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Engagement and Wedding: The Parable of the Ten Virgins Part 1 Matthew 24:42-51. The world began with a wedding and will end with the same. Adam and Eve were married by God in the Garden of Eden. .
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Engagement and Wedding: The Parable of the Ten Virgins Part 1 Matthew 24:42-51
Adam and Eve were married by God in the Garden of Eden. The world will end with a marriage feast with Christ as the Bridegroom and the Church as the Bride.
Salvation: (Jeshua) Hebrew = feminine term… they believed you had to be married. There is no word in Hebrew for “Bachelor.” In Christ’s time marriage was not just an option.
Hebrew youth had no expectations of finding “the right one.” Love wasn’t important until after the marriage. Social interaction would have been bewildering and unappealing to the youth of Bible times.
Young girls would dance in a white dress Before for the Betrothal After the Day of Atonement, while young men observed, but were told not to give attention to the face…only the goodness of the family
Only a disobedient son would marry a woman of his own choice without consent of the father. Esau married 2 Hittite women and lost his birthright
The First two wives of Esau.They were Hittites, and that means they were Canaanites. (Gen 26:34)"And Esau was forty years old when he took to wife Judith the daughterof Beeri the Hittite, and Bashemath the daughter of Elon the Hittite:" The Cursed Line of Canaan (Gen 9:22-27)The family line of Canaan was cursed because of his father, Ham.These two wives were a grief of mind to Isaac and Rebekah. (Gen 26:35; 27:46; 28:6-8)
Order of Betrothal and Marriage: Bridegroom=Christ Bride=Church=Endowed portion “I Believe that the Ten Virgins represent the people of the Church of Jesus Christ and not the rank and file of the world” Spencer W. Kimball, Faith Precedes the Miracle. P. 253
Betrothal: Like our engagements Serious covenant Legally binding Could not break without a divorce. Legally married but not consummated. Choosing a companion was not the prerogative of the bride…only the groom, she could only accept or reject.
Christ loved and chose us from the Pre-Existence. Ours is to accept Him or reject Him. (Ephesians 1:4)
Betrothal “Kiddushin” Dedication to one another…”One Soul in Two Bodies” Meaning to be devoted irrevocably, being sanctified and set apart, and being consecrated.
Shidduch, or Matchmaking: A parent or close friend or relative of the young man or woman suggests they meet. Purpose: Prospective bride and groom to determine if compatible. The Talmud states that the couple must also be physically attractive to each other. The Meeting
Young man with his father or male, “Friend of the Bridegroom” would meet the father of the woman on a Wednesday (Wed…nes…day) in the middle of the month during a full moon (The day the heavenly lights were created.)
They would refuse food until the interview with the bride’s father was granted. They couldn’t “break bread” because that was the “covenant meal” to seal the agreement.
Three parts to a marriage proposal: As Jacob did for Rachel
1. Money Bride price “Mohar” Negotiated in the presence of the bride. Value and esteem= to the size of the price paid for her.
Gift from the Bridegroom guarded carefully… Bride would usually adorn herself Bride Gift
The Free Gift of redemption. It is a free gift to us, but it cost Him His life. We “adorn” ourselves with the evidence of living the atonement in our lives.
Mahana= 8 cow wife This bride price was usually paid in livestock, money or jewels. Service could also be offered (Jacob worked 14 years for his 2 wives)
Dowry: Part of the bride price became her security if her husband died or divorced her. Symbolism: “en-dow-ment” A shield and safeguard.
Christ paid the highest possible “bride price” for us (Acts 20:28) Paid in installments: Sinless life in Pre-Existence Mortality Atonement and Death
2. Marriage Contract becomes her guarded possession “Ketubah” The woman does not need to promise anything.
Ancient Israel brides were considered a personal possession. Pagan tradition: after physical intimacy, making a wife a woman, if he wanted a divorce all he had to do was say 3 times, “I hate you.”
Bridegroom makes 3 main promises in the Ketubah: • I will provide all for you • I will redeem you • (if you are ever taken in war) • I will “know” you as a husband • (provide children)
1. I will provide all for you--- Christ has provided all we need for salvation---Resurrection 2. I will redeem you (if you are ever taken in war)---Christ redeems us from bondage/Satan 3. I will “Know” you as a husband---If we take Christ and his law into our hearts and we can come to intimately know and love Him.
3. Seal it with a Cup of Wine and Bread The young man pours the cup of wine then places it before the woman. She has about 30 seconds to make up her mind. If she does not drink, he leaves forever. If she does drink, then she is willing to take his name upon her. 2 witnesses have to be present.
Covenant Meal They eat together symbolizing the joining of two families. Bread = God’s word Salt = preserving the covenant If we eat and drink the symbol of His sacrifice for us then we are taking upon ourselves His name and all it represents.
Ritual Statement and Consecration: Bridegroom would then say, “Thou are set apart (or consecrated) for me according to the Law of Moses and Israel. Set apart = made sure We, the bride, only remain faithful and true to Christ if we put Him first in all things. The covenant is “made sure” upon our righteousness
Bride now would: Wear a veil over her hair when in public. She was now sanctified and dedicated to another…for the rest of her life. Her hair was her “glory” and now exclusively to be seen only by her husband. Temple veil conceals the Holy of Holies…she is now “set apart” for the greatest holiness possible … bringing forth of life
We, the bride, now are sanctified and dedicated to Christ and reserve ourselves to Him and not to the world or Satan.
Bridegroom prepares a Place for the Bride: Returns to his father’s place…a man on a mission Builds a home on father’s land or attached to his father’s house. Under the father’s direction it is to be well built and stocked Everything that son did was a reflection of his father. Only with the father’s permission was the son allowed to get his bride. Only the father knew when the wedding would be once the preparations had been finished.
“In my Father’s house are many mansion: if it were not so I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. (John 14:2) “If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.” (John 14:3) “But of that day and hour (the Bridegroom’s return) knoweth no man, no not the angels of heaven, but my Father only.” (Matthew 24:36)
Friend of the Bridegroom Delivers invitations to the wedding Acts as a liaison between the bride and bridegroom (bride and bridegroom do not communicate except through the friend.) And becomes the guarantor of the bride's virgin chastity until the consummation takes place.
The Comforter acts as the ultimate “friend of the bridegroom.” He gives us messages, gifts, watches over our chastity, assists with our learning and comforts us. Comforter---Greek translated into Latin (fortis) means “brave”. Someone who puts courage into us.
Bride’s Preparation Swaddling Bands---the embroidery must be exactly the same on both sides. Symbolic of outward life and inner life were the same, they were never to have a “wrong side” to their character.
Symbols on the bands: Indicate the family history Mary was from the tribe of Judah, so she may have used symbols common to that lineage such as a lion, a lamb, or a tree of life.. As a descendant of David, she was also entitled to use the royal colors of blue and white.
Under the wedding canopy, the decorated bands would be tied around the clasped right hand on the bride and groom. These bands would later be used to wrap around the swaddling clothes of their children. (Christ) Our primary life preparation should be to build up our character; to have honor and integrity, To live a single-minded life so that the same high character we show publicly is who we are in our private life.
Gift for the Bridegroom “Tallit” Prayer shawl A man may begin wearing a tallit for prayers when he is married and everyday until he dies.
Special meaning for a bride to give this gift A tallit has 4 tassels, called Tzitzit, with 8 strings in each = 32. The number 32 is the number of “lev” which is “heart” in Hebrew. She is giving her “heart” to her husband for all to see every day.
Another Duty for the Bride Providing oil for cooking and lighting the home, especially for the Sabbath lamp.
Our Daily Duty It is our responsibility to make ourselves worthy for the Spirit and to actively seek it. Our personal commitment to daily private spiritual study is a way of keeping the light burning.
The Endowment and Adornment A betrothed bride also wore special items of clothing which set her apart. Fine Linen---clean and white. She adorns herself with the gifts that her bridegroom has given her.
Our Spiritual Wardrobe Christ’s bride has been clothed with garments that mark us too. Luke 24:49 “Ye will be endowed with power from on high”
Ceremonial Washing “Mikevah” A ritual bath or immersion A pool that was filled from a natural water source like a spring or lake.
“Mikevah” Immersion means “to dip, soak, immerse” into liquid so that what is dipped take on the quality of what it has been dipped in.
“Living Water” The idea was to take on the qualities of the “living water” for purity and cleanliness. Her life and body were to be the gift of living sacrifice without spot or blemish to her husband.
Sacrifice “korban” Hebrew word “to come near, to approach, to become closely involved in a relationship” להקריב; למכור בהפסד Our translation of the Hebrew idea of sacrifice not an accurate one since there is no English word to describe it.
