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“ Have to ”. Learning Positive Vocabulary. Learning Positive Vocabulary. Objective: To understand that each individual influences what happens in their life by the vocabulary they choose to use. One doesn’t have to do anything. One always has a choice.
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“Have to” Learning Positive Vocabulary
Learning Positive Vocabulary • Objective: • To understand that each individual influences what happens in their life by the vocabulary they choose to use. • One doesn’t have to do anything. One always has a choice.
Words that Give Personal Power “Have to” versus “Choose to”
“Have to” versus “Choose to” “Are there some things that you ‘have to’ do in life?” YES “What would some of those things be?” • Make a list of examples on board • Pick one and write it on top of your paper
I ‘HAVE TO’: ?????? Take a few minutes and think about what would happen if you chose to do that action. - Write what would happen in the “I Do” column. - Identify what would happen if you didn’t do it and write those things down in the ‘I Don’t’ column.” “Who’s in control of your life if you have to do something?”
“Have to” versus “Choose to” “How do you feel when someone tells you that you have to do something?” “What is the quality of work someone does when they feel that way?” “You don’t ‘HAVE to’ do anything. There is only 1 thing you have to do at some time in your life that you have no option and that is DIE. There is nothing else you have to do.
“Have to” versus “Choose to” • Do you have to drive the speed limit?NO… • What are the consequences if you don’t? • Do you have to clean your room?NO… • What are the consequences if you don’t? • Do you have to do what you parent says?NO… • What are the consequences if you don’t? • Do you have to eat? NO… • What are the consequences if you don’t? • Do you have to do your school work? NO… • What are the consequences if you don’t?
“Have to” versus “Choose to” • “Who decides whether you’ll do something or not?” • “So it is you who is making the choices?” • “In the examples we just reviewed, your choice of whether or not to do something, had what? • “So what you are saying is that, when you make a choice to do something or not, YOU are in reality choosingthe consequences that will follow.”
“Have to” versus “Choose to” • Do you have to drive the speed limit?NO… • What are the consequences if you do? • Do you have to clean your room?NO… • What are the consequences if you do? • Do you have to do what you parent says?NO… • What are the consequences if you do? • Do you have to eat? NO… • What are the consequences if you do? • Do you have to do your school work? NO… • What are the consequences if you do?
“Have to” versus “Choose to” • “Do you have a choice about everything you do in your life?” YES • “If you have a choice, who is in control of your life?” YOU ARE. • “How does it feel to realize that you don’t have to do anything, that you have a choice, that you are in control?” Good, Powerful, Free, Calmer, less Angry, etc.. • “What quality of work is someone likely to produce when they are doing something by their own choice? GOOD !!!!!
