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1 Chapter 14 Development Through the Lifespan 2nd edition Laura E. Berk
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2 Chapter 14Emotional and Social Development in Early Adulthood Development Through the Lifespan
2nd edition Berk
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3 Erikson’s Stages
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4 ERIKSON’S THEORY Basic conflict in early adulthood: Intimacy versus Isolation
Permanent commitment to intimate partner
Successful resolution prepares for generativity
Caring for the next generation and improving society
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5 ERIKSON'S THEORY (cont.) Without independence, people
define themselves in terms of their partner.
sacrifice self-respect and initiative.
Without intimacy
Loneliness and self-absorption
A secure sense of intimacy enhances the quality of other close relationships.
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6 Table 14.1Stages of Adult Psychosocial Development
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7 Levinson's Seasons of Life Sequence of distinct eras
Eras begin with a transition.
Lasting about 5 years
Concluding the previous era and preparing for the next
Stable periods between transitions
Build a life structure
Life structure
Underlying pattern of person's life at a given time
Relationships with significant others, groups, or institutions
Structure-building lasts 5 to 7 years.
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8 Levinson's Seasons of Life (cont.) Construction of a dream
Image of the self in adult world that guides decision making
For men, an independent achiever in an occupational role
For career-oriented women, a "split dream" for both marriage and career
Relationship with mentor who fosters advancement in the workplace
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9 Levinson's Seasons of Life (cont.) Age 30 Transition
Revaluation and change of life
Men rarely reverse priority of career and family; career-oriented women sometimes do.
For dissatisfied, this transition can be a crisis.
Settling Down for Men / Continued Instability for Women
Ages 33 to 40: Men anchor more firmly in family, occupation, and community.
Women integrate occupational or relationship commitment.
Not until middle adulthood do many women attain stability.
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10 Vaillant's Adaptation to Life Compatible with Levinson's
Fills gaps between Erikson's stages
Men focused on career in their thirties.
During forties, men became more generative.
In fifties, men became "keepers of meaning," guardians of culture.
Did not study women, but research suggests similar changes
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11 Limitations of Levinson and Vaillant Conclusions were based on people born in the 1920s to 1940s.
Levinson sampled few non-college, low-SES adults (especially women).
Levinson's middle-aged participants might not have remembered accurately.
Studies of new generations with diverse SES and cultural backgrounds are needed.
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12 Social Clock Age-graded expectations for life events.
College women born in 1930s were followed up at 27 and 43.
If they started families, they became more responsible, self-controlled, tolerant, and nurturant but declined in self-esteem and felt more vulnerable as their lives progressed.
If they followed occupations typical of me, they became more dominant, sociable, independent, and intellectual.
Women who neither married nor begun a career by age 30 suffered from self-doubt, feelings of incompetence, and loneliness.
Expectations for adulthood are no longer as definite.
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13 CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS Selecting a Mate
Social learning perspective: Gender roles influence selection.
Select partner who resembles self
Women want intelligence, ambition, financial status, and character.
Men want physical attractiveness.
Women want same-age/slightly older partner.
Men want younger partner.
Parent-child bonds influence selection and quality of relationships.
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14 Components of Love Intimacy: Emotional
Passion: Physical and psychological
Commitment: Cognitive
leads to decision to love and maintain love
Passionate love becomes companionate love.
In study of first year of marriage, spouses gradually felt less in love.
Couples whose relationships endure report they love each other more.
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15 Culture and the Experience of Love
20th century Western nations
Passion and intimacy are basis for marriage.
Eastern cultures
Feelings distributed across social network, reducing intensity of any one relationship.
Chinese and Japanese consider others when choosing a mate.
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16 Friendships Friends enhance self-esteem, provide social support, and make life more interesting.
Same-Sex Friendships
Women have more intimate same-sex friendships.
Female friends prefer to just talk.
Male friends do something.
Friends are preferred companions for young, single adults.
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17 Other-Sex Friendships Occur less often and do not last as long as same-sex friendships
Young adults learn about masculine and feminine styles of intimacy.
Can evolve into romance
May be more stable than relationships that formed without friendship.
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18 Siblings as Friends Often like friendships
Relationships are longest.
In Vaillant's study
Single best predictor of emotional health at age 65 was having close ties with siblings in early adulthood.
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19 Loneliness Results from gap between relationships we have and those we desire
Adults feel lonely if they lack an intimate partner or friends.
Loneliness peaks in late teens and early twenties and declines steadily into the seventies.
Persistent loneliness is associated with self-defeating attitudes and behaviors.
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20 THE FAMILY LIFE CYCLE Sequence of phases that characterizes development of most families
In early adulthood, people typically live on their own, marry, and rear children.
In middle age, children leave home and parental responsibilities lessen.
Late adulthood brings retirement, aging, and death of one's spouse.
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21 Leaving Home Departure for education tends to be at a younger age.
For full-time work and marriage at later ages
Half of young adults return home for a brief time.
Departure from home is linked to more satisfying parent-child interaction and successful transition to adult roles.
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22 Joining of Families in Marriage Nearly 90 percent of Americans marry at least once in their lives.
Increasing numbers remain single, cohabit, or do not remarry after divorce.
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23 Marital Roles If ethnic and religious backgrounds are different, extra challenges exist in married life.
Traditional marriage
Clear division of husband's and wife's roles
Man head of household and economic provider. The woman devotes herself to creating a nurturant, comfortable home.
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24 Marital Roles In egalitarian marriage, husband and wife share power and authority. Both partners try to balance the time and energy they devote to the workplace, the children, and their relationship. In reality, wives do the bulk of the housework.
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25 Marital Satisfaction Contributing factors
Marrying later
Postponing having children until careers are underway
Building a sense of togetherness that allows each partner to thrive as an individual
Patience, caring, shared values, enjoyment of each other's company, and good conflict resolution skills
More men report being happily married.
For women, relationship quality has a greater impact on mental health.
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26 Marital Expectations and Myths Happy couples reshape relationship to new circumstances and partner's changing needs.
Many young people have a mythical image of marital bliss.
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27 Parenthood Being childless more accepted
Decision to have children
Women with a traditional gender-role are more likely to have children.
Reasons
Desire for warm, affectionate relationship and the stimulation and fun that children provide
Disadvantages
Loss of freedom and financial strain
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28 Table 14.3Advantages and Disadvantages of Parenthood
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29 Transition to Parenthood Mild decline in marital happiness
Gender roles become more traditional.
Men who are nurturant show less decline in marital satisfaction after the birth of the baby.
Special interventions such as couples' groups ease transition.
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30 Parenthood Non-Western cultures
Children less likely to threaten marital satisfaction
Western industrialized nations
Trend toward gender equality and isolation of the nuclear family unit leads marital and parenting roles to be closely linked
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31 Additional Births Family size decline
Birth control
Career orientation of many women
More divorce
Research indicates adults and children benefit from small family size.
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32 Families with Young Children Quality of marital relationship influences child rearing.
Employed parents struggle to find good child care.
Rearing young children expands parents' emotional capacities and enriches.
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33 Families with Adolescents Must blend guidance with freedom and gradually relinquish control.
Flexibility key to family success
More in family therapy during this phase than any other
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34 Parent Education Adults seek information on child rearing through popular books.
Special courses designed to help parents understand
child development,
child-rearing values,
family communication, and
effective parenting strategies.
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35 Singlehood Individuals not living with an intimate partner
Men in blue-collar occupations and women in demanding, prestigious careers overrepresented after age 30
Advantages
Freedom and mobility
Disadvantages
Loneliness, limited sexual and social life, reduced sense of security, and exclusion from the world of married couples
Many stressed in late twenties
Mid-thirties is trying for single women, due to deadline for bearing children.
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36 Cohabitation The lifestyle of unmarried couples who have an intimate, sexual relationship and share a residence
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37 Cohabitation
Sometimes preparation for marriage
Alternative to marriage
Offers sexual intimacy and companionship along with possibility of easy departure
Couples who live together before marriage are more prone to divorce.
Fights over property, money, and responsibility for children are common when unmarried couples split up.
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38 Childlessness Childlessness can be involuntary or voluntary.
Voluntarily childless adults are usually college educated, with prestigious jobs, and committed to work.
Voluntarily childless adults are content with their lives.
Infertile couples and parents whose children have serious psychological or physical problems are likely to be dissatisfied and depressed.
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39 Divorce and Remarriage 50% divorce rate in U.S.
Many divorces when children still at home
61% of divorced men and 54% of divorced women remarry.
High divorce rate during first few years of second marriages
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40 Divorce Factors Disrupted relationship
Other factors
Young age at marriage
Not religious
Previously divorced
Parents were divorced
Poverty
Changing status of women
Within 2 years after separation, many are depressed and anxious and display impulsive behavior.
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41 Remarriage Remarriages break up because
Practicality rather than love influences the decision to remarry.
People transfer negative interaction and problem solving learned in first marriage.
More likely to view divorce as acceptable
Experience stress from stepfamily situations
It takes 3 to 5 years for blended families to develop connectedness of biological families.
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42 Remarried Parents The stepparent is an outsider.
Stepmothers are likely to experience conflict and poor adjustment.
Stepfathers without biological children may have unrealistic expectations and withdraw from parenting.
For good stepparent adjustment
Caring husband-wife relationship
Cooperation of absent biological parent
Willingness of children to accept new spouse
The divorce rate is higher for couples with stepchildren
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43 Never-Married Parents Never-married parenthood among low-SES women is costly, since living in a female-headed household makes it harder to overcome poverty.
High among African-American young women
Births to high-status unmarried women increased, but is still rare.
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44 Gay and Lesbian Parents The children are as well adjusted as children of heterosexual parents, and a large majority of children are heterosexual.
Homosexual parents build families of choice when extended family members have difficulty accepting them.
The greatest concern of gay parents is that their children will be stigmatized.
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45 VOCATIONAL DEVELOPMENT For men, it is typically continuous, from completion of formal education to retirement.
Many women experience discontinuous career paths.
Interrupted or deferred by child bearing and rearing
Self-efficacy
Belief in one’s own ability to be successful
Affects career choice and development
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46 Women and Ethnic Minorities Remain concentrated in occupations with little advancement
For every dollar earned by a man, the average woman earns 76 cents.
Women are unavailable as mentors to other women.
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47 Work and Family Dual-earner marriages predominate.
Role conflict is common for women.
College-educated have higher standards of living and more self-fulfillment for the wife.