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Clergy Ethics. April 17-20, 2013 Illinois Great Rivers Conference Rev. Michelle Foster, presenter. Psalm 119:10-16 from The Message. Putting This Conversation in Context. Bishop Keaton. Boundaries. Boundary Violation – any violation of sacred trust
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Clergy Ethics April 17-20, 2013 Illinois Great Rivers Conference Rev. Michelle Foster, presenter
Psalm 119:10-16 fromThe Message
Putting This Conversation in Context Bishop Keaton
Boundary Violation – any violation of sacred trust “…It is not wrong because it violates norms. It is wrong because it violates people.”
Boundary Violations Sexual Misconduct
Boundary Violations Sexual Harassment Sexual Misconduct
Boundary Violations Sexual Harassment Sexual Misconduct
Boundary Violations Sexualized Behavior
VideoPower and Vulnerability Power and Vulnerability
VideoPower and Vulnerability Dating and Friendships
Dating & Friendships Transference
The Boundary Formula VP BD = Boundary Drift BC = Boundary Crossing T = Transgressions BD BV = Boundary Violation BC T BV BV
VideoPower and Vulnerability The Growth of Social Media
In what ways do you use media in your ministry setting? Ministry & Media
The Boundary Formula VP BD = Boundary Drift BC = Boundary Crossing T = Transgressions BD BV = Boundary Violation BC T BV BV
Perception Privacy Personal Feedback
The Pastor, The Internet, AND Pornography/Obscenity
Pornography – sexually explicit material that portrays violence, abuse, coercion, domination, humiliation or degradation for the purpose of arousal Obscenity – “hard core porn” pornographic material that is beyond what majority of society will tolerate Pornography/ Obscenity:What’s the Difference?
Deterioration of relationships • Detrimental to emotional well being • Harmful to social demeanor • Adverse understanding of healthy sexual relationships NOT JUST A MAN’S ISSUE! What’s the Problem w/ Porn?
What are your personal markers to alert you when your energy and spirit are low? What needs do you have right now? What needs are not being met? PERSONAL REFLECTION
“Shadow Self” by Carl Jung
Conflict Danger + Opportunity
M – meditation E – exercise D – diet S – sleep S - support Self-Care
CounselingPastoral Care Visits Dual RelationshipsTechnologySelf-Care Self- Care Guidelines
If someone is drowning, secure yourself before you swim out to save them. Otherwise both of you will drown.
Rev. Michelle Foster mfoster@wnccumc.net 336-442-3844 Workshop Leader Contact Information