Stress and Health Management

1. Stress and Health Management

2. Your diet and health practices directly affect: Your stress level Your ability to learn and concentrate Your energy level Even your self-esteem

3. Get Enough Sleep • Cramming until late at night won’t help you. It creates anxiety and a fight or flight response in the body. Higher brain thinking is inhibited! • Go to bed at the same time each night as much as possible. • The sleep/wake cycle likes routine to function properly.

4. Have Faith in Yourself • If you have prepared correctly you will do well. • Dwell on your strengths. Even make a list. • If you find yourself thinking about yourself in a negative way, gently stop. • Practice these two activities all the time.

5. Eat a Balanced Diet • Eat balanced meals, especially before testing. • Don’t eat a lot of sugar right before a test. • Don’t overeat. You may get sleepy or get indigestion. • Don’t skip a meal before a test. Your blood sugar will crash. • You are what you eat. You need vitamins and minerals, protein and carbs., good fats. Whole foods and grains are very important..

6. Drink Lots of Water! • People forget about water. We are 90% water. The brain is 80% water. • Hydration means increased blood volume which means more blood to your body and brain. • That means more oxygen and nutrients to your cells. • You will think better and feel better too.

7. Exercise Daily • This will relieve stress and stress-eating. • Bring blood to the brain and body. • Make endorphins, which feel GOOD! • Result in less aches, pains, and stiffness. • Experience fewer negative emotions.

8. Avoid Smoking Cigarettes • Cigarettes and related substances actually cause all the blood vessels in your body to contract so that much less blood flows to the brain, heart, and other organs for 4-6 hours. • This inhibits learning and is generally very bad for your health.

9. Studies have shown that even after 20 years of not smoking, those who smoked in their younger years are still at high risk for lung and other cancers.

11. Dopamine – The Happy Chemical • Calms and nurtures, feels good! • From comfort food, drugs, alcohol or… • Hard work and accomplishment, being proud, anticipation, giving and receiving love, hoping, and dreaming. • But overdoing anything that makes you feel GOOD ends up making you feel BAD. • So STAY BALANCED AND • DON’T OVERDO

12. Self Esteem Boosters • You are unique. • You have strengths. • You are in control. • You are getting an amazing education. • You have talents. • You can change others. • You are powerful and you want to be. • You are a leader, not just a follower. • You can relax and work hard at the same time.

13. Have Faith in Your Growing Abilities Remember it is 1% inspiration And 99% perspiration.

14. When you are having difficulty, feeling like you can’t do it, just take a moment and think about all the things you have accomplished in the past, things you thought you could never do. Remember you learned, you grew, you worked hard, and you did it!

15. Appreciate Your Uniqueness You do not need to compare yourself to anyone. You can perform tasks differently and still accomplish all your goals. This makes the world a better place of progress.

16. Create your own goals. • Strive for what YOU find valuable. • Don’t worry about what others may think. • Then you won’t be afraid to listen to other’s wisdom too.

17. Be patient with yourself and others. Change takes time. Change takes practice.

18. Reward yourself for a job well done even if you didn’t get that “A”. Reward yourself if you have made a big effort. Have you improved?

19. NEVER punish yourself for not reaching your goal. Do examine mistakes. Do create a plan to change those mistakes. Stay positive. Be compassionate with yourself. Change what is not working. Keep up the effort. Leave time for some fun.

20. Perfection is only found in- Well, actually it’s not. Work hard, But have realistic goals. Don’t set yourself up for failure.

21. Don’t be a victim of old programming. Stop the “I should.” Stop the “I must.” Create your own change. Take control! Its your life. Don’t assume you are not empowered.

22. Be Organized • We stress out when there is chaos around us. • So learn to organize your life. • Have a clean environment. • Take time to put things in order.

23. Organization. It is the basis for a balanced life.

24. Mental

25. Physical Produces endorphins, the happy chemical Relieves stress chemistry Increases alertness, decreases fatigue Brings blood to the brain and everywhere

26. Social Increases serotonin and dopamine in brain Gives one pride and incentive Humans cannot live without relationships. We go nuts without them.

27. What is the greatest predictor of wellbeing? Having one person (or more) Who loves you unconditionally And whom you love unconditionally.

28. Social Support and Health Significant others Family/friends Pets Plants you care for

29. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Everyone needs help. • Interdependence is vital to academic and life success. • Civilizations are built on interdependence • and would collapse without it. • This is not a sign of weakness. • It is a sign of intelligence and maturity. • It shows good problem-solving abilities.

30. Stress Busting Exercise: Do This Now • Write a list of your immediate stressors or those things you are afraid will cause you stress in the future. • For each stressor, list at least one way you can manage or avoid the stressor. Be practical. • Share your answers briefly.

31. Spiritual Spirituality is connection to What Is greater than oneself. That can be God, Spirit, Oneness, Energy, or anything that is a supportive presence in one’s life.

32. You will learn much better if the mind, body, and spirit are fed and acknowledged.

33. Explore the Core of who you are, prior to the arising of thoughts and feelings. This is your Spiritual Core, untouchable by external or even internal storms.

34. Find that Core through: -Relaxation and meditation exercises, -Yoga and stretching, -Deep breathing, -Chi Gong.

35. Relaxation and Stress Reduction Techniques

36. Or you can do these STRESS-REDUCTION EXERCISES Listed below are five stress-management exercises that can be done in just a few minutes each day. Nearly every stress-reducing activity has immediate benefits. But you will have much greater benefits if you start an activity and stick with it.

37. Basic This forms the basis for other relaxation procedures such as mediation. To accomplish this technique: • Reduce distractions, noise, and interruptions as much as possible before you begin. • Sit comfortably, loosen any tight clothing, kick off your shoes, relax, and begin to breathe deeply. • Mentally focus on one peaceful word, thought, or image. If other thoughts enter your mind, don’t be discouraged—relax, breathe deeply, and try again. • Stretch and exhale as you complete the exercise. With practice, clearing your mind can help you feel refreshed, have more energy, and be ready to meet the next challenge. • Practice 10-15 minutes each day.

38. Visualization Unlike the exercise on clearing your mind, where you try to focus on one single image, visualization allows your imagination to run free. Try to visualize yourself warm, calm, and relaxed. Picture a setting that has particular appeal to you. Try to imagine all of the details. Are you lying on a warm beach? How does the sun feel on your back? Do you hear waves lapping on the sand? Just use your imagination. You can give yourself a mental vacation whenever and wherever you feel the need to relax.

39. Autogenics • If you have heard of the expression “mind over matter,” then you have a basic idea of what autogenics training is all about. • Begin by sitting comfortably. Loosen any tight clothing, close your eyes, and try to empty your mind of all thoughts. You may want to breathe deeply for a few minutes and repeat a peaceful suggestion such as “I feel quiet,” “My mind is at rest,” or something similar. • Concentrate on a suggestion such as “My left arm feels heavy and warm.” As you think of this “command,” try to actually feel your arm getting heavier and warmer. Then repeat the same command, focusing on your right arm, left leg, right leg, etc. • Breathe deeply and stretch as you finish the exercise and notice how you feel. As you become better, this will help your body relax―anywhere, and at any time. Try to practice this exercise for about 10 minutes each day, or whenever you feel stressed.

40. Progressive Muscle Relaxation • Tighten your hand muscle and make a fist; then notice how it feels. Your muscles are taut and strained and your hand may even be trembling slightly. You may feel tension in your hand, wrist, and lower arm. Hold this tension for a few seconds before relaxing. • Release your hand, relax your fist, and let the tension slip away. You may notice your hand feels lighter than it did while your muscle was tensed and that your wrist and forearm are also relieved of pressure. • It is most helpful to try this exercise on each of the major muscle groups of the body. The basic technique remains the same for each group: tighten the muscle, release the tension, and notice the difference. • You can start with your hands and then progress to the other muscles, or you can begin the exercise moving from head to toe, tightening and relaxing the muscles in your face, shoulders, arms, hands, chest, back, stomach, legs, and feet.

41. RELAXATION EXERCISES FOR IMPROVED SLEEP Many relaxation techniques can be used to help you fall asleep and to get a more restful sleep. Try the following exercises and determine which one works best for you. If neither of the exercises seem to work well in the beginning, practice the one you like best on a daily basis for a couple of weeks before you give up!

42. Exercise 1: Body Search for Sensations • Assume your desired sleeping position. Focus on the exhalation phase of each breath, and relax as you exhale. • For two or three exhalations, focus on your supporting environment (usually your bed) and allow that environment to support your total body as you continue to exhale, and r-e-l-a-x. • Following these exhalations, allow your attention to wander through your body. There is no set sequence, nor should you be in a hurry. As you "move" through the body, identify any sensations that you may feel (heaviness, warmth, coolness, heartbeat, twitching, pressure, gurgling in the stomach or intestines, tension, stillness, etc.). • Upon identifying a sensation, mentally acknowledge the sensation in your mind and continue to wander through the body and passively search for others. You will notice that the number of sensations diminishes after a few minutes. As the mind continues to focus inward on the body, it will become quiet and sleep will result. .

43. Exercise 2: Counting Teamed with Breathing Rhythm • Assume your desired sleeping position. Focus on the exhalation phase of each breath, and relax as you exhale. • For two or three exhalations, focus on your supporting environment (usually your bed) and allow that environment to support your total body as you continue to exhale, and r-e-l-a-x. • As you continue to focus on the exhalation phase of every breath, count in sequence from one to ten and then back from ten to one. Count one number per exhalation and repeat this sequence until you fall asleep. • Variation: Count backwards from ninety-nine, counting each number with an exhalation until you fall asleep.

44. MEDITATION TECHNIQUES Basically, meditation consists of controlling the incredible constant flux of ideas and stimuli that rush through your brain at any given moment. These techniques are all based on focusing on one stimuli (such as breathing) to the exclusion of all others. Although meditation can be used in a search for "oneness with the universe," the simple techniques described here are designed to produce physiological stress reduction in the human body. Experienced mystics try to focus on nothing, something that most of us can do for about two seconds (at least before thinking about the fact that we are thinking of nothing―try it!).

45. Loving Kindness Meditation • Stand (or sit) comfortably • Basic deep breathing • Repeat 3 mantras • -May I be free • -May I find peace • -May I have grace and courage • Repeat this slowly several times. • Then think of someone you love and say • -May you be free • -May you find peace • -May you find grace and courage • Repeat this slowly several times. • Then think of someone with whom you have a difficult time and repeat until something changes in your feeling • -May you be free • -May you find peace • -May you find grace and courage

46. Relaxation: Clearing Your Mind • For beginners, probably the most effective techniques utilize controlled breathing as the center of focus. • Find a quiet, comfortable place. Try the bed. • Take long, slow breaths, listening to the sound of the air coming in and out. During the inhalation phase, first, pull your abdomen out; next, expand your chest.

47. Clearing Your Mind cont. • Try to think of nothing but the act of breathing. When your mind wanders―and it will―gently and without recrimination, return to focusing on the breath. You will be amazed by how much your mind resists being tamed from its usual habit of rapid wandering. • As a useful adjunct, try progressive muscle relaxation. This is a good way to learn to recognize tight muscles. • Along with each inhalation, tighten one part of your body as much as you can. • Along with each exhalation, relax that part of the body. Feel that part of the body as dead weight, sinking into the bed. • Start with your toes and feet, then your legs, then trunk, then hands, then arms, then neck, and finally, face. • If you wish, you can skip the individualized muscle relaxation phase and just imagine relaxation of each muscle group.

48. Clearing Your Mind cont. • After relaxing the entire body as above, do it again. • Next, take five deep breaths, each time imagining yourself sinking further into the bed. • Finally, try just laying there, thinking about nothing. Nearly impossible, but try your best. • This should all take about 5-10 minutes. Ideally, practice once or twice a day. Set a routine time, and commit to it. • Remember this feeling of relaxation. Later during the busy day, when you feel stressed or feel your muscles tightening, just take 10 deep breaths (count backwards from 10 to 1 with each exhalation). With practice, your body will return to the same state in 10 breaths as you achieved during a full meditation.

49. What Have You Discovered?