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Consulting about Sexual Issues

Sexuality in Professional Practice: # Three East Central Region October 5, 2012 Gordon J. Hilsman, D. Min. Consulting about Sexual Issues. Latin Con – either “with” or “against”! Sultare = “to strike” “To strike with and/or against”. “Consult” Etymology. Seeking Consultation.

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Consulting about Sexual Issues

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  1. Sexuality in Professional Practice: # Three East Central Region October 5, 2012 Gordon J. Hilsman, D. Min. Consulting about Sexual Issues

  2. Latin Con – either “with” or “against”! Sultare = “to strike” “To strike with and/or against” “Consult” Etymology

  3. Seeking Consultation

  4. Vague sense of fear Difficulty identifying a supervisory plan Complaints from your boss Peer group alarm Complaints from med. staff, pastoral care or IDT Startling written material Facial clues Impulses (your own) to violent solutions Indicators of a Need to Consult

  5. Perspective Confidence Support Integrity Learning (wisdom) The Benefits of Consultation

  6. Pride (illusions of superiority, excessive image management) Marked self reliance Allowing self confusion Rationalizations, justifications, minimizing Realization that you have stopped supervising Procrastination (laziness?) Barriers to Consultative Openness

  7. From Consulting Need to Supervisory Plan

  8. Savvy to you Savvy re: the issue Trustable “to a point” Earthy Experienced in general Mature Gender optimal ___________________ Astute Selection: With Whom to consult

  9. Motivation for the initiative (where’s the pain, fear, anger, confusion, etc.) Observations Emotions Unfolding history - Key Events Initial conceptualizations Inclinations Data/Content of a Consultation Session

  10. Listen Convey Empathy (no matter what) Listen Frame and conceptualize Listen Ask good (clarifying) questions Listen “Validate what you like and ask good questions” (Bernard Pennington) How to be a Consultant

  11. Co= Cf = Vα + Qg + Cr r E (Consultation Feedback = Authentic Validation + Good Questions + Relevant Critique, all supported with empathy) Consultative Feedback

  12. I Am An Innocent Man (Billy Joel, background during break) (or Bach) Break

  13. (Facilitate two person consultative sessions)

  14. Rachmaninof background?

  15. Wrap-up Comments and evaluation questionnaire

  16. Still the best resource for Catholic students and other’s who want or need a positive view of sexuality integrated with intimate loving, as fostering the growth of Christian virtue and spiritual maturity. Sheed and Ward: 2007 Available today for a mere $10.00

  17. FINIS

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