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Lighten Up! Overcoming Terminal Professionalism. Presented by: Jennifer Medley – Student Loan Xpress B.J. Moncure – Jackson State University. What’s Up With TP. Badge of honor TP undermines productivity, creativity, adaptability, morale Symptoms
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Lighten Up!Overcoming Terminal Professionalism Presented by: Jennifer Medley – Student Loan Xpress B.J. Moncure – Jackson State University
What’s Up With TP • Badge of honor • TP undermines productivity, creativity, adaptability, morale • Symptoms • Inability to distinguish between who you are & your career, your children… • Chronic fatigue • 110% syndrome • Job dissatisfaction
Effects of “TP” • Physical • Increased blood pressure • Depressed immune system • Chronic fatigue • Head or neck ache • Sleep disorders • Emotion • Anger • Anxiety • Impatience • Irritability • Low Self Esteem • Behavior • Inability to concentrate • Trouble with relationships • Anxiety or panic attacks • Memory loss • Excessive consumption
Lighten Up & Live • Grace under pressure • Relieve stress • Attitude & outlook • Humor skills • Get SERIOUS about silliness • Difference between stupid & silly
Tighten Up & Leave • Fear of foolishness • Anger or dread • Life’s a bummer • Stuck in General Adaptation Syndrome
General Adaptation Syndrome (aka GAS) • Stage 1: The Alarm Reaction • Stage 2: Resistance • Stage 3: Exhaustion
How Do You Spell Relief? • Valve 1: Attitude • Valve 2: Physical Release • Valve 3: Mental Discipline • Valve 4: Humor
Dare To Be Foolish! Practice Humorobics!! • Humorobics #1 • Stand • Breathe • Smile • Humorobics #2 • Photo Funnies Develop Humor Skills • Escape from Center of the Universe • Take Yourself Lightly and Your Work/Challenges Seriously • Misery & Pain Are Free – Joy Has A Price Are we cute or what!
Humor Skill #1Escape from the Center of the Universe • Rise equal to or above problems through humor perspective • Understand your true place in the scheme of the universe!
Scheme of the Universe The Known Universe Center We are here!
Top 3 Warning Signs Center of the Universe-itis • Number 3: It’s NEVER your fault! • Number 2: It’s ALWAYS your fault! • Number 1: Combination of #2 & #3 !!
Help Me Escape! • Humor library • Funny file/notebook • Humor inventory • Aka “My Miserable Life” or “How I Lost My Humor Perspective” by (your name) • Humorobics #3 • Nose job
Humor Skill #2Take Yourself Lightly & Your Work/Challenges Seriously • When the going gets tough… • What’s the cause? • What do we do? • Why do we do it? • What can we control?
How ‘Ya Doing? OR Terminal Professional Serious Player
The 1% Solution Plus conversations Mini-vacations Tell Me How!
FREE time for you! • Find 5 minutes every day to be alone with all your senses. • Relax through deep breathing, visualization • Exercise minimum 20 minutes every day. • Enjoy humor - laugh frequently!
Weekends Only Calendar Friday Saturday Sunday Take me away
Disciplined sense in joy of being alive Joy list Learn to play Weekends only calendar Humor Skill #3Misery & Pain Are Free – Joy Has A Price!
Help for the TP Employee • Draw the line • Desk training • Secret silliness
Don’t cultivate workaholics Recognize difference between hard worker & workaholic Work, YES – let it be fun NUTS Lighten Up! techniques Align best interest of business in line with workers’ best interest “Best Place” Help for the TP Employer
Today’s “Best Place” Corporation • Fosters creativity • Matches people’s work with their passion • Capitalizes on ideas & innovation • Meets professional & emotional needs • Develops emotional intelligence • Taps into cultural capital
Humor Etiquette • Know your audience • Don’t use humor as a hammer • Use jokes that • Bond, not separate • Relieve tension, not create it
Thank You, Friends & Colleagues! Enjoy your day & remember to… Lighten Up!