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In spiritually mis-matched marriages, learn how to navigate with respect, authentic discipleship, and the power of good words to shape a thriving relationship. Discover the three gifts husbands and wives can give each other.
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R.E.S.P.E.C.T. Ronnie Norman
1 Peter 3:1-2 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.
In spiritually mis-matched marriages, authentic & patient discipleship is the best strategy.
In spiritually mis-matched marriages, authentic & patient discipleship is the best strategy. • Your love for your spouse is no substitute for his/her personal decisions.
1 Peter 3:3-7 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
1 Peter 3:3-7 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God would adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
1 Peter 3:3-7 7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
Proverbs 18:20-21 20 From the fruit of their mouth a person’s stomach is filled; with the harvest of their lips they are satisfied. 21 The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.
Your marriage is shaped, in large part, by your mouth. • Bad words do not produce goodresults.
Your marriage is shaped, in large part, by your mouth. • Bad words do not produce goodresults. • Good words are not unproductive.
Your marriage is shaped, in large part, by your mouth. • Bad words do not produce goodresults. • Good words are not unproductive. • Every word is consequential.
Top Complaints about Husbands • Seldom tells me he loves me • Spends too much time at work • He doesn’t really know me • He doesn’t honor me as an equal • He has a roving eye
Every Husband Needs • To feel honored and respected. • Sexual intimacy. • Friendship - fun together. • Order & warmth at home.
Three Gifts Husbands & Wives Give To Each Other • Awareness
Three Gifts Husbands & Wives Give To Each Other • Awareness • Adjustment
* Invite your spouse to speak the truth in love without you being defensive.
Three Gifts Husbands & Wives Give To Each Other • Awareness • Adjustment • Appreciation