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Welcome to All Oral Communications Classes. Part 2. Things that affect communication:. 11. Listening. Listening Process:. Step 1: Sense Sound (what was said) Step 2: Interpret (what was meant) Step 3: Examine (how it relates to you) Step 4: Respond (appropriately). Why Listen?.
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Welcome to All Oral Communications Classes Part 2
Things that affect communication: 11. Listening
Listening Process: Step 1: Sense Sound(what was said) Step 2: Interpret(what was meant) Step 3: Examine(how it relates to you) Step 4: Respond(appropriately)
Why Listen? To understand(information) To provide support(interpersonal relations) To analyze(persuasion)
Things That Interfere with Listening: A. External Distractions B. Internal distractions C. DESIRE to Talk D. Personal Biases E. Conflicting Demands
How to Listen Actively •Stay Tuned In •Read Nonverbals •Be Prepared •Avoid Distractions
How to Listen Actively •Apply Ideas to Self •Take notes •Write It Down •Check Out What you Hear •Ask Questions
Things that affect communication: 12. Self-concept
Self Concept DEFINITION: all beliefs and concepts you have about yourself Human Needs Behavior Information from Others
Self Concept Self actualization DEFINITION: all beliefs and concepts you have about yourself Self Esteem Social Needs Security Basic Needs
Oral Communications 3% - 7% ever achieve Self actualization Self Esteem: success, feel good about what you are good at Self Concept Social Needs: friends, love, & acceptance -TV models Security - safe, love, money Basic Needs: shelter, food, water
Behavior Attitude Feeling Self -concept - BEHAVIOR
Self -concept- BEHAVIOR Feeling +Attitude=Behavior Sick+don’t want = putting to be herehead on desk
Self -concept Information from others Peer Pressure Groups Situations
Communication is... Nonverbal Verbal
Non-verbal 93% of Communication
Non-verbal PARALANGUAGE Vocal Cues - It’s not what you say, but HOW you say it. “I didn’t kill him.” •tone of voice •emphasis •loudness/softness •pitch, tempo, sounds
Non-verbal PARALANGUAGE Vocal Cues - It’s not what you say, but HOW you say it. •pausing •laughing, •crying, giggling •uh-huh, •mmmm, ooooh
Sign Language Non-verbal Hand and head signs replace words, letters, numbers, ideas •Waving hello •Waving good-bye •ASL •Looks •Peace Sign Fingers
Sign Language Non-verbal •Peace Sign Fingers America v. Australia
Sign Language Non-verbal Hand and head signs replace words, letters, numbers, ideas •Waving hello •Waving good-bye •ASL •Looks •Peace Sign Fingers
ACTION LANGUAGE Non-verbal Gestures, posture, facial expressions, movements, eye contact These DO NOT replace what you are saying, but they help emphasize or reveal personality or emotional state. •pointing •looking •nodding •slouching
Action Language Non-verbal USA Japan Eskimos •Greeting
Non-verbal OBJECT LANGUAGE Display of material things, objects, items, decorations, clothing, hairstyles, jewelry, the body, pictures, posters •US flag •suit v. T-shirt •art, pictures •books
TACTILE COMMUNICATION Non-verbal Communicating with touch •patting on head •handshake •hugging •kissing •pushing, •shoving •slapping
SPACE & TIME Non-verbal Meanings related to distance and time •getting closer to someone (or farther away) •always late / always early (Proxemics)
SPACE & TIME Non-verbal Meanings related to distance and time •invading space - going into someone’s purse •lining up at the door before class period is over
SPACE & TIME Non-verbal Countries that Touch a lot! •Middle East •Latin Countries (Mexico, Panama, Puerto Rico) •Italy •Greece •Russia
SPACE & TIME Non-verbal Countries in the middle withTouch! •France •China •Ireland •India
SPACE & TIME Non-verbal Countries that DON’T Touch! •United States •Canada •Japan •England •Australia
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