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CYBER EDUCATION. What Every Parent Should Know AND Do By: Jay A. Hebert, Esq. 4 AREA’S - OVERVIEW. I. Texting II. Social Networking - FaceBook -MySpace III. Internet -Ours vs. Theirs -Chat Rooms -Gaming IV. Cyber Bullying -What is it? -Legal.
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CYBER EDUCATION What Every Parent Should Know AND Do By: Jay A. Hebert, Esq.
4 AREA’S - OVERVIEW • I. Texting • II. Social Networking -FaceBook -MySpace • III. Internet -Ours vs. Theirs -Chat Rooms -Gaming • IV. Cyber Bullying -What is it? -Legal
WHAT TO DO? • Net Savvy • Forever • Realist • Trust But Verify • List of Things to Do • What is your Child Texting and Receiving???
EXAMPLE * $
ANSWER Star Bucks
EXAMPLE 420
ANSWER Smoke Pot
I. TEXTING • (NY Times-Source) -As of 6-2010 75 Billion Text -67% Admit to Driving and Texting -Rampant Cheating on Test -Ave Teen 2800 Text per Month =93 Text Per Day 7 Days a Week -Some Exceed 10,000 per month =333 Text Per Day -Sexting =Child Porn
EXAMPLE 8
ANSWER ORAL SEX
EXAMPLE 9
ANSWER Parents are Watching
EXAMPLE 99
ANSWER Parents are NO Longer Watching
EXAMPLE • 459 • 53X • 4Q • KPC • CU46 • DOC • FWB • COBRAS • EOL • ITS • IANAL
ANSWER • 459 =I LOVE YOU • 53X =SEX • 4Q =FU • KPC =KEEP PARENTS CLUELESS • CU46 =SEE YOU FOR SEX • DOC =DRUG OF CHOICE • FWB =FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS • COBRAS =COME ON BY RIGHT AFTER SCHOOL • EOL =END OF LIFE • ITS =INTENSE TEXT SEX • IANAL =I AM NOT A LAWYER NETLINGO.COM
II. SOCIAL NETWORK • FaceBook • MySpace • Privacy Settings • 4-6 time’s a Year re-set • Default • 40% Profiles are Fake • Friend Request (s) • Dangers • Info that Is being Shared • How Big of Network do you Need? • Colleges and Universities
III. INTERNET CHAT ROOMS:– Most Dangerous • Never EVER meet online • 1 in 5 Solicited for Sex DANGERS: • Sexual Predators • Inappropriate Subject • Limited Social Growth • Inactive Life Style EXAMPLE: -19 yr. old Peter Cartwright (Self proclaimed Hottie) meets 17yr. Old Ashley Hall RAPED and murdered. PREDATORS: • Kids are Trusting • Smart and Patient • Work Together
CYBER BULLYING • What is it? -Pretend to Be Someone -Spread Lies & Rumors -Trick People into info -Send / Forward Mean Text -Post Pictures -Proxy Attack (Group Join In)
CYBER BULLYING • What to Do? -Zero Tolerance , Don’t Pass it on -Tell other to Stop -Report to an Adult -Talk, Talk, Talk, – Teachers -Don’t send a Response -Print a copy of it -Notify an Adult (School, Law Enforcement, Parents) -Avoid contact & try to have a friend around -Don’t “CRY WOLF” show Parent /Adult
CYBER EDUCATION MOST IMPORTANT TALK , TALK , TALK LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN • What to Do: -Create Ground Rules -Give Them Expectations -Lead by Example - Don’t text and Drive -Become net Savvy Lingo -Check the Phone -Times (Driving, Late, School) -Photo’s & Video’s (Some have 2 phones why not let you see!!!) -Keep Private info Private -Names, Address, DOB, SS# , (ID Theft) -Think twice about Photos’ -Your Friends – Make you Vulnerable -Zero Chat Rooms -It’s a CELL phone WORLD -Check with phone carrier for FILTERS -Be Careful about DOWNLOADS -Never Share PASSWORDS -Ethics