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Tantric Communication. Using NVC and Tantra Together to Create Magic…. “EVERY JUDGMENT, ANGER OR UNPLEASANT BEHAVIOR IS A TRAGIC EXPRESSION OF UNMET NEEDS.” Marshall Rosenberg.
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Tantric Communication Using NVC and Tantra Together to Create Magic….
“EVERY JUDGMENT, ANGER OR UNPLEASANT BEHAVIOR IS A TRAGIC EXPRESSION OF UNMET NEEDS.”Marshall Rosenberg
“People try love and because they are unconscious...their longing is good, but their love is full of jealousy, full of possessiveness, full of anger, full of nastiness." Osho
NVC • Non violent communication is a life changing communication tool that allows the flow of communication needed • To exchange information clearly • To resolve conflicts peacefully • To connect to oneself and others at a deep level of intimacy • To bring and support Empowerment
NVC • The intention of NVC is to connect with what is real in ourselves, the others and to find creative solutions to meet everybody’s needs
NVC Background • NVC was created by Marshall Rosenberg, doctor in clinical psychology • As a child growing up in a stormy Detroit neighborhood, he was committed to come up with a new way of speaking that would cease the cycle of violence • As a psychologist in 1961, he brought into being such a language and teaches it all around the world in schools, prisons, politics, families etc.
What is Tantra? Tantra- To Extend Network; To Weave or Loom Tan- To extend Tra- Self
Tantra • Comes from India around the 5th century but reached its peak in 1200. • It seeks to find Chaos in balance. The merge of masculine and feminine, light and dark, fierce nature as well as graceful. • It supports liberation of the mind and body as they merge into one. • It seeks to remove the divisions that keep us from our full magnificence.
Tantra • Tantra is a holistic approach towards living life and finding union in communication, emotions, spirituality, psychology, sexuality, psychic ability, self-healing, relationships and material success. • It includes sacred art (Yantra), music (Mantra or Japa), movement (yoga or mudra) and advanced breathing (pranayama) and so much more. • Is an Esoteric study
Tantra • There's much confusion to those first learning Tantra due to its rich history of mysticism and ritual. The more one sets out to learn, the more one can find libraries of ancient text, scriptures and sutras. • It’s deeply rooted in (what's now known as) Hindu deities and tradition, ancient aboriginal practices, and yogic approaches.
Types Of Tantra • White • Red • Pink (blue) • Black
What Type of Tantra are We Learning Here? • Mahamudra Tantra • Maha means Great • Mudra means Gesture • As Taught by the Siddha Buddha Tilopa (988-1069) • As Taught By The Buddha Naropa(1016-1100) • As Lived and shared by Osho (1931-1990) • Pink • Chakra Based, Body Wisdom • Pro Sexuality • Human Experienced Based
Chakras Tantric Prospective
Basic Keys of Tantra Simple and practical keys that bring Tantra into a daily practice.
Basic Keys of Tantra Surrender- 1st Awareness- 2nd Movement- 3rd Intention- 4th Breath- 5th Sound- 6th Non-Judgment- 7th
Basic Keys of Tantra Surrender • That there is a flow that is for you to be in, rather then control. • Surrender to life being more simple then complex.
Basic Keys of Tantra Awareness • Being willing to take the witness position in life to full view of everything • Act and think in alignment with your desired outcomes. • Be aware of your ripples in life
Basic Keys of Tantra Movement • Movement of energy • Movement of emotions • Understanding when to move and when not too
Basic Keys of Tantra Breath and Sound • Each work with each other • Both support movement • Each have individual strengths, but chaining the two creates massive power. • Most people are less then aware of breath • In sex, many (mostly men) revert to silence and non-breathing.
Basic Keys of Tantra Intention • Difference between Goal and Intention • Intention is freedom • Attachment to outcome is released • Paramount in sexual issues around performance
Basic Keys of Tantra Non-Judgment • Stops a lot of critical thinking • Seeing all in their divine • Allows vision of the whole picture • Accepts life in totality
Basic Keys of Tantra • There are many more keys and aspects to Tantra • Being willing to receive the wholeness of you living each key • Enjoy the combinations of the keys • Putting all the keys into play offers a richness • Understand you have all the tools you need already
Chakras The Seven Rights • The right to be here • The right to feel • The right to act • The right to love and be loved • The right to speak and hear truth • The right to see • The right to know
Chakras The Demons/Tricksters of the Chakras • Fear • Guilt • Shame • Grief • Lies • Illusions • Attachment
The Cup Theory The Key to UnderstandRelationships
Pattern The Cup Theory
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