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Family Worship. Or – “All-age worship” Or – “You can’t please all of the people all of the time…”. Agenda. Biblical basis for all-age worship Models of worship services Cultural issues Practical tips Conclusion Q&A. Biblical basis.
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Family Worship Or – “All-age worship” Or – “You can’t please all of the people all of the time…”
Agenda • Biblical basis for all-age worship • Models of worship services • Cultural issues • Practical tips • Conclusion • Q&A
Biblical basis • Exodus 10:9 – worship was to be a family and community activity • I Kings 19:19-21 – the importance of partnering and training between the generations • Psalm 8 – Not just required, but cause and effect of children praising – silences the enemy • Malachi 4:6 – unity between the generations is a key to revival
Biblical basis • Mark 9:37 – the importance of welcoming children • Mark 10:13-16 – the importance of being like children • Matthew 21/Luke 19 – the Triumphal Entry – the role of children and the response of Pharisees
Models of worship services • Sunday School model • Children may be in the “main” service for a period of time • Go to separate groups, usually split by age • Family Service model • All ages in the service for the whole time • Preach usually pitched accordingly
Models of worship services • Separate Children’s Church • May meet on a Sunday or another time • Specifically geared just for children • May have an evangelistic aim • Separate Youth Church • Ditto, but for teens and young adults • Usually a contemporary style
So what is the right model? • There is probably no absolute right model – just what is right for your church at a point in time • Be prepared to hear from God, and CHANGE! • Constantly re-evaluate and adapt as necessary
Cultural issues • Church attendance has been in decline in many UK churches • We live in a “choice” society – if I don’t like it, I can opt out or choose something different • Media like TV, Film, the Internet, are VISUAL • Patience is no longer seen as a virtue; everything must be instant
SHOULD THE CHURCH AIM FOR CULTURAL RELEVANCE AS A PRIORITY? Discuss
Practical Tips • Explain what we do, and why we do it • Be clear in expectations, especially of younger children • Be enthusiastic – be a worshipper (“Worship is caught not taught”) • Use a variety of songs, and don’t “label” songs as being adult, youth or children’s – blur the edges
Preparation is crucial Practical Tips • You will get out of a service what you put in • Plan, plan, plan • Prepare, prepare, prepare • Communicate well between the people with areas of responsibility
If you take away nothing else from this session, take this one thing away…
Hot tip number 1 BE VISUAL
Hot tip number 2 BE THEMATIC
Visual elements • Drama (drama is like pizza) • Dances / Action songs • Banners • Video clips • Visual aids – sermon illustrations; notices • People – get different people up front and involved
Hear, see, do • I hear, I forget • I see, I remember • I do, I understand
Practical tips • Be practical (and pragmatic) about the length of people’s concentration spans • Less is often more • Ask for feedback • What’s working and what isn’t? • Persevere • Get a vision; communicate the vision; stick with the vision
Conclusion • All-age worship is an ideal worth pursing • Not easy, but attainable • Children and youth are the future of the church and we should sacrifice to serve them • Need to hear from heaven – get a vision! • Go for it
Website www.familyworship.org.uk