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Test Time

Test Time. Take out pen and paper Number your paper from 1 to 24 Select one relationship to analyze Past or Present Be honest---these will NOT be collected!. Love It!!. 1) My lover and I have the perfect physical chemistry between us

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Test Time

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  1. Test Time • Take out pen and paper • Number your paper from 1 to 24 • Select one relationship to analyze • Past or Present • Be honest---these will NOT be collected! Love It!!

  2. 1) My lover and I have the perfect physical chemistry between us • 2) I feel that my lover and I were truly meant for each other (fate) • 3) My lover and I really understand each other (soul mates) • 4) My lover fits my ideal standards of physical beauty (my idea of a “10”) • 5) I try to keep my lover a little uncertain about my commitment to him/her • 6) I believe that what my lover doesn’t know about me won’t hurt him/her (I keep secrets) Love??

  3. 7) It is important that our relationship is fun and exciting • 8) When my lover gets too dependent on me, I want him/her to back off • 9) To be genuine, love must develop over time (not an over-night thing) • 10) I expect to always be friends with my lover • 11) Our love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious, mystical emotion • 12) Our love is the most satisfying because it developed from, and is based on, a deep caring relationship My new favorite

  4. 13) In choosing my lover, I believed it was best to love someone with a similar background • 14) A main consideration in choosing my lover was whether my family would approve • 15) An important factor in choosing a partner is whether or not he/she would be a good parent • 16) One consideration in choosing my lover was what career he/she selected • 17) When things aren’t right with my lover and me, my stomach gets upset • 18) Sometimes I get so excited about being in love with my lover that I can’t sleep I Don’t Get It?

  5. 19) When my lover doesn’t pay attention to me, I feel sick all over (emotionally, physically, etc.) • 20) I cannot relax if I suspect that my lover is with someone else • 21) I try to always help my lover through difficult times • 22) I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer • 23) When my lover gets angry with me, I still love him/her fully and unconditionally • 24) I would endure all things for the sake of my lover Gotta Love the 80s

  6. Calculating the Results: • Statements • 1-4 are Eros • 5-8 are Ludus • 9-12 are Storge • 13-16 are Pragma • 17-20 are Manic • 21-24 are Agapic • Highlight your high and low brackets • 3 to 4 “Trues or Falses” are Markers Not All Love Is Healthy Love

  7. Now What? • 1) What do these findings tell you about yourself? • Illuminate Mistakes? • Illuminate Successes? • Do you wish you could make different decisions about love? • 2) Do it again with another “love” in mind • See how they differ • 3) Have your boy/girlfriend take the test with you I’m Embarrassed

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