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Tannen and Kimmel Gender Bias. Morgan Bahl and Emily Darrah. Guy Code. The collection of attitudes, values, and traits that together compose what it means to be a man. Used as a means of “measuring up” “Bros before hoes” mentality Masculinity defined by clichés such as:
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Tannen and KimmelGender Bias Morgan Bahl and Emily Darrah
Guy Code • The collection of attitudes, values, and traits that together compose what it means to be a man. • Used as a means of “measuring up” • “Bros before hoes” mentality • Masculinity defined by clichés such as: • Never give up, don’t show weakness, don’t give in, get rich, get even, don’t show feelings and be tough
Gender Police • Who? • Dads, brothers, male teachers, PE Class, coaches, uncles, grandpas, priests • Why? • Others are watching performance, maintain a manly front cover, avoid being called gay • Homosocial pressure—not to impress women but to meet the expectations of other guys • Fail to qualify leads to feelings of inadequacy, incomplete, inferior, shame, • Turns to rage to replace humiliation • What do you think? Is acting manly to measure up with the guys or to impress the girls?
Psych Development • Brannon- Social Psychology • Don’t be a sissy—weak, effeminate, or gay • Big wheel—wealth, power, status • Sturdy oak—reliable in crisis, not even necessarily by responding appropriately • Give ‘em hell—risky, daring, aggressive • Learned early on in childhood • Separated from mother and spends more time with the father • Suppress compassion, nurturance, vulnerability, and dependency • Denies emotion and disguises feelings • Increased violence, anger, suicide, dropping out of school
Cultures of Guyland • 1. Entitlement • Waiting for playing the cards right to pay off later • Reward for doing the “guy thing” right • Power- being able to do what you want in the world • 2. Silence • No one says anything about the violence that occurs • Often suffer without speaking up • Not calling out the rape, bullying, etc. • 3. Protection • Silence protects and supports; “turn the other way” • Takes away responsibility and teaches transgression/repeated action
There is No unmarked woman • Linguistic metaphor of being “marked” or “unmarked” • Marked- language alters the base meaning of a word by adding a “particle” that has no meaning of its own • Unmarked- carries the meaning that goes without saying • Examples: • Make up, clothing choices, hair style—all of which don’t have a meaning alone • Add these to the woman and she becomes “marked”, choosing a meaning or persona • There’s difficulty in being “unmarked” • No plain woman • Similar pressures between men and women to “perform” and meet standards
Discussion and debate • Who has it more difficult and what does gender bias look like? • Think about: • Jobs • Pay • Respect • Expectations • Does anyone have an example of gender bias that they’ve experienced?