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Family. Life Span Chapter 3. FAMILY. Why is family so important to health? Or is it?. Nurses must remember!. Patients are part of a family. What is a family?. “Two or more people who have chosen to live together and share their interests, roles and resources.”.
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Family Life Span Chapter 3
FAMILY • Why is family so important to health? • Or is it?
Nurses must remember! • Patients are part of a family
What is a family? • “Two or more people who have chosen to live together and share their interests, roles and resources.”
What is the Goal of Family? • “Survival and physical fulfillment of each member”
Family Function • What is the “job” of a family? • Physical • Protection • Nurturance • Social & education • Reproduction • Recreation
1. Physical Maintenance FOOD CLOTHING WATER SHELTER
1. Physical Maintenance $ • i SOCIAL-ECONOMICAL STATUS • HEALTH DISPARITY FOOD CLOTHING WATER SHELTER
2. Protection Internal External Injury • Illness
3. Nurturance • “The provision of love, care and attention to each family member”
How to provide nurturance • Touch • Sound • Food • Discipline • Limits • Nurture & care
5 Love languages • Words • Service • Gifts • Time • Touch • http://www.5lovelanguages.com/
Murray’s Psychogenic needs • Ambition • Achievement • Exhibition • Recognition
Murray’s Psychogenic needs • Ambition • Materialist • Acquisition • Construction • Order • Retention
Murray’s Psychogenic needs • Ambition • Materialist • Power • Abasement • Autonomy • Aggression • Blame avoidance • Difference • Dominance
Murray’s Psychogenic needs • Ambition • Materialist • Power • Affection • Affiliation • Nurturance • Play • Rejection • Succorance
Murray’s Psychogenic needs • Ambition • Materialist • Power • Affection • Information • Cognizance • Exploration
Nurturance • Death • Divorce
3. Nurturance • Discipline • Setting limits • DO YOU BUY IT? • “without discipline a child feels unprotected and unloved”
3. Nurturance • Discipline
Discipline – Age appropriate • Age: 0-2 yrs • Eliminate temptation • Supervise • Redirect • “NO” • Time outs
Discipline – Age appropriate • Age: 3-5 yrs • Connect action with consequence • Time outs • Model • Reward good behavior
Discipline – Age appropriate • Age: 6-8 yrs • Relate action with consequence • Time out • Offer choices
Discipline – Age appropriate • Age: 9-12 yrs • Emphasize consequences • Humor • Role reversal
Discipline – Age appropriate • Age: 13 and older • Clear rules
4a. Socialization • Family #1 socializing agent
4b. Education • Begins at home
Family Types • Nuclear/conjugal • Extended • Single-parent • Blended • Cohabitative • Communal • Foster / adoptive • Lesbian / gay
By Marianne Takas/January 30, 2013 • Statistically, the biggest predictor of family economic status is not race or geography, but whether households are headed by one parent or two. That’s why a family headed by a single white mother is nearly three times more likely to be poor than a family headed by married black parents. In fact, among all children living with a single mom, well more than a third live in poverty.
Stages Retirement/Old age Middle-age Parenting Couple
Couple Stage • Establish bonds • Adjust • Define roles
Parental Years • Children • Kids financially on own • 3 parts • Expanding years • Developing years • Launching years • Integrate baby • Adjust • Est. philosophy
Expanding Years • New members • Focus on home • Feel tied down • i parent interaction
Developing • School • Activities focus outside the home • Limited time • Share and manage duties
Launching • Kids exit • 50% of young adults live with parents until age of 20 - 24
Middle Years • Empty-nest • Freedom • Purposeless • Down-sized
Middle years • Volunteer • Hobbies • ? Relationship • $ • Elder care
Retirement Years • Time • Health • + / - feelings
Childbearing stage • Integrate baby • Adjust • Est. philosophy
Grown-Child stage • Adjust • Re-establish relationship • Develop new roles
Older-family stage • Adjust • Employment • Income • Health • Maintain relationships • Est. activities
Birth order • http://www.parents.com/parents/quiz.jsp?catref=cat3550006&quizId=/templatedata/ab/quiz/data/BirthOrderQuiz_03052004.xml • Take the birth order quiz! • http://www.blogthings.com/birthorderpredictorquiz/ • This is a birth order predictor
Family Patterns • Authoritarian / autocratic • Parents make all the decisions
Battle hymn of the Tiger mom “This is a story about a mother, two daughters, and two dogs. This was supposed to be a story of how Chinese parents are better at raising kids than Western ones. But instead, it's about a bitter clash of cultures, a fleeting taste of glory, and how I was humbled by a thirteen-year-old.”
Family patterns • Authoritative / democratic • Choices & participation • Mutual respect
Family Patterns • Permissive / laissez-faire • Freedom