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Becoming a Person of Influence. Vignette 1. “Everything in your life must change…NOW.” TRT 0:44. How to be a more effective change agent. How to have more impact. Another brochure is not the answer. Tool of Influence #1. Be likeable. WIC Clients Want to Feel. Valuable Important
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Vignette 1 “Everything in your life must change…NOW.” TRT 0:44
How to be a more effective change agent... How to have more impact...
Tool of Influence #1 Be likeable.
WIC Clients Want to Feel • Valuable • Important • Honored • Capable
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. Actions that make you likeable • Accept and like your clients.
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. Actions that make you likeable • Refrain from asking sensitive questions. Are you havingANOTHER baby? Do both of your children have the same father?
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. Actions that make you likeable • Smile.
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. Actions that make you likeable • Make your client feel comfortable, welcome and relaxed.
Try some of these simple steps tomorrow: • Tell your client that you’re happy to see her. • Thank her for coming. • Give a sincere compliment. • Tell her she’s doing a great job. • Show an interest in her personally. • Talk to her children. • Listen to her. • Share something personal about yourself.
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. Actions that make you likeable • Establish a common bond between you and your client.
WIC educators can increase their influence with statements like: • “I’m a mom, too.” • “I feel pressed for time, too.” • “I struggle with my weight, too.” • “My child’s weight was a little high at that age, too.”
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. Actions that make you likeable • Be positive.
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. • Negative approach… client may feel attacked. • Positive approach…client is more likely to listen and make changes.
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. Actions that make you likeable • Avoid words that have harsh or negative connotations.
Tool of Influence #1: Be likeable. Actions that make you likeable • Present the client’s problem as temporary.
Vignette 2 “Be likeable.” TRT 0:56
Tool of Influence #2 Give them something.
Tool of Influence #2: Give them something. • Give clients something they value.
Vignette 3 “This is temporary.” TRT 1:00
Tool of Influence #3 Give them “exclusive” information.
Make your information, tips and messages feel “exclusive.” Tool of Influence #3: Give themexclusive information. • Use questions that encourage the client to reveal what’s important to her. • Provide time for the client to think about her responses. • Listen fully to the client using your heart and head.
Tool of Influence #3: Give themexclusive information. • Label materials with client or child’s name • Ask the client to write her own action plan Make your information, tips and messages feel “exclusive.”
Tool of Influence #4 Use emotion when talking to your client.
Tool of Influence #4: Use emotion. 3-Steps to persuade others…according to Aristotle 1. Credibility 2. EMOTION 3. Logic
Tool of Influence #4: Use emotion. are more important than
Tool of Influence #4: Use emotion. Talk about the emotional benefits of taking action.
Vignette 4 “A few things I do.” TRT 1:24
Tool of Influence #5 Let them know what others are doing.
Vignette 5 “How others make this work.” TRT 1:57
Tool of Influence #6 Get them to make a commitment.
Tool of Influence #6: Get them to make a commitment. Ask questions. • What will you do first? • When do you think you can get started? • How do you think this will work for you and your family?
Tool of Influence #6: Get them To make a commitment. Try verbal confirmations. • Are you willing to give _____ a try? • Can I count on you to give me feedback on _____ next time? • Will your family get to try _____ this month?
Vignette 6 “What idea can you try today?” TRT 1:18
Tool of Influence #7 FINAL Tool of Influence End the visit on a high note.
Vignette 7 “A person of influence in 6 minutes...” TRT 6:07