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What can you do to stop bullying? . Target Bully Witness. Targets can:. Ignore the bully/avoid the bully Walk away/run away Talk to a friend Get some friends to help you Tell the teacher, tell your parents, tell the principal, tell the counselor, tell the bully’s parents
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What can you do to stop bullying? • Target • Bully • Witness
Targets can: • Ignore the bully/avoid the bully • Walk away/run away • Talk to a friend • Get some friends to help you • Tell the teacher, tell your parents, tell the principal, tell the counselor, tell the bully’s parents • Stand up for yourself • Use sense of humor, make a joke • Ask the bully a question, “Why are you picking on me?” • Get involved in some activities that make you feel good about yourself • Tell the bully how you feel • Give the bully a compliment • Laugh it off • Firmly say, “stop that”
Deputy Attorney General Rhonda Denny… who prosecutes school related crimes
Bullies can: • Learn how to handle your anger • Ask yourself “Why am I doing this?” • Get some help to feel better about yourself • Try to stop picking on someone for just one day • Recognize what you are doing • Develop a hobby or skill to help you feel better about yourself • Talk to your friends • Work hard to control your behavior • Try to get some attention by doing something good • Get some help if someone in your family is abusing you • Get some help if someone is bullying you • Pay attention to the consequences • Think about how you would feel if you were the target
Witnesses can: • Include a target in your activities • Tell an adult • Don’t laugh at bully’s behavior • Walk with target • Stand up for the target • Walk away so bully won’t have an audience • Get a group to stand up to the bully • Talk to the bully in private • Don’t repeat gossip • Support a target in private • Find out why the bully bullies/ convince the bully to stop • Comfort the target • Be friends with the bully
Do you think it is more difficult for a bully or target to change their behavior? • Bully • Target
Sympathy & Empathy • Sympathy – feel sorry for someone • Empathy – ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes even if you have never been in that situation • I.e. 13 boys in Ocean side California who shaved their heads when their classmate lost his hair because of chemotherapy
Every day you have choice… • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqUfHAOdn30&feature=related It’s up to you!!!