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Helping Children have Fun and Keep Safe Online

Learn how children spend time online and how to support them in a safe online environment. Discover strategies, insights, and conversation starters to help regulate children's online activities and promote digital literacy.

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Helping Children have Fun and Keep Safe Online

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  1. Helping Children have Fun and Keep Safe Online LornaNaylor Anti-bullying Coordinator TETC November 2017

  2. What are they doing? Being Creative Making videos Changing/editing photos Making an avatar in a game Drawing and making pictures Making a Blog Making a music video Making an animation

  3. What are our children doing online? 3-4 year olds 1% have their own smartphone 21% have their own tablet 96% watch TV on a TV set for 15 hours a week 40% play games 6hrs a week 53% go online for nearly 8 hours a week 48% use Youtube,52% like cartoons,15% like unboxing videos 0% have a social media profile

  4. 5-7 year olds • 5% have their own smart phone • 35% have their own tablets • 95% watch TV on TV sets for 13.5 hours a week • 49%on other devices-mostly on a tablet • 66%play games for more than 7.5hours • 79% go online for around 9 hours • 63% use a tablet to go on line • 71% use Youtube -30% like cartoons best, 18%like funny videos and pranks • 3% have a social media profile

  5. 8-11 Year Olds • 39% have their own smart phone • 52% have their own tablet • 95% watch TV mainly on a set(14 hours) • 55%on other devices – a tablet • 81% play games(10 hours) • 94% are online around 13.5 hours using a tablet or mobile • 81% use Youtube for funny videos, pranks or music • One in ten are livestreaming, one third are watching live streaming • 23% have SM profile

  6. Gathering Information Do they trust information on line? • 63% of young people trusted or mostly trusted school and homework sites • 49% trusted or mainly trusted news sites and apps • 18% trusted or mainly trusted social media apps. • However 28% trusted Google searches!

  7. Most children watch Youtube using their tablet. They enjoy:- • Funny videos, jokes and pranks • Music • Game tutorials • Vloggers,Youtube personalities • Programmes, videos and cartoons • Trailers • Unboxing videos 4 in 10 prefer Youtube to TV

  8. What do they dislike about their time online? • Adverts • Strangers might find their information • People being unkind • People contacting them pretending to be their age • Seeing embarrassing things and things which make them sad • Pressure to buy things • Spending too much time online • Blocked websites

  9. The Power of Images • 84% have shared images online • 80% have been inspired by images However 22% have been bullied via images 70% have seem images not suitable for their age 45% have seen nude /nearly nude images

  10. Where do they turn to for help? • 90% say a family member • Then a teacher • Then a friend We need to be able to talk to our children about what they are doing online and how to keep safe

  11. How can we support young people? • The majority of parents continue to feel that the benefits of the internet outweigh the risks, with parents of older children more likely to say this • Parents need to be moving towards mediating their children’s online behaviour rather than preventing usage,

  12. Four Approaches to Online Mediation • Regularly talking to children about what they like doing and managing online risks, • Rules about children’s online activities, • Age appropriate supervision when online, • Awareness and use of technical tools.

  13. Young people need to become e-competent, socially aware citizens They need Skills, responsibility and knowledge They need to be able to navigate risky situations Understand advertising Be critical of content The rules for safe sharing Shopping and financial safety advice

  14. Starting with you! • Do you think before you post? • What is your digital footprint? • What is your child’s digital footprint on your social media sites? • What privacy settings do you use? • Do your online and mobile habits set a good example to your children?

  15. Here are some tips for helping your child to regulate their own use • Rather than making inflexible rules, have a conversation. Research shows that children who have very restrictive parents are generally less resilient than their peers. • Create a supportive environment for exploration and learning. Make it clear you support your child seeking out new opportunities. Encourage them to research topics that interest them, use the internet for homework and connect positively with friends and family via social media. • Get involved- Research shows that parental interest and involvement is positively correlated with online resilience.Take a real interest in what they're doing. It is children who feel unconditionally supported (but who have clear boundaries) who feel most secure and tend to be safer.

  16. Conversation starters • Ask your children to tell you about the sites they like to visit and what they enjoy doing online. • Ask them about how they stay safe online. What tips do they have for you, and where did they learn them? What is OK and not OK to share? • Ask them if they know where to go for help, where to find the safety advice, privacy settings and how to report or block on the services they use. • Encourage them to help. Perhaps they can show you how to do something better online or they might have a friend who would benefit from their help and support. • Think about how you use the internet as a family.

  17. Some places to get help • www.vodaphone.com • www.vodafone.com

  18. http://www.o2.co.uk/help/nspcc • O2 have partnered with NSPCC to help parents keep their children safe. • On their hub, you will find articles on everything from online bullying, to the apps young people are using. • They also give tips on how to talk about it with young people including some ideas on ground rules you might want to agree. • If you need more help on anything, you can call their free helpline on 0808 800 5002, or visit an O2 Guru in one of our stores.

  19. Building resilience We can't shield children from all risks online, any more than we can offline. But not all those risks have to turn into harm. So if a child has come to you and needs help: • Talk to them and reassure them that they can always come to you if something upsets or worries them online. • Save the evidence. This may include screen shots taken on a laptop or mobile device, emails, texts or online conversation histories. • Know how to report a problem. Depending on what has happened, it might be necessary to let your child's school know. • Could you do more online together and further enjoy your lives online? -

  20. Parental Controls There are four main places you can find parental controls, and it can help to set up a combination of these: •Internet provider: you can set up filters to help block access to inappropriate content on any device that connects to your home WiFi •Mobile operator: filters are often automatically set up on mobile contracts, but you can double-check with your provider •Devices: many devices have parental control settings, for example, to help restrict spending in apps or disable location functions •Online services: sites like BBC iPlayer and YouTube have parental control settings to help restrict access to inappropriate content

  21. Remember • No parental control is 100 % effective • Be aware also that once parental controls by your internet provider are set up on your WiFi, if your child access 3G or 4G at home, the parental controls can be bypassed. • If your child goes to their friend’s house where there are no parental controls in place, they will be able to access whatever they want. • it's also possible to connect to public WiFi when you're out and about, with shops, cafes and restaurants increasingly offering internet access. Look out for the Friendly WiFi symbol which means the content has been filtered.

  22. How to report • Most services have rules about what kind of content is allowed on the site. Often if something is harassing an individual, pornographic or violent it breaks the rules. You can report this kind of content using the reporting tools on the sites.

  23. You can also report to the police and other bodies that regulate content on the internet: • If you are suspicious about someone's behaviour towards a child report to CEOP www.ceop.police.uk/Ceop-Report • If you see any criminal content you should report to the Internet Watch Foundation www.iwf.org.uk/report • If you see any content that incites hatred you should report to True Vision www.report-it.org.uk/your_police_force • If you want to make a complaint about an advert, television or radio programme, film, newspaper, magazine, video game or other type of content that you think is unsuitable for children to see or hear, you can report it through ParentPort www.parentport.org.uk/ • If you’d like free advice and tips for staying in control of your mobile phone costs, visit the PhoneBrain website www.phonebrain.org.uk, a campaign aimed at young people run by the premium rate phone services regulator PhonepayPlus. • If you have been ‘scammed, ripped off or conned’ you can report to Action Fraud www.actionfraud.police.uk , or on 0300 1232040. This service is run by the National Fraud Authority, the UK’s government agency that helps coordinate the fight against fraud.

  24. Social Media • Almost a quarter of 8-11year olds have a social media profile rising to three quarters by 12 • Fewer use Facebook or if they do it is not their main site. • Snapchat (Snapstreaks) is the most popular • Live streaming is increasing • Many parents report children’s concerns about the need to look popular all the time • Many parents are unaware of minimum age requirements for sites such as Instagram, Snapchat and Whatsapp

  25. How do I keep up with all those Apps? https://www.net-aware.org.uk/

  26. Most popular apps

  27. Parental controls for Apps 4+ Applications in this category contain no objectionable material. 9+ Applications in this category may contain mild or infrequent occurrences of cartoon, fantasy or realistic violence, and infrequent or mild mature, suggestive, or horror-themed content which may not be suitable for children under the age of 9. 12+ Applications in this category may also contain infrequent mild language, frequent or intense cartoon, fantasy or realistic violence, and mild or infrequent mature or suggestive themes, and simulated gambling which may not be suitable for children under the age of 12. 17+You must be at least 17 years old to purchase this application. Applications in this category may also contain frequent and intense offensive language; frequent and intense cartoon, fantasy or realistic violence; and frequent and intense mature, horror, and suggestive themes; plus sexual content, nudity, alcohol, tobacco, and drugs which may not be suitable for children under the age of 17.

  28. Top tips to make sure you know what you’re downloading on your mobile or tablet. • Make sure you check what the app really does, read the reviews and ratings. • Check the age ratings and content descriptions on apps before you download them, to make sure the app is age appropriate. • Make sure you are downloading an app from a reputable site such as Apple's App Store, Google Play and BlackBerry App world • Before you download always check the list of ‘app permissions’ and be sure to check the app settings to control what you share.  

  29. Gaming Gaming Gaming Gaming

  30. Tips for online gaming • Limit the time your children spend playing games. • Find a healthy balance between gaming and other activities such as meeting friends. • Decide if the content of a game is fit for your child by looking at the PEGI symbols. • Set strict rules about making purchases while playing online. • When playing online multiplayer games, make sure your children do not share personal information. • Try out the games yourself and possibly play together with your child. You may find you actually enjoy it!

  31. PEGI (The Pan-European Game Information age rating system) was established in 2003 to help European parents make informed choices Violence - Game contains depictions of violence Discrimination - Game contains depictions of, or material which may encourage, discrimination Sex - Game depicts nudity and/or sexual behaviour or sexual references Drugs - Game refers to or depicts the use of drugs Fear - Game may be frightening or scary for young children Bad Language - Game contains bad language

  32. Some Areas of Concern • Inappropriate content e.g. Pornography • Cyberbullying • Grooming • Sexting • Live streaming

  33. What is Cyberbullying? Threats Manipulation Hacking Exclusion Prejudice Public postings Stalking

  34. Cyberbullying –Demos Survey 2017 • 26 per cent of the 16-18 year olds surveyed say they have ‘bullied or insulted someone else’ online • 15 per cent of the young people surveyed said they had ‘joined in with other people to “troll” a celebrity or public figure’ • Boys are significantly more likely to say they have bullied or insulted someone online than girls (32 per cent compared with 22 per cent) or ‘trolled’ a public figure (22 per cent compared with 10 per cent) • 93 per cent of those who said they had insulted or bullied someone else online, said that they had themselves experienced some form of cyber-bullying or abuse • Conversely, Demos finds that 88 per cent of the teenagers surveyed had given emotional support to someone online • Their analysis finds that young people with stronger traits of empathy and self-control are considerably less likely to engage in cyberbullying.

  35. Cyberbullying Top Tips for Young People 1. Always respect others: 2. Think before you send 3. Keep it private! 4. Block the bully 5. Don’t retaliate or reply! 6. Save the evidence 7. Make sure you tell: Your parent/carer or an adult you trust Your school: your teacher or the anti-bullying coordinator can help you 8. Report it to the social network or app 9. Remember you can visit ChildLine to chat to a counsellor online, or call 0800 1111. Finally, don’t just stand there, if you see cyberbullying going on, support the victim and report the bullying!

  36. Online groomingLucy and the Boy: Be Share Aware https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kwcL-VP3FYcNSPCC

  37. Strangers online • Children do not always think before chatting to strangers online. This can make them vulnerable to bullying, inappropriate friendships and grooming. • Grooming is when someone builds a relationship with a child to gain their trust, with the intention of exploiting that relationship for sexual abuse. It can be easier online because the groomer can hide their age, gender and identity. • Families often fear that their children will meet up with online ‘friends’ and be abused. But children can also be exploited by being persuaded or forced to: have sexual conversations by text or web chat send or post sexually explicit images take part in sexual activities over a webcam or phone.

  38. How to talk to children about grooming • Talk about who they're friends with online, how they choose their friends and what they share. People aren't always who they say they are. • With younger children, you could talk about it like stranger danger. Talk to older children about healthy relationships and encourage them to think about what sites they visit and what they share. • Let your child know that they can talk to you, or another adult they trust, if something is worrying them. • Talk about the privacy settings on their social networking profiles and agree a privacy setting that you're both comfortable with. Remember, the higher the privacy the safer your child is. • Show your child what strangers can see by searching for their name when you're not logged in. • If you have a young child playing online, switch off the social and chat features. • If you're concerned about someone's behaviour towards your child, you can report this to the CEOP or, in an emergency, dial 999.

  39. Sexting The “exchange of sexual messages or images” and “Creating, sharing and forwarding sexually suggestive nude or nearly nude images” through mobile phones and the internet . Sometimes called nudes, dirties, pic for pic

  40. Why do young people do this? There are many reasons why a young person may want to send a naked or semi-naked picture, video or message to someone else. • joining in because they think that ‘everyone is doing it’ • boosting their self-esteem • flirting with others and testing their sexual identity • exploring their sexual feelings • to get attention and connect with new people on social media

  41. Share aware-NSPCC • www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-abuse/keeping-children-safe/share-aware Share Aware – is a campaign for parents of children aged 8-12 – it will help to reassure them, and give them everything they need to keep their children safe.

  42. What to do if your child has been affected by sexting? • Reassure them that they aren’t alone • listen and offer support – they're probably upset and need your help and advice • try not to shout or make them feel like it’s their fault • don't ask questions like "why have you done it" as this may stop them from opening up to you • discuss the problem and the wider pressures that they may face, to help them to understand what's happened • assure them that you’ll do all you can to help.

  43. Grooming and Radicalisation There’s a chance that your child may meet people online or visit websites that could lead them to adopting what maybe considered to be extreme views, and becoming radicalised. Curiosity can lead children to seek out these people, or they could be befriend by someone in order to encourage them to adopt beliefs or persuade them to join groups whose views and actions could be considered extreme.

  44. Talking about radicalisation with your child • Be approachable • Be calm and don’t get angry • Tell someone • Talk to them about their online friendships

  45. Live Streaming • A popular feature on lots of apps and platforms, allowing live broadcasting over the internet. There are live streaming platforms and social media platforms now have this as an option. • Attractive to young people appealing to their creativity • Often a confidence and ego boost especially if you get a lot of likes

  46. Risks • These activities are unpredictable and hard to moderate • They can encourager abusive and harmful behaviour • They often generate negative comments, expose personal information and unwanted contact from strangers • It is easy to lose control of content • These are not recommended for children under 13

  47. Thank You- Any Questions

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