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MOST PROBLEMATIC VIOLATIONS IN FRIENDSHIPS

MOST PROBLEMATIC VIOLATIONS IN FRIENDSHIPS. BEING JEALOUS/CRITICAL OF YOUR OTHER RELATIONSHIPS NOT KEEPING CONFIDENCES CRITICIZING YOU IN PUBLIC NOT VOLUNTEERING HELP IN TIME OF NEED. NOT SHOWING POSITIVE REGARD FOR YOU NOT STANDING UP FOR YOU IN YOUR ABSENCE NOT GIVING EMOTIONAL SUPPORT.

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MOST PROBLEMATIC VIOLATIONS IN FRIENDSHIPS

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  1. MOST PROBLEMATIC VIOLATIONS IN FRIENDSHIPS • BEING JEALOUS/CRITICAL OF YOUR OTHER RELATIONSHIPS • NOT KEEPING CONFIDENCES • CRITICIZING YOU IN PUBLIC • NOT VOLUNTEERING HELP IN TIME OF NEED

  2. NOT SHOWING POSITIVE REGARD FOR YOU • NOT STANDING UP FOR YOU IN YOUR ABSENCE • NOT GIVING EMOTIONAL SUPPORT

  3. WHAT EACH PERSON BRINGS TO THE RELATIONSHIP

  4. RELATIONSHIP “BAGGAGE” • PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCES • Family

  5. Friends • Romantic Partners • CULTURAL EXPECTATIONS (from magazines, tv, music, movies) • ATTITUDES/VALUES • SITUATIONAL BAGGAGE (lifestyle, children, location)

  6. PERSONAL CHARACTERISTICS • Trait (Personality) or State (Temporary Characteristic) • Loneliness, self-esteem, etc. • Sexual Orientation • Gender Role Identification

  7. Interpersonal Needs • Inclusion • Know people who share your concerns • Know people you can depend on in a pinch • Ready access to one or more really close friends • Know people who respect your competence • Affection • Control

  8. “BAGGAGE” MATCHES AND MISMATCHES • COMPLEMENTARY RELATIONSHIPS • SYMMETRICAL RELATIONSHIPS

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