If you really want to be successful, focus on yourself

1. If you really want to be successful, focus on yourselfAll distractions like competition, criticism, fatigue and worry are merely negative gravity-pulling forces you need to learn to ignore. Let your ego keep your id and super-ego at a reality check-point at all times. You can start now by learning to breathe.When you one decide ‘okay this is it, this is what I want to do with my life’ – visualize you are already there by writing on a wall, mirror or board what you are and who is this person you want to become. Then start planning how you are going to accomplish this. Include your pros, cons, finance alongside a timeline – Rome wasn’t built in a day, so give yourself realistic deadlines.It is part of life to learn to persevere and sweat (a lot) to attain and maintain living your dream. Whether someone gives you a step up or whether you start from scratch – there is no way better to learn how to do it than by yourself. Become a master at your skill. In order to be a master to first need to be a pupil. To be a student you will need to listen, absorb and do everything. During this learning process you will learn what works for you. This may not be something that works for your master so keep this knowledge and start to develop that to build your own niche. As your strength grows from day to day, your confidence will become stronger and you will feel more powerful. Hold that power gently and keep it under wraps. You will also compare yourself and feel competitive – when this happens, release that feeling and look at yourself and work harder on you to go forward. This will help you keep focus. As soon as you look away from what you dream of achieving you will lose focus and cause delay in your journey.Power, knowledge, strength, confidence, talent and skill are to be handled gently and used for a good purpose. Whenever any negativity creeps in, step Female Singers breathe and refocus. Negative energy is simply a disturbance drawing your eye away from the words of whom you chose to become and the dream you decided to bring to life. When using any positive manners negatively, this is when your path will take a wrong turn (and disease usually manifests). Whilst the super-ego aims for perfection and the id seeks for pleasure – the ego must balance both of these with reality and decisive methods to stay conscious, in other words by placing both feet on the ground.People constantly in the public eye like musician jobs or Musicians Wanted and have major financial success like criminal lawyers, work with their ego daily. An abundance of people flocking to see your concert and screaming your name, especially 50,000 odd, is an immense amount of energy to consume and naturally be overwhelmed by that force. Grace and humble ways are ways to receive such recognition as well as by throwing back that energy by performing harder and talking to them like you’re having a conversation with one small group of people in your front living room. If you always remind yourself that you’re dealing with each person one-on-one giving a message, telling a story or passing on advice – it’s a fantastic method of working that magic with one then let that energy bounce as you move your focus through the crowd, as you affect one, so it affects the next causing adrenaline to rush from exhilaration (also known as serotonin – kindness and happiness booster!). When that exhilaration bounces back to you as the performer, be thankful and grateful right away and smile (and again the serotonin reproduces!).Whereas a high-flying solicitor fighting for someone’s cause, has to learn to use the law for the right purpose in order to defend his or her client. The lawyer will need to be overly confident in assuring the jury and magistrate of the client’s innocence. In order to do this convincingly, the lawyer constantly creates the thought and projection that his or her argument is the truth and has valid reasons and evidence why this is so. In this scenario, the lawyer will have someone arguing the other party’s case and their cause. A lawyer must have no place for doubt in their belief no matter what odds are against them. A lawyer’s job is to bring justice before a judge. No insecure lawyer has been known to win a case let alone fearless of voicing his or her opinion. The ego is worked with differently in this way; it is built on projection of facts and persuasion methods – but all to bring the real truth forward. If used in the wrong way, well as they say only the truth sets you free and justice will always be served especially when wrongly manipulated first then revealed later. The bad guys are eventually caught!When climbing the ladder of fame and success, there are always going to be people who try to bring you down and try to stop you in doing what you believe in. As much as hard times can knock you down, they always make you stronger and more aware the next time to block these negative ways. Remember distractions and disturbances are negative energies to avoid at all times. Try to not respond, Music Jobs when you do you give away your power and focus and also invite further negative vibes (although there is nothing wrong with setting the record straight once in a while). Sometimes you have to ride against the tidal waves to reach the shore – just believe and you will be there before you know it.Use your ego to balance the dream and the drive with a dose of positivity for the greater good and you’ll be on track.‘To be or not to be, that is the question.’ William Shakespeare