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Discover How To Save Your Marriage On Your Own

http://howtogetbacktomyex.com: How To Save Your Marriage ... All marital relationships go through a tough stretch-- this is common for all couples. But if it seems that your problems are too serious, there is still a way to save your marriage even if your partner has practically closed down on you!

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Discover How To Save Your Marriage On Your Own

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  1. Discover How To Save Your Marriage On Your Own

  2. How To Save Your Marriage ... All marital relationships go through a tough stretch-- this is common for all couples. But if it seems that your problems are too serious, there is still a way to save your marriage even if your partner has practically closed down on you!There comes a time in some marriages where one of the partners has refused to work on the marriage, or has been too consumed in negative thoughts. However, you can employ some specific measures to get your partner back involved again to prevent you from heading towards divorce:

  3. #1: Get To Heart Of The Matter.In this particular instance, you'll be dealing with your marital issues by yourself so the first step in fixing your marriage is tracking down the root causes of your problems. Try to figure out what is it that you often fight about and identify the common themes running through your arguments.

  4. Are you really fighting about using the credit card for non-emergency purchases only, or are you clashing over your values related to money in general? Oftentimes, there is something much deeper to your arguments than what you see externally.Couples fight about the differences between the principles and values they developed over a lifetime of growing up. The most serious arguments in a marriage always go back to your individual personalities and the factors that shaped them, such as your childhood experiences and past relationships.

  5. #2: Making The First Move.Once again, if your spouse is uncooperative at this point, the next step is to consider what YOU can do to deal with your differences linking with your deep-seated personality conflicts. Ideally of course, you're supposed to reciprocate when it involves conflict resolution, but you can still kick-start a more positive atmosphere in your marriage by taking the initiative to be a role model.

  6. Learn how to attack your problems and NOT your spouse during an argument. When you're riled up, it's extremely tempting to put down your partner and blame everything on their actions.However, you can take the higher road by rallying your partner into working on the issues you're fighting about. This approach is better than attributing it to a perceived personality flaw they have.

  7. Key phrases like, "I get what you're telling me, but help me understand why... " or "I'm really upset when you... " are valuable ways to focus the discussion on what you can do to resolve the issue. This a far better alternative to making allegations or firing off nasty words to "win" the argument.

  8. Making this simple change in handling conflicts will build neutral territory and help you compromise with one another.If there's one thing you should remember while trying to save your marriage, it's that you will undoubtedly turn out to be as a wiser and stronger person regardless of the outcome. Your efforts will reward you in many ways (such as personal growth) so you stand to achieve more by trying than to be passive about your marriage.

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