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The show The Pick Up Artist is a reality TV show where men are taught how t pick up women. The show is very controversial, particularly among women. Many women feel it is offensive and shows men simple tricks so they can trick women into sleeping with them, which begs the question as to whether they have even watched the content of the show... The Pickup Artist primarily teaches men many of the mistakes and wrong assumptions they are making in approaching women in the first the first place. The men they are demonstrating this to in the show and in general are men who would otherwise be too shy or not confident enough to talk to women. This is not a bad thing, what it actually means is that "nice guys" who wouldn't bother or would make mistakes that would have them dismissed out of hand, actually now have the ability to get past the "filter" most women use. The filter that women use to screen men has a very specific flaw that often is more harmful to women than they realize. When asked the majority of women say that "confidence is the most attractive quality in a man", not humility, not kindness, not intelligence, confidence.
When screening men they are using that as the measuring stick along with presentation. Men who are generally confident talking to women also have more experience and success with women, but that doesn't translate to them being "good for women" so much as "good with women". If the filter really worked, why are so many women the victims of "Game and Guile". It's not because of The Pickup Artist, quite the opposite. It's because without the skills taught by The Pickup Artist, nice guys don't intuitively have that level of confidence or even if they do, they don't necessarily know how to avoid mistakes that get them rejected instantly. As a result women are left with whichever guys are clever and confident enough to pass the filter, and for most of those guys it is just a numbers game. The Pickup Artist serves as both beneficial to men and women, by ultimately helping them get out of their own way so they can enjoy the company of someone who can make them happy.