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Join PastorServe for a complimentary coaching session at The Gathering in Orlando, Florida on January 10, 2019. Discover the key relationships every pastor should have and learn how to thrive in ministry by escaping pastoral isolation. Don't miss this opportunity to strengthen yourself and your church.
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The Gathering Orlando Florida January 10, 2019
Escaping Pastoral Isolation Key relationships every pastor should have
Who is in the room? Pastor, Chaplain, Missionary, Church Planter, Ministry Leader, Lay Leader, Pastor Spouse, Church Administration…
PastorServe Complimentary Coaching Session PastorServe has come to The Gathering to serve you. These key principles form the basis of all one-on-one meetings.
PastorServe Coaching • We are all broken. We need Jesus as much as you need Jesus. We need Grace as much as you. • Therefore - There is nothing you can share with us which will make us think less of you. • It will be impossible for you to share anything with us that we have not heard before. • What you share with PastorServe is 100% confidential. • We understand that most initially hold back. • The Gospel is our only Hope! • Take advantage of what the Wesleyans have provided you!
TheGrowing Epidemicof Isolation and Loneliness
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On January 17, 2018 the seriousness of the Loneliness Issue prompted UK Prime Minister Theresa May to appoint a Minister of Loneliness
“The overall health of any church or ministry depends primarily on the emotional and spiritual health of the leadership.” Peter Scazzero The Emotionally Healthy Church
“The emotional and spiritual health of the leadership can be directly tied to relational intimacy.” Jimmy Dodd Survive or Thrive, 6 Relationships Every Pastor Needs
Who is In Your Car? September 5, 1989
Thriving Leaders… Consistently Work toNarrowtheMaturity Gap Index
The Maturity Gap Index Front Stage Giftedness, Ministry Competency, Talent vs. Back Stage Character, Maturity
The Maturity Gap Index Many gifts from the Lord, if misused, can have a dark side. For example: GiftManner in which gift can be abused Preaching Manipulating through words Passion Belittling others who do not share passion Insightful Correcting situation before being invited Visionary Placing self above other styles of leadership (ENTJ – not the only leaders in the Church) Knowledge Shaming others not as knowledgeable Making others feel stupid Wisdom Prideful know-it-all
Thriving Leaders… Close the MGI by Understanding andPracticing theSix Key Relationships Every Pastor Needs
The Six Key Relationships Trainer Boss Coach Professional Development Personal Development Counselor Friend Mentor
Thriving Leaders… Live Open Lives by Committing to Intimate Friendships And by doing so – they know God better!
The Incredible Friendship of Jack, Ron and Chuck C.S. Lewis, J.R.R. Tolkien and Charles Williams
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Johari Window WHAT I KNOWABOUT ME WHAT I DON’TKNOW ABOUT ME WHAT YOU KNOWABOUT ME WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME
Self Reflection • Draw your Life using the Johari Window • With whom do you share your secrets? • Do you have Nathans in your life? Who specifically?
Accountabilitysaves us from stupid choices
Accountabilitysaves us from stupid choices Intimacy saves us from devastating decisions Devastating decisions occur over time