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1. TransformationalLeadership FSH Consulting Group Cincinnati, OH

2. Romans 12:1-2 Give your bodies to God. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice-the kind he will accept. Let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Thoughts cause… Feelings cause… Actions or behaviors! 2

3. We only have one enemy, and it is not each other. • God wants us to come together in unity in Jesus, not uniformity of theology. • A Christian leader is someone who lays down their life for those they lead (or influence). • Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future. Because of this, we must learn to forgive each other, accept God's forgiveness and forgive ourselves. • Love God – love each other.

4. Why are we not seeing transformation?? Is There a missing link? I have a theory….

5. “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ ” • Mark 12:30, 31

6. The Road to “righteousness” is paved with good intentions and lots of temptation Baboom Travel with that someone Act on that fantasy alone Fantasize about someone at work More rejection/emotional separation More emotional or physical disconnect Take care of kids on weekends More travel for work More feelings of rejection Travel for business Disconnect; emotional or physical Some feelings of rejection Married: Never get divorced, no adultery Never Land

7. The Road to “righteousness” is paved with good intentions and lots of temptation IDEAL SELF Baboom Travel with that someone Act on that fantasy alone Fantasize about someone at work More rejection/emotional separation More emotional or physical disconnect Take care of kids on weekends REAL SELF More travel for work More feelings of rejection Travel for business Disconnect; emotional or physical Some feelings of rejection Married: Never get divorced, no adultery Never Land

8. The distance between “ideal self” and “real self” is directly linked to amount of stress a person feels.

9. Serotonin Adrenalin/Cortisol Gas Tank Analogy Anxiety Depression Suicide

10. How This Plays out… Person becomes controlling and manipulative They talk in half truths or convoluted communication Discredits anyone who sees the situation as it is and sets out to destroy them Person withdraws from life; spiritual death or suicide

11. Friends who love you that you choose to be • in a relationship with. You can share your sins, fears, • hurts, thoughts with them. • Two things required: • They love you enough to tell you when you are getting off track or BUMP you back on track. • You trust them enough to tell them when your heart is wandering and allow them to BUMP you. • The more BUMPER PEOPLE you have, • the more likely you are to have • freedom from living a secret life or sin and shame.

12. James 5:16 explains this concept: Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. NIV Confess to one another therefore your faults (your slips, your false steps, your offenses, your sins) and pray [also] for one another, that you may be healed and restored [to a spiritual tone of mind and heart]. The Amplified Bible

13. What stops us from getting bumper people? HIPPOCAMPUS No trust until given a reason to. Trust until given a reason not to. TRUST CONTINUUM Complete trust No Trust

14. The Road to “righteousness” is paved with good intentions and lots of temptation Travel with that someone Act on that fantasy alone Fantasize about that someone More rejection/emotional separation More emotional or physical disconnect Take care of kids on weekends More travel for work More feelings of rejection Travel for business Disconnect; emotional or physical Some feelings of rejection Married: Never get divorced, no adultery Never Land

15. What you cover, God uncovers. What you uncover (confess), God covers! (He forgives you!)

16. Familiar Verses…Matthew 18:12-20 If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off. In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost.   If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.‘

17. Familiar Verses…Matthew 18:12-20 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector. I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will bebound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will beloosed in heaven.“ Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.”

18. Dependent Events 2 Chronicles 7:14 IF my people, who are called by my name IF they will humble themselves IF they will pray IF they will seek my face IF they will repent and turn from their wicked ways…

19. Dependent Events 2 Chronicles 7:14 THEN I will hear from heaven THEN I will forgive their sin THEN I will heal their land

20. PRAY LIKE THIS "Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be your name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.”

21. Dependent events again. If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. OUCH!!

22. V-STTEELE and lead!

23. V-STTEELE V-Vision S-Serve T-Teach T-Train E-Equip E-Empower L-Let Go! E-Evaluate and LEAD!

25. Sanctity and Dignity of Life Grade School years through young adult Infant years through pre-school Conception in the womb through the birth canal Until natural death Adult

26. ALL transformation starts with personal transformation.

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31. A Kingdom Leader… is patient. is called. chooses to live a lifestyle of prayer and worship. is humble (Humble vs. Proud) . has no selfish ambition....no personal agenda.  is transparent. if you can check yes to these statements….

32. Kingdom leadership is a lifestyle… not a job or a position!

33. We believe that no organization, company, church, family, ministry school, government, sports team, media group or CITY can move beyond the constraints of its leadership!

34. Are we willing to pursue personal transformation in order to see community transformation?

35. “How have you used the gifts I gave to see your business, school, government, church, or community transformed?”

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