need to know that someone to care for their loved one’s after they were gone
Out of those conversations the idea of a “home” for the dying was born
David died – left Ł500
At the age of 33 retrained yet again as a medical doctor and became the first medic in modern times to dedicate her career to caring for those at the end of life.
Philosophy of palliative care enshrined in her statement...”you matter...”
Does not end there – Dame C.S opened her “home”.
She came out of mainstream care to develop a new model of care
the knowledge and the skills and the attitudes
which would become palliative care
with every intention that the knowledge, skills and attitudes which were developed
Would make their way back into mainstream care.
4. The Hospice Movement
St. Christopher's Hospice was opened in 1967 and the hospice movement was born.
According to Help the Hospices there are now 220 in patient units with 3,200 beds
314 home care services
106 hospice at home services
208 day care services
340 hospital support services.
Relatively young movement, seen quite dramatic growth.
St. Christopher's Hospice was opened in 1967 and the hospice movement was born.
According to Help the Hospices there are now 220 in patient units with 3,200 beds
314 home care services
106 hospice at home services
208 day care services
340 hospital support services.
Relatively young movement, seen quite dramatic growth.
5. Physical What is palliative care all about?
Need to start by thinking:
What is a person?
Physical body: Made up of cells and systems such as:
Nervous system
Digestive system
Excretory system
Circulatory system
Lymphatic system
More than a biological machine...
What is palliative care all about?
Need to start by thinking:
What is a person?
Physical body: Made up of cells and systems such as:
Nervous system
Digestive system
Excretory system
Circulatory system
Lymphatic system
More than a biological machine...
6. Social Is that all?
Human beings are social beings.
Relationships are important to us.
That is why putting someone in solitary confinement is a punishment of some kind.
We don’t tend to do well in isolation.
If our physical body is not working as well as we would like.
If we are in pain
If we are feeling sick
our relationships can suffer.
Don’t have the energy
Don’t have the patience
Is that all?
Human beings are social beings.
Relationships are important to us.
That is why putting someone in solitary confinement is a punishment of some kind.
We don’t tend to do well in isolation.
If our physical body is not working as well as we would like.
If we are in pain
If we are feeling sick
our relationships can suffer.
Don’t have the energy
Don’t have the patience
7. Emotional We all have an emotional aspect.
Feel all these emotions to varying degrees at different times in our lives
Our emotional state impacts how we relate to others
If I am sad, I may not want to see other people
If I am angry, they may not want to see me
We all recognise that our emotions effect our ability to make and keep relationships
We understand that emotions can also impact our mental and physical health
Feeling happy and loving leads to quite different consequences
Than feeling angry and scared.
We all have an emotional aspect.
Feel all these emotions to varying degrees at different times in our lives
Our emotional state impacts how we relate to others
If I am sad, I may not want to see other people
If I am angry, they may not want to see me
We all recognise that our emotions effect our ability to make and keep relationships
We understand that emotions can also impact our mental and physical health
Feeling happy and loving leads to quite different consequences
Than feeling angry and scared.
8. Spiritual We all have a spiritual dimension
Includes having some understanding of who we are,
and what our purpose in life is.
Includes our ability to give and receive love.
What nourishes and feeds the innermost core of who we are
What we think will happen to us after our body dies.
What we put our faith in
God
ourselves
other people
material possessions
When people are ill
Their ability to give and receive love might be impacted.
They may begin to feel regret or guilt about how they have lived their lives
They might begin to question what their life means, or if they have been true to what they believed their purpose to be.
Why is this happening to them
They may begin to question who or what they put their faith in
They may feel at peace
They may feel as though a rug has been pulled out from under them feel very distressed.
We all have a spiritual dimension
Includes having some understanding of who we are,
and what our purpose in life is.
Includes our ability to give and receive love.
What nourishes and feeds the innermost core of who we are
What we think will happen to us after our body dies.
What we put our faith in
God
ourselves
other people
material possessions
When people are ill
Their ability to give and receive love might be impacted.
They may begin to feel regret or guilt about how they have lived their lives
They might begin to question what their life means, or if they have been true to what they believed their purpose to be.
Why is this happening to them
They may begin to question who or what they put their faith in
They may feel at peace
They may feel as though a rug has been pulled out from under them feel very distressed.
9. The palliative journey
May begin at diagnosis
Often has three phases
Stable
Deteriorating
Dying Unfortunately not all diseases can be cured.
Does not mean that there is nothing which can be done
to help a person live as well as they can
For as long as they can.
It is important to state that palliative care is
It is an approach to care
A philosophy of care
Based on the attitudes and skills of those who are delivering it.
Attitudes such as
compassion,
conscience,
commitment,
courage
Skills such as
communication skills,
advocacy skills,
team working skills
symptom management skills
It can be delivered anywhere.
Unfortunately not all diseases can be cured.
Does not mean that there is nothing which can be done
to help a person live as well as they can
For as long as they can.
It is important to state that palliative care is
It is an approach to care
A philosophy of care
Based on the attitudes and skills of those who are delivering it.
Attitudes such as
compassion,
conscience,
commitment,
courage
Skills such as
communication skills,
advocacy skills,
team working skills
symptom management skills
It can be delivered anywhere.
10. A palliative approach Palliative care is an approach that improves the quality of life of patients and their families facing the problem associated with life-threatening illness, through the prevention and relief of suffering by means of early identification and impeccable assessment and treatment of pain and other problems, physical, psychosocial and spiritual.
11. The aims of palliative care
To provide relief from pain and other distressing symptoms What does palliative care have to offer the older person?
The word palliate comes from the latin “pallium” which means
to cover, or to cloak.
May not be able to cure their diseases
can help to manage their symptoms
Their physical symptoms
Their emotional symptoms
Their spiritual symptoms
and their social symptoms
A bit of a tall order, but Palliative care seeks to:
to cover the effects of disease
minimise suffering and distress
So that a person can have the best quality of life for as long as possible.
What does palliative care have to offer the older person?
The word palliate comes from the latin “pallium” which means
to cover, or to cloak.
May not be able to cure their diseases
can help to manage their symptoms
Their physical symptoms
Their emotional symptoms
Their spiritual symptoms
and their social symptoms
A bit of a tall order, but Palliative care seeks to:
to cover the effects of disease
minimise suffering and distress
So that a person can have the best quality of life for as long as possible.
12. The aims of palliative care
Integrates the psychological and spiritual aspects of patient care Often the physical aspects of care are reasonably well managed
Psychological and spiritual aspects are not always so obvious
or so “easy” to manage.
Unsettling questions come to the surface...
Why is this happening to me?
Why did God let this happen?
How will I cope?
Questions also surface relating to concepts such as core identity and self-worth
Now I am sick and in a care home, who am I?
Palliative care is about supporting people as they re-orientate themselves.
learn to live with the various losses their illness has brought
find strength to make a new meaning...to grow...
Not a quick process...no pill to fix it...
Often the physical aspects of care are reasonably well managed
Psychological and spiritual aspects are not always so obvious
or so “easy” to manage.
Unsettling questions come to the surface...
Why is this happening to me?
Why did God let this happen?
How will I cope?
Questions also surface relating to concepts such as core identity and self-worth
Now I am sick and in a care home, who am I?
Palliative care is about supporting people as they re-orientate themselves.
learn to live with the various losses their illness has brought
find strength to make a new meaning...to grow...
Not a quick process...no pill to fix it...
13. The aims of palliative care
Offers a support system to help patients live as actively as possible until death The process of helping people to remain as active as possible is not easy when you are dealing with advancing disease.
Because it is not easy...does not mean it is not achievable...
Unless a person dies suddenly they will become increasingly dependent on others.
Don’t want people being dependent while they are still able to do some things for themselves.
Promoting independence for as long as possible
...helps improve feelings of being in control
...helps people feel like less of a burden.
The process of helping people to remain as active as possible is not easy when you are dealing with advancing disease.
Because it is not easy...does not mean it is not achievable...
Unless a person dies suddenly they will become increasingly dependent on others.
Don’t want people being dependent while they are still able to do some things for themselves.
Promoting independence for as long as possible
...helps improve feelings of being in control
...helps people feel like less of a burden.
14. The aims of palliative care
Will enhance quality of life, and may also positively influence the course of illness
15. The aims of palliative care
Uses a team approach to address the needs of patients and their families, including bereavement counselling, if indicated No one person has all the knowledge
all the skills
all the time
To meet all the physical needs
and the emotional needs
and the social needs
and the spiritual needs of palliative patents and their family members
Palliative care seeks to take a team approach
Patient being the most important member of the team
Once a patient who had very difficult symptoms
Pain
Nausea and vomiting
Not sleeping
Sore mouth
Constipated
HCP may be tempted to start with pain
Asked gentleman
If we could help you at the moment what would make the most difference
Like to see my son
Estranged for 15 years
Our priorities may not be the patient’s priorities
No one person has all the knowledge
all the skills
all the time
To meet all the physical needs
and the emotional needs
and the social needs
and the spiritual needs of palliative patents and their family members
Palliative care seeks to take a team approach
Patient being the most important member of the team
Once a patient who had very difficult symptoms
Pain
Nausea and vomiting
Not sleeping
Sore mouth
Constipated
HCP may be tempted to start with pain
Asked gentleman
If we could help you at the moment what would make the most difference
Like to see my son
Estranged for 15 years
Our priorities may not be the patient’s priorities
16. The aims of palliative care
Offers a support system to help the family cope during the patient’s illness and in their own bereavement. A palliative approach to care includes taking care of families.
Family issues can include things like
loss of role
the burden of care-giving/exhaustion
their own frailty
distress
anxiety
anger/guilt
social isolation related to visiting a care facility on a regular basis
A palliative approach to care includes taking care of families.
Family issues can include things like
loss of role
the burden of care-giving/exhaustion
their own frailty
distress
anxiety
anger/guilt
social isolation related to visiting a care facility on a regular basis
17. The aims of palliative care:
To affirm life and regard dying as a normal process Palliative care
Cherishes life...good to be alive
At the same time we say that dying is a normal process.
People today have less personal experience of death and dying...
there is the notion that it can be conquered.
Improved treatments mean that we can live longer with diseases.
Difficult as it is...
If our only goal is to keep people alive...we risk prolonging a person’s dying
There is a time to hold on...and there is a time to let go.
Not an easy position to hold
Careful thinking...
honest discussion...
Ethical decision making skills
Palliative care
Cherishes life...good to be alive
At the same time we say that dying is a normal process.
People today have less personal experience of death and dying...
there is the notion that it can be conquered.
Improved treatments mean that we can live longer with diseases.
Difficult as it is...
If our only goal is to keep people alive...we risk prolonging a person’s dying
There is a time to hold on...and there is a time to let go.
Not an easy position to hold
Careful thinking...
honest discussion...
Ethical decision making skills
18. The aims of palliative care
Intends neither to hasten nor postpone death Intends neither to hasten, or speed up the process of dying
In other words it does not endorse euthanasia, or physician assisted suicide.
It intends not to postpone, or prolong a person’s dying.
Again a very difficult position to hold
brings to the fore the need for good ethical decision making.
Antibiotics could be said to postpone death
at times they may be an appropriate therapy
at times they may not be appropriate option
What would this person want?
What is in their best interests?
What is going to prevent harm?
Is this person being treated in the same way as other similar cases?
In other words, is the treatment fair?
Complex and difficult discussion.
Not like a crossword puzzle which only has one right answer.
These kind of problems don’t have any easy answers.
Intends neither to hasten, or speed up the process of dying
In other words it does not endorse euthanasia, or physician assisted suicide.
It intends not to postpone, or prolong a person’s dying.
Again a very difficult position to hold
brings to the fore the need for good ethical decision making.
Antibiotics could be said to postpone death
at times they may be an appropriate therapy
at times they may not be appropriate option
What would this person want?
What is in their best interests?
What is going to prevent harm?
Is this person being treated in the same way as other similar cases?
In other words, is the treatment fair?
Complex and difficult discussion.
Not like a crossword puzzle which only has one right answer.
These kind of problems don’t have any easy answers.
19. Now I understand... Palliative care is about:
Promoting a good quality of life.
Good symptom management.
Honest and supportive communication.
Looking after families.
Working together.
20. Palliative needs are not always identified Around 55,000 people die in Scotland each year
Around 11,000 of them in care homes
Audit Scotland suggested that around 42,000 of that number could benefit from some form of palliative care during the final phase of their life – which should not only be seen in terms of hours or days, but in terms of months and perhaps years.
However, In 2007 only 5,000 patients were included on GP palliative care registers .
So, only 12% of those with potential palliative care needs had those needs identified and recorded by their GP.
The low numbers may be due to difficulty in identifying when patients may need or benefit from palliative care,
particularly with patients who have a non-cancer diagnosis.
Around 55,000 people die in Scotland each year
Around 11,000 of them in care homes
Audit Scotland suggested that around 42,000 of that number could benefit from some form of palliative care during the final phase of their life – which should not only be seen in terms of hours or days, but in terms of months and perhaps years.
However, In 2007 only 5,000 patients were included on GP palliative care registers .
So, only 12% of those with potential palliative care needs had those needs identified and recorded by their GP.
The low numbers may be due to difficulty in identifying when patients may need or benefit from palliative care,
particularly with patients who have a non-cancer diagnosis.
21. Palliative Care in Care Homes One in five people over sixty five will spend their final years in a care home.
In this area there are 35 known care homes
with approx 2,000 residents
being looked after by approx 2,500 care home staff.
Since coming in to post in April 2009, I have spoken with 26 care home managers and 2 practice development nurses.
In percentage terms spoken with 80% of managers.
Given me a good feel for how the land lies with them
Start to build good working relationships.
One in five people over sixty five will spend their final years in a care home.
In this area there are 35 known care homes
with approx 2,000 residents
being looked after by approx 2,500 care home staff.
Since coming in to post in April 2009, I have spoken with 26 care home managers and 2 practice development nurses.
In percentage terms spoken with 80% of managers.
Given me a good feel for how the land lies with them
Start to build good working relationships.
22. Significant Challenges Important to recognise some of the significant challenges in this care sector.
Staff turnover
Studies have suggested that the general turnover in care homes is quite high.
Since I have been in post.
11 out of 28 managers I spoke with on initial visit have moved on
Just under 40%
Constant changes bring obvious challenges in terms of maintaining quality of care and focused, consistent leadership.
We are in the fortunate position to be able to deliver fantastic care to patients
To give you an insight into the difference in terms of access to services I want to tell you about a recent working day
We had a patient in the IPU here with very complex needs
She needed to have a not so common intervention
Staff needed to be competent in caring for patient
3 Consultants, Our own 3 consultants, a number of nurses from IPU, a significant number of DN’s for a morning’s training.
In the afternoon I went to visit a local CH manager
The day before she had a lady who was at the end of her life
She was in pain
She was distressed.
The manager asked the GP to come and review this lady, and review her medication.
The GP told her that to come and see this lady would be a waste of his time, as there was nothing that he could do.
The care home manager waiting till NHS 24 service kicked in
Died fairly peacefully
Both these cases are probably a-typical
Highlights the inequity of access to services for people in care homes
Important to recognise some of the significant challenges in this care sector.
Staff turnover
Studies have suggested that the general turnover in care homes is quite high.
Since I have been in post.
11 out of 28 managers I spoke with on initial visit have moved on
Just under 40%
Constant changes bring obvious challenges in terms of maintaining quality of care and focused, consistent leadership.
We are in the fortunate position to be able to deliver fantastic care to patients
To give you an insight into the difference in terms of access to services I want to tell you about a recent working day
We had a patient in the IPU here with very complex needs
She needed to have a not so common intervention
Staff needed to be competent in caring for patient
3 Consultants, Our own 3 consultants, a number of nurses from IPU, a significant number of DN’s for a morning’s training.
In the afternoon I went to visit a local CH manager
The day before she had a lady who was at the end of her life
She was in pain
She was distressed.
The manager asked the GP to come and review this lady, and review her medication.
The GP told her that to come and see this lady would be a waste of his time, as there was nothing that he could do.
The care home manager waiting till NHS 24 service kicked in
Died fairly peacefully
Both these cases are probably a-typical
Highlights the inequity of access to services for people in care homes
23. Average length of stay is 12-18 months Because they are older and sicker on admission
average length of stay is between 12-18 months
so could argue that all care home residents are will have palliative needs
Thinking in terms of everyone in the care home as being on the palliative journey can be helpful
recognition that this is a home for life
gets away from thinking about palliative care as only about managing death
helping people to live as well as they can for as long as they can
ensuring appropriate levels of support at each stage of the process
Because they are older and sicker on admission
average length of stay is between 12-18 months
so could argue that all care home residents are will have palliative needs
Thinking in terms of everyone in the care home as being on the palliative journey can be helpful
recognition that this is a home for life
gets away from thinking about palliative care as only about managing death
helping people to live as well as they can for as long as they can
ensuring appropriate levels of support at each stage of the process
24. The “head, hands and heart” of palliative care Head
We need good knowledge
We need good clinical competence
We need to know “What” to do
The heart
We need to give compassionate care
We need to respond with humanity to those in our care
The heart is the human response to the suffering of another...it is the “why” we bother...why we do what we do
What we are speaking about today are the hands
The how to do it
What process can we use
How can we make sure that our care is organised and our communication is goodHead
We need good knowledge
We need good clinical competence
We need to know “What” to do
The heart
We need to give compassionate care
We need to respond with humanity to those in our care
The heart is the human response to the suffering of another...it is the “why” we bother...why we do what we do
What we are speaking about today are the hands
The how to do it
What process can we use
How can we make sure that our care is organised and our communication is good
25. SPAR project Recognising these barriers we are forming I am working with a local GP and three local care homes
Put in a system to facilitate
Better co-ordination
Better communication
Improved delivery
Of palliative care for residents in the care home setting.
Recognising these barriers we are forming I am working with a local GP and three local care homes
Put in a system to facilitate
Better co-ordination
Better communication
Improved delivery
Of palliative care for residents in the care home setting.
26. How?
Include all residents in the care home on the supportive, palliative action register (SPAR)
Green
Amber
Red
Green: no major changes in physical or mental status
care needs remain stable
review every month
continue to provide optimum management of LTC assessing and monitoring symptoms
Amber: signs of decline
falls
infection
weight loss
gradual decline
Discuss deterioration and potential outcomes with family
not exact science
may improve
may plateau
may continue to deteriorate
consider discussing options and preferences
consider (if appropriate) discussing ACP DNA-CPR consider out of hours handover (Ask GP on register)
continue to assess and monitor symptoms
review residents who are in the amber section weekly (or sooner)
Red: day by day deterioration
as above
lack of interest in life
consider (as above)
reviewed daily (or sooner)
If clinical judgement indicates resident is dying
commence pathway for the dying person
Green: no major changes in physical or mental status
care needs remain stable
review every month
continue to provide optimum management of LTC assessing and monitoring symptoms
Amber: signs of decline
falls
infection
weight loss
gradual decline
Discuss deterioration and potential outcomes with family
not exact science
may improve
may plateau
may continue to deteriorate
consider discussing options and preferences
consider (if appropriate) discussing ACP DNA-CPR consider out of hours handover (Ask GP on register)
continue to assess and monitor symptoms
review residents who are in the amber section weekly (or sooner)
Red: day by day deterioration
as above
lack of interest in life
consider (as above)
reviewed daily (or sooner)
If clinical judgement indicates resident is dying
commence pathway for the dying person
27. How? Regular discussion within the care home.
Regular discussion with other health and social care professionals.
Identifying changing needs and anticipating care.
Proactive measures
Often deterioration is so gradual that it is difficult to recognise
Regular review focus attentionOften deterioration is so gradual that it is difficult to recognise
Regular review focus attention
28. How?
Identifying key person(s) to coordinate care and maintain the register. All assume someone else is taking care of issues
key person knows that it is part of their normal responsibilities
built in to the routine of the homeAll assume someone else is taking care of issues
key person knows that it is part of their normal responsibilities
built in to the routine of the home
29. How?
Promoting the use of recognised tools:
Assess symptoms
Improve communication
Help to inform care
Educate staff To identify issues
To record and communicate
To assess physical problems
To assess emotional, social, spiritual and practical problems
Recognise when to ask for help from specialists
To anticipate needs and plan appropriately
discuss preferred options
have equipment in place sooner rather than later
to have drugs on site
to have a plan of action
to have the dying phase planned (as much as possible)
plan of pro active support – knowing who to contact
To identify issues
To record and communicate
To assess physical problems
To assess emotional, social, spiritual and practical problems
Recognise when to ask for help from specialists
To anticipate needs and plan appropriately
discuss preferred options
have equipment in place sooner rather than later
to have drugs on site
to have a plan of action
to have the dying phase planned (as much as possible)
plan of pro active support – knowing who to contact
30. How?
Promoting a culture of learning and reflection:
Recognising success
Celebrating teamwork
Identifying gaps
Forging stronger links
Generalists
Specialists
By reflecting and listening to patients, families and staff memebers
We learn what we have done well in the past
what we can do better in the future
Improve staff moral
Respond to gaps
By reflecting and listening to patients, families and staff memebers
We learn what we have done well in the past
what we can do better in the future
Improve staff moral
Respond to gaps
31. Companions on the journey
“The essential concept is that the team will stay firmly with the patient and relatives at their time of need and not desert them”
Man caring for his dying wife. Learning how to care for our aging population may be our greatest calling
Can we rise to the challenge?
Can we travel with them
Help to meet their needs
Can we promote a sense of security for older people and their families
than we know what we are doing
that we care about them
that we will do all we can to help and support them
Can we look after ourselves as we attempt to engage in this work
Good palliative care is appreciated by patients and families
It is the core of good care of the older person
May be the best thing that we achieve
Learning how to care for our aging population may be our greatest calling
Can we rise to the challenge?
Can we travel with them
Help to meet their needs
Can we promote a sense of security for older people and their families
than we know what we are doing
that we care about them
that we will do all we can to help and support them
Can we look after ourselves as we attempt to engage in this work
Good palliative care is appreciated by patients and families
It is the core of good care of the older person
May be the best thing that we achieve
32. Live
Engaging in this kind of work will stretch us to the limit
Takes enormous amount of compassion
In the end we can, if we open ourselves to the messages we see lived out before us, receive greater wisdom
“By listening to people in the end stages of life, all of us learned
What we should have done differently in the past
What we could do better in the future
The lessons boiled down to the same message:
Live so that you don’t look back and regret that you’ve wasted your life.
Live so you don’t regret the things you have done
Or wish that you had acted differently
Live honestly and fully
Live
Engaging in this kind of work will stretch us to the limit
Takes enormous amount of compassion
In the end we can, if we open ourselves to the messages we see lived out before us, receive greater wisdom
“By listening to people in the end stages of life, all of us learned
What we should have done differently in the past
What we could do better in the future
The lessons boiled down to the same message:
Live so that you don’t look back and regret that you’ve wasted your life.
Live so you don’t regret the things you have done
Or wish that you had acted differently
Live honestly and fully
Live