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Marriage Boot Camp. Big Group Sharing. Love Language Dyads. Love Languages. Ladies: Give your mate the DEFINITION of your love language. Love Languages. Men: What I heard you say… . Love Languages. Ladies:
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Marriage Boot Camp
Big Group Sharing
Love Language Dyads
Love Languages Ladies: Give your mate the DEFINITION of your love language
Love Languages Men: What I heard you say…
Love Languages Ladies: How would you feel if you had your love language fulfilled on a regular basis?
Love Languages Men: Tell your mate what you just learned about them.
Love Languages Men: Give your mate the DEFINITION of your love language
Love Languages Ladies: What I heard you say….
Love Languages Men: How would you feel if you had your love language fulfilled on a regular basis?
Love Languages Ladies: Tell your mate what you just learned about them.
Medicine Drill
Medicine Share Time
Medicine Drill Opposite Sex Dyads
Medicine Drill • How many doses of medicine did you end the game with? • What does that say about you? B A
Medicine Drill If your medicine could cure anything in your life, what would you want it to cure? B A
Medicine Drill What fear is keeping you from making changes and moving forward? B A
Medicine Drill Men: Get into a Dyad with your Mate.
Medicine Drill Ladies: What can you take from this game for yourself and for your relationship?
Medicine Drill Men: What can you take from this game for yourself and for your relationship?
Medicine Drill Medicine Traffic Jam
Medicine Drill Find everyone that you gave medicine to and tell them why you gave it to them.
My button gets pushed when I feel… • Criticized or compared • Made fun of, humiliated • inadequate, stupid • Unappreciated, ignored • Taken advantage of, powerless • Unfairly accused, distrusted • Disrespected • Unloved
Hot Buttons My button gets pushed when….
Hot Buttons Hot Buttons Dyad
Hot Buttons Ladies: Share some of your buttons and how it makes you feel to have your buttons pushed by your mate
Hot Buttons Ladies: What phrase does your mate use to push your buttons.
Hot Buttons Men: Share some of your buttons and how it makes you feel to have your buttons pushed by your mate
Hot Buttons Men: What phrase does your mate use to push your buttons.
Hot Buttons The 3 R’s RECOGNIZE I'm getting triggered RELAX Deep breath REASSURE I can handle this
Hot Buttons THE POINT OF NO RETURN
Triggers STOP ACTION All action must stop you both must BACK OFF!
Triggers CHECK BACK IN
Hot Buttons History
Hot Buttons History Ladies: Share your buttons and how your buttons got their start.
Hot Buttons History Men: Share your buttons and how your buttons got their start.
In the Park What bad things might have happened to your mom, that gave her some bad traits? B A
In the Park What bad things might have happened to your dad, that gave him some bad traits? B A
In the Park How has their hurt been passed on to you? B A
In the Park How can you break the generations of damage and keep from passing it on to your children? B A