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John 8:31-32. "If you abide in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine; and you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. ". Marriage. A Spiritual Covenant. Is Marriage A Contract or A Covenant?. The Problem With Looking At Marriage As A Contract:
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John 8:31-32 "If you abide in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine; and you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. "
Marriage A Spiritual Covenant
Is Marriage A Contract or A Covenant? • The Problem With Looking At Marriage As A Contract: • Contracts Can Be Broken By Mutual Consent. • Contracts Are Usually Renegotiated As Circumstances Change. • It Is Unscriptural. Contract Or Covenant
Malachi 2:14 “Because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant.”
Jer. 31:32 “…not like the covenant which I made with their fathers in the day I took them by the hand to bring them out of the land of Egypt, My covenant which they broke, although I was a husband to them, declares the LORD. ”
Covenant In The Hebrew • Covenant – beriyth (ber-eeth') • To Cut; A Compact Made By Passing Through Pieces of Flesh. • Gen. 15:9-10then17-18 • A Covenant and Its Making Was and Is To Be Spiritual!!!
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • Why Is There A Bride and Groom Side? • Why Does The Groom Enter First? • He Is The Initiator of the Covenant.
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • Why Does The Father Walk The Bride Down The Isle? • The Parents Are Showing Their Agreement With This Covenant. • The Father Fulfills His Duty To Present His Daughter Pure (Dt. 22:13-21).
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • The Father Gives The Bride Away. • This Represents A Transfer of Authority and Responsibility. • It Again Shows An Approval of This Marriage Covenant.
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • The Couple Exchanges Rings. • This Is A Token of the Covenant. • God Gave Us A Rainbow As A Token of His Covenant.
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • The Introduction of the Couple. • Emphasizes The Changing of Names.
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? Armenia 4/10 of 1% • The Signing of the Guest Book. • Used To Be Signed At The Reception. • They Are Signing As Witnesses and Making A Claim To Help This Covenant.
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • What About The Receiving Line? • This Is When The Witnesses Can Give A Blessing To The Couple. • Ruth 4:11-15
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • Why Is There Food at the Reception? • This Is The Covenant Meal. It Is A Celebration and A Sealing of The Covenant. • Wedding at Cana
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • Why Do They Feed Each Other Cake? • This Represents Them Becoming of One Flesh.
What Is The Significance of The Wedding Ceremony? • Why Have A Preacher? • This Is A Spiritual Covenant Made Between Two People and God. • The Preacher Is To Remind Us Of The Importance of Marriage In God’s Eyes.
A Wedding Is Not Just About Having Fun and Making Great Pictures The First Person You Need To Be Betrothed To Is God!!!
Marriage A Spiritual Covenant
How Vows Have Changed • They Vow “Till Death Do Us Part” and “For Better or Worse”, But Don’t Keep Them. • Now They Have Changed Their Vows To Make Less of A Commitment.
This Is Not The Way God Intended It! • Num. 30:2 • Deut. 23:21-23 • Eccl. 5:4-5
This Is Not The Way God Intended It! • Matt. 5:33-37; Jas. 5:12 • Matt. 23:16-22 Shows Us That The Pharisees Had Come Up With Loopholes In Which An Oath Was Not Binding. • Jesus Was Telling Them That Their Word Was To Be Their Word No Matter What!
What Should I Know Before I Make A Marriage Vow? Prov. 20:25 - Count The Costs “It is foolish and rash to make a promise to the Lord before counting the cost” (TLB). #1
What Should I Know Before I Make A Marriage Vow? 1 John 3:18 - The Sin of Staying Together “Let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth.” #2
What Should I Know Before I Make A Marriage Vow? John 13:34 - Define Love Correctly “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you.” #3
Do You Have A Copy of Your Vows? • Can You Remember What You Vowed? • Have You Forgotten Your Vows To God? • Maybe It’s Time To Renew Your Vows & Start Living By Them!